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So this morning I popped into town for a few errands, and naturally I had to swing by Starbuck's for my caffeeine fix & kick start my brain. I wore less LAM than what I normally do (only applied on my abdomen & cleavage/neck whereas I normally also put some on my wrists) and given how successful this combo was I'm wondering if I normally wear too much LAM or if it was the combo itself that was "da bomb"...

 

Anyways... I get to Starbuck's and it's really full with a looong line. As I go to stand in the queue the man in front of me, in his mid-thirties, briefly glances back & gives me a blank look (neither interested nor un-interested, just blank) but then turns his back on me again.

 

I had powerwalked to Starbuck's so even though I wasn't sweating, I was warm and definitively helping the phero's to diffuse :)

After about 5 minutes I notice that the man infront of me is glancing at me. He initially turns sideways and looks at me, then turns fully towards me, now with his back to the queue. I ignore the fact that he's staring, and pretend to intensely watch the display of cakes.

 

"Soooo....they really have a lot of yummy things to look at here, don't they?" I hear the man say. I look up at him and nod. "What do you think looks the most tempting then?"

he asks with a smile. I sigh, smile and explain that unfortunately I can't eat any of it as I'm a coeliac. When the man wonders what "coeliac" means I proceed to explain to him with the disgusting detail only a medic can do what coeliacs disease is, and what happens if I eat something with flour in it...and I mean all the disgusting details including bloody diarrhoea & gas :Troll-stalking: Now, if it hadn't been morning & I had already had coffee to kickstart my brain I would probably have censored my response a bit...but I didn't...

 

The man doesn't seem to be put off though as he continues to chat about this & that with a big smile on his face. As it becomes his turn to order he tells the barista he wants a plain coffee then looks at me and asks me what I'm having :) Huhh? Why the heck are you asking me that for? I look at him for a second then tell him I'll have my usual, a "venti White chocolate mocca with extra whipped cream". The barista then smiles and asks if "those are together?" to which she gets 2 instantaneous replies; "Yes" [man] "no" [me]

 

The poor barista looks confused.... The man looks at me and says; "Oh, please, let me get that for you" I'm stunned but manage to point to the door and mumble "Oh, but I can't stay, I'm on my ways to..." He just smiles at me, tilts his head and pleads; "Oh, come on, please let me buy you a coffee?" :rolleyes: He then pays the barista and tells me to put my wallet away. I'm not quite sure what to do so I give him an embarrased smile and say "Thank you, that's very nice of but you really don't have to. Usually if someone buys me a drink I at least stay and chat to them"

 

The man then replies "Oh, don't worry about that" He then grabs his plain coffee, gives me a huge smile, slips a business card in my hand and walks off...as he walks out the door he turns around, smiles and winks at me :wit3:

 

As I'm standing there waiting for my coffee to be handed over to me (with everyone giggling & staring at me & my pink cheeks) I can't help but wonder how the heck this man went from barely acknowledging me behind him in the queue to buying me a coffee and handing me his business card :) This is one potent combo!!!

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Well certainly! Super Sexy and LAM? I'm surprised he didn't say there wasn't anything more tempting than YOU in that pastry case! So...does he have potential? Or is Hunkalicious still blinding you to all others? :)

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Well certainly! Super Sexy and LAM? I'm surprised he didn't say there wasn't anything more tempting than YOU in that pastry case! So...does he have potential? Or is Hunkalicious still blinding you to all others? ;)

 

Meeehh.... He was quite handsome but he was American just here on business for a while... ANd sadly I think Hunkalicious is still blinding me to others

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Well certainly! Super Sexy and LAM? I'm surprised he didn't say there wasn't anything more tempting than YOU in that pastry case! So...does he have potential? Or is Hunkalicious still blinding you to all others? :rolleyes:

 

Fun combo...I must try it :lol:

 

Lol@ luna...nicely said. hehehe

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These are two of my favorites, I can't wait to try them together.

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Rosebud, have I told you today you are darling??

 

xoxo

 

Hehe....are you referring to my flushed cheeks?

I really wish I had more "Dolly in me" if that makes sense... I'm alot better than what I used to be in that if I really like someone I can psych myself up and go flirt... But if guys flirt with me, or pays me compliments I get caught off guard and don't quite know how to respond...so I get embarressed & don't know what to do :rolleyes:

 

It's funny how that is really... In many areas of my life I'm really confident in myself & what I can do and if I want someting I go for it. But anything to with men or my heart and I still feel & act like a darn 14 year old with butterflies in my tummy & who blushes if a cute guy looks at me. I was a tomboy growing up, and I think having pursued the career that I did I'm now continuing as a "grown up tomboy"...always hanging out with the lads and trying to be as good as them. I do love what I do, and I like working in a male dominated field but it's also really easy to hide behind the tomboy stereotype rather than break free from it & work on my self-esteem & self-confidence in terms of matters of the heart and allowing myself to be feminine...

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Hehe....are you referring to my flushed cheeks?

I really wish I had more "Dolly in me" if that makes sense... I'm alot better than what I used to be in that if I really like someone I can psych myself up and go flirt... But if guys flirt with me, or pays me compliments I get caught off guard and don't quite know how to respond...so I get embarressed & don't know what to do :go:

 

It's funny how that is really... In many areas of my life I'm really confident in myself & what I can do and if I want someting I go for it. But anything to with men or my heart and I still feel & act like a darn 14 year old with butterflies in my tummy & who blushes if a cute guy looks at me. I was a tomboy growing up, and I think having pursued the career that I did I'm now continuing as a "grown up tomboy"...always hanging out with the lads and trying to be as good as them. I do love what I do, and I like working in a male dominated field but it's also really easy to hide behind the tomboy stereotype rather than break free from it & work on my self-esteem & self-confidence in terms of matters of the heart and allowing myself to be feminine...

 

Sweetie, I imagine that being "caught off guard" is extremely charming to the fellows!! Guys don't always want a ball-buster!! AND, as I've read your posts over the last few months, it sounds like you're doing a great job on pushing your limits and stretching out of your comfort-zone in the area of relationships with men!!

 

I'm coming right over to hang out!! *wish I could*

 

ETA: Not that a fully confident woman is a ball-buster!! Oh no...sometimes they like us to take charge