La Femme Mystere

[Maroon]

Free munchies indeed! But something else I've noticed with LFM only: total strangers greet me. On that fair, also in the entrance hall at the office, at the table at lunch, people will look at me, do a double take and say hello or Godday, nodding, smiling like they know me. And I've never seen them before. I kept wrecking my brains the first few times thinking where the heck do I know this guy from? At some point I realized I know none of these people, but they sure notice LFM.

[Guest cutie.pie]

Before going to a dermatologist yesterday, I had applied 2 drops of LFM on the back of my hands. I have a horrible rash on my face and I can't tell you how ugly I look at the moment. The dermatogist asked me something about the hormones and I said I gave birth to twins in 2007. and she asked why I haven't had more children because people as beautiful as me should procreate more.

Now this would be weird even if I didn't have this rash, but when someone tells me this while I'm considering wearing a bag over my head, I know it's LFM!

LFM ROCKS!

Edited March 19, 2015 by cutie.pie

[donsie]

Wow, that is a neat hit. I hope it gave you a little boost when you were feeling less than confident. I'm sorry to hear that your skin is such a problem for you ATM.

[Equinox]

I got some interesting hits from this one. One of the first times I wore it I accidentally got some on my clothes (I know this one is unscented, but I still wouldn't recommend this. While it blends indistinguishably into skin after a few seconds for me - the smell lingers on my clothes). I was at a staff meeting and a recent hire was sitting beside me. I think she got the full hit, but the head of my department was kitty corner to me at the table). Apropos of nothing the head of department was extremely complimentary of the work I had been doing during the meeting (although this was no unheard of). Meanwhile, the new hire, who has the office beside me and had never particularly noticed me before, seemed star struck after the meeting. She had been asking everyone but me out for little coffee breaks to get to know everyone. I think she figured that I was a nobody because I was a contract worker. After this meeting she came up to me in a fan girl kind of way and asked if I would go out for coffee with her and show her the ropes.

 

One thing I have noticed, though, is that I can't wear this one if I haven't had a good night's sleep before. It makes me feel very assertive - which because I'm a woman is characterized as bitchy. When I've had a good night's sleep the edges are smoothed by my natural tendency to be a people pleaser. But when I'm tired I can be a bit "my way or the highway" with this one.

 

I used LFM in a work-related setting again recently. I lost my job last year and one of the people who worked tirelessly to scupper my career emailed me out of the blue asking if we could meet. I almost said no but in the end I went for it because I decided I wanted to give him a piece of my mind. The thing is, though, that I'm an extremely mild mannered person who almost never gets involved in direct confrontations. So I put on some LFM as armour and sailed into my meeting with him. Apparently he didn't know that I was privy to all the things he said about me behind closed doors. I gave him a piece of my mind that he will not soon forget. He was just stammering and babbling and when it became clear that he had seriously misjudged me he started to get nasty. I shot down his every point with relentless logic so that he was more or less incoherent by the end. And then I got up from the table, fired my parting shot, and walked out on him. I don't know if I could have done that without LFM. Maybe. But I think the effect was more potent because of it.

 

Edited to remove some private details

Edited May 18, 2015 by Equinox

[donsie]

Ugh, that situation sounds toxic. Glad the LFM can be of some help as an armour while you're there but it also sounds like the sooner you get out the better. Take care of yourself.

[NuTrix]

I'm with Donsie - what a crap situation, maybe it's better not to be in such a snarky, back-stabbing environment! Good riddance to bad rubbish! I hope you find someplace more worthy of you and your hard work

LFM is a very, hmm, regal? pheromone blend. You took the higher road and did a smash up job doing it. He probably spent days sweeping his jaw up from the floor....

[Equinox]

Yes, the situation at my former office was definitely toxic and one nice side benefit of not being there is that chronic problems I was having with my upper back have disappeared. I'm also losing weight. I have always been thin but put on 30 lbs after I started that job and I was unable to shake it until now - when it is over and done with. That will show you what stress can do to you.

 

Anyway, I think LFM was a real help in that encounter with my former colleague. I selected it on purpose because this individual is actually very sexist and this is one of my major complaints about him, so I thought a blast of LFM would do him good. Obviously it got under his skin.

Edited May 18, 2015 by Equinox

[donsie]

Oops, sorry for misunderstanding your post. Great news that this guy is a *former* colleague and that you are actually out of that office.

[Maililyahn]

I am glad it worked out. I had that kind of experience with a co-worker as well. He was much more respectful than his normal self. (which isn't nearly as bad from the sounds of it.) Maybe I should wear some LFM soon!

[Banshee]

I wore this in la femme rouge to a company function and my boss who never I mean never compliments me on my appearance past me in the hall he literally did a double take and said something to himself and when I said excuse me I didn't hear you He gave me a shocked look like he did realize he'd said anything out loud - then he said you look really good tonight - it was like he was dumbfounded.. The following Monday he can up and hugged me and said he wanted to tell me how much I reminded him of Stevie Nicks when I was dancing- I said I'll take that as a compliment and he said that's how he ment it- the crazy thing is I look nothing like Stevie Nicks but that's the kinda "vibe" I was feeling- and he went out of his way to talk to me all week.. Full bottle next order for sure ?

[johnsonlisa90012]

I'm a little concerned about the aloof factor in this and I have an entire bottle of this coming with UNE mixed and another sample of LP Rouge with this. How can I warm up the LFM so that I am seen as approachable??

[donsie]

I'm a little concerned about the aloof factor in this and I have an entire bottle of this coming with UNE mixed and another sample of LP Rouge with this. How can I warm up the LFM so that I am seen as approachable??

Welcome! I suggest you not worry about it at this point as this is not a usual or common thing with LFM; it is just a fluke a small number of people report occasionally. I think in the first instance you should give your lovely new pheros several tries in different company and see how you get on. Try this before you even start to worry about anything like needing to make yourself seem more approachable. The overwhelming likelihood is that LFM will be just perfect and brilliant for you, especially once you find your sweet spot.

 

Excellent choice of scent with Une!

Edited April 7, 2015 by donsie

[halo0073]

Yes I agree with Donsie. Don't worry about it before you test it. Just worrying about it can skew your results. Try not to have preconceived notions about anything you are testing. Every phero blend behaves differently on every person. I personally have never had the aloofness problem with any LP.

[donsie]

Yep. Just set it and (try to) forget it. Let the results manifest naturally. You might find that on reflection you notice hits that weren't apparent in the moment, too. That's part of what I find so useful about these boards: they offer advice from other people but also a space to reflect on one's own experiences.

[missdarlyncherie]

I'm running late so I don't have time for dets but I wanted to chime in real quick! I have had two great experiences with LFM recently...both being the complete opposite of the "aloof experience" that Johnsonlisa is wary of. Two different circumstances both very out of character *warm* *stars in the eyes* reception. Like Donsie said...didn't even think about it at the time, just connected the dots later....

[johnsonlisa90012]

I just realized that I ordered this as follows:

 

Pherogirl, with LFM booster, in 60/40 spray (so there will be cops).

 

Is this going to be a problem? I'm really not noticing anything with cops, probably because I'm post menopausal and this just puts me back to where I was before my hysterectomy. That said, if I reorder, should I eliminate the cops and then just put those on as a layer seperately?

 

LJ

[Bella15]

I would mainly be careful about not getting it in your hair or on your clothes.. spray it carefully and let it dry down before you get dressed.

[Guest cutie.pie]

I agree with Bella... Have you tried La Femme Noire? It's LFM + none + cops.

[johnsonlisa90012]

^^Definitely, I've found with different Pheros location is important.

For me, I rarely put the socials on the tummy anymore. I find arms and neck more effective in spreading the cheer. I use Gotcha that way as well.

Just remember your also more subject to the Pheros influence as well, the higher up you wear them. Of course with LFM that's a good thing.

My LFM is arriving today mixed with Pherogirl (so cops). Big night planned where I will run into tons of people.

 

What is the best placement people have found for LFM with cops added? And it is spray so how many sprays?

[StacyK]

I have 2x LFM spray and I use 3 sprays.

 

As for the added cops, I think you're fine as long as you keep the spray off your face area and hair. I think because of the cops and the added scent of Phero Girl, I'd test on my skin only, before clothes. You don't know yet if you are going to mind the smell on your clothes.

[johnsonlisa90012]

Got it! Thanks. Anxiously waiting for mail man!!!

[halo0073]

Definitely don't put Cops on your clothes!

[johnsonlisa90012]

NAILED IT! I WAS MADE FOR LFM!

 

So perhaps I may have overapplied. No matter.

 

I used my UN LFM with COPs with Une cover on my torso. Never even smelled that. But ah ha! I had the trial of Rouge with LFM (no cops) which I added to an atomizer with 2 vials also of alcohol. I also did a little dab of LAM brown sugar on my wrists (but never smelled that either). Finally, I sprayed the Rouge on my hair and neck and away I went.

 

Immediately had a few long looks when I arrived at my destination (but I was wearing a colorful dress). Didn't seem to turn off my female friends--in fact, they said I smelled great (but again, the only thing anyone could smell was the rouge. But whooppee.. .man I had met a few weeks ago who was in the band made eye contact, chatted me up and later asked me out. For those keeping score (as well as my Mother). . this is the first time I have been asked out in 18 months. OMG. . ..MARA! I owe you big time!

 

I did feel a tad bit disconnected, but as a newbie, I was looking for signs that this worked. I forget about "set it and forget it" and I was probably staring intently in everyone's eyes like a crazy lady. But I now have a man who has my phone number so as far as I am concerned, this is my new holy grail!!!

[Guest cutie.pie]

Awwww Lisa, I'm so happy for you!!!! :)

 

LFM rocks! And Mara too!

[donsie]

YAY!

 

You must have smelled good enough to eat!

[ephoebe23]

Awesome review Johnsonlisa90012! Great hit, it seems that LFM delivered as expected You must have smelled delicious too!

 

I want to be asked out too

Such a dry spell over here... Venus is in my sign though since yesterday so i hope things will brighten up!

[NuTrix]

NAILED IT! I WAS MADE FOR LFM!

 

But I now have a man who has my phone number so as far as I am concerned, this is my new holy grail!!!

 

Hehehe...this was your FIRST blatant hit...just wait 'til the rest start...you'll have an arsenal of "holy grails" for every situation

 

Congrats!

 

[StacyK]

NAILED IT! I WAS MADE FOR LFM!

 

So perhaps I may have overapplied. No matter.

 

I used my UN LFM with COPs with Une cover on my torso. Never even smelled that. But ah ha! I had the trial of Rouge with LFM (no cops) which I added to an atomizer with 2 vials also of alcohol. I also did a little dab of LAM brown sugar on my wrists (but never smelled that either). Finally, I sprayed the Rouge on my hair and neck and away I went.

 

 

Immediately had a few long looks when I arrived at my destination (but I was wearing a colorful dress). Didn't seem to turn off my female friends--in fact, they said I smelled great (but again, the only thing anyone could smell was the rouge. But whooppee.. .man I had met a few weeks ago who was in the band made eye contact, chatted me up and later asked me out. For those keeping score (as well as my Mother). . this is the first time I have been asked out in 18 months. OMG. . ..MARA! I owe you big time!

 

I did feel a tad bit disconnected, but as a newbie, I was looking for signs that this worked. I forget about "set it and forget it" and I was probably staring intently in everyone's eyes like a crazy lady. But I now have a man who has my phone number so as far as I am concerned, this is my new holy grail!!!

Sounds like you're having fun with it.

I'm confused, is it boosted with Une or Pherogirl? in previous posts you mentioned Pherogirl.

 

I've only had one notably negative reaction from a woman in response to heavy cops, but LFM has always delivered for me all around.

[skye]

Oh LFM. You're so much fun to wear. This makes people so chatty and bubbly. I stopped on the way to work this morning to buy cigarettes (ya ya I know! but everytime I quit I gain 20 lbs and my new vape hasn't arrived yet) and the 2 guys in store were all flirty and telling me jokes

 

BTW did you hear about the kiddnapping outside this morning? Ya, I told that kid he couldn't sleep here. (groan)

 

(Half a bottle left. Time for a reorder.)

[StacyK]

So I wore LFM to get my daughter a new phone. I'd been looking online and called ATT. I called a couple of the stores in my area. One guy was fairly helpful. One was a Dick, absolutely refused to help unless I came in. One guy was helpful no BS. After I got off the phone I thought wow what if I spray on a little LFM and go see him. Bingo.

 

Got an awesome deal, the offer from ATT came with a "free" tablet, which I was going to pass on. The guy waved all the activation charges for me and created a bundle for me with a phone case and one of those new tempered glass screen covers. LFM.. I love you!!

 

Foot note, in addition to the deal the guy was just super helpful offering a lot of info (not product) on the technology and what gives you what for the money. Not the usual babble about oh this is so much better. .blah. ..but factual information. What a difference.

Edited May 6, 2015 by StacyK

[Beach Goddess]

Awesome review Johnsonlisa90012! Great hit, it seems that LFM delivered as expected You must have smelled delicious too!

 

I want to be asked out too

Such a dry spell over here... Venus is in my sign though since yesterday so i hope things will brighten up!

ephoebe, you and me both! Just remember Marilyn Monroe was a gemini and was loved by many but didn't always feel it.

 

So, had a dr's appt today and slathered with trusty scented LFM to deliver. As usual, all responded sooo nicely - warm, welcomingly, very attentive etc. The doctor and assistant even insisted that I call them ... bc I hadn't been calling. But what dr's office does that - i.e. ask you to CALL and even insist. They both told me like 3x to call them whenever I felt like it. Not bc anything is wrong, all is well.

 

After, had to run a bunch of errands and went to this Japanese place for take-out. The guy at the desk was on the phone taking an order, put the person on hold to take my order and apologized that he had been on the phone taking an order. Huh? I had just walked in and had expected to wait in line.

 

This dude had come in after me, and as I was 1st in line and I didn't know what I wanted to order, I offered him to go ahead of me. He was total DIHL. I mean stammering, etc. Needless to say, he wanted me to go first with my order. I saw him trying to gather his thoughts and he really couldn't. Seriously. He stared at me, back at the menu on the wall, then back at me. The entire time the guy taking orders was waiting for me and was falling over himself to ensure he got the order right. I mean this was take-out... but he definitely wanted to make sure I was happy. He was cute and flirty. Oh, and for some reason he seemed so happy when I was like, please just make it ala Hibachi. He was like, 'we can do that' and was so happy about it.... so pleased with himself. I cannot express how casual this place is and how most of the people who work there are college students so they really couldn't care if someone gets their vegetables 'right'. I only ordered one dish, right off the menu.

 

When I came back (I had to run to the grocery store during), he ran from the back of the place to the front to 'deliver' my order to me. Then he spent like 3 minutes telling me about the sauces etc. and where to find them.

 

This place is quick Japanese takeout (also has in-room dining but is VERY casual), but he acted like I was a VIP in a 5 star restaraunt.

 

Amazing LFM.

 

I know this was all the work of LFM as I was in my errand attire -i.e.random top, jeans, and messy bun on top of head. This may not sound like 'hits' or whatever, but I was there maybe 10 minutes. It was totally LFM. I could get used to this red carpet treatment everywhere I go! (note to self to find that sweet spot with LFM)

[Guest cutie.pie]

Note to myself-- wearing LFM while I'm PMSing makes me weepy

[donsie]

Note to myself-- wearing LFM while I'm PMSing makes me weepy

 

Aaaw, poor thing. Feel better soon.

Edited May 28, 2015 by donsie

[johnsonlisa90012]

I wore LFM to traffic court yesterday to try to get my daughter's $900 ticket reduced. Needless to say, LFM may not work when the bee-yotch is behind glass. First time that I haven't felt like working out a "compromise" while wearing LFM. . .

[Guest cutie.pie]

 

Aaaw, poor thing. Feel better soon.

 

Thank you sweetie

 

I wore LFM to traffic court yesterday to try to get my daughter's $900 ticket reduced. Needless to say, LFM may not work when the bee-yotch is behind glass. First time that I haven't felt like working out a "compromise" while wearing LFM. . .

 

I'm sorry you weren't able to reduce the ticket...

[Beach Goddess]

Note to myself-- wearing LFM while I'm PMSing makes me weepy

Hi cutiepie, do you notice that with any other blends with EST? I have the same issue on certain PMS cycles (even my PMS moodiness is inconsistent from cycle to cycle), that I *think* it's the EST that can make me feel all weepy or just plain uber vulnerable.

 

I don't know for sure that's it, but noticed this with Lumina and LFM on separate occassions. Not always a bad thing because sometimes when you have PMS a good cry is very helpful!

[Guest cutie.pie]

Hi cutiepie, do you notice that with any other blends with EST? I have the same issue on certain PMS cycles (even my PMS moodiness is inconsistent from cycle to cycle), that I *think* it's the EST that can make me feel all weepy or just plain uber vulnerable.

 

I don't know for sure that's it, but noticed this with Lumina and LFM on separate occassions. Not always a bad thing because sometimes when you have PMS a good cry is very helpful!

Hm... I haven't noticed it before. Probably because my period comes and goes as it wants, so I have a feeling like I'm always having PMS But this time (2-3 days before my period 'arrived') I was wearing LFM and was extra weepy.

[StacyK]

Est doesn't bother me. But I don't wear Gotcha during the first 3 days of my period.

I also won't wear it more than 2 days in a row.

 

I love Gotcha and get great hits and selfies from in but too much or the wrong timing and I feel over sensitive.

[livinginparadise]

LFM wears almost like Cougar on me...but with a bit more spark! I find sales associates are super friendly and really go out of their way to make sure I receive excellent customer service.

 

Today was one of those days... but each and every time it happens I can't help but smile... love my LFM spray!

[NuTrix]

I find sales associates are super friendly and really go out of their way to make sure I receive excellent customer service.

 

Yes! This! ^^^

 

I was wearing La Sylphide Friday with an extra boost of Un LFM and got 2 discounted items at the place I was shopping. 1 was $38 knocked down to $20! The manager went with me around the store telling me they were looking to reduce inventory and everything I touched she was all, "I can give you this for xxx" or "I can take off xxx for that for you...". There were other customers, but she was glued to me. I wore this blend SPACIFICALY because this is what happens when I wear it. LFM is AWESOME like that I will TOTALLY wear it car shopping in the near future as well

 

The only thing I need to tweak about it is that, when I wear it solo, I feel more aloof. Not unfriendly, just not as out going or say "sparkly" as with Cougar or BANG! and some other blends.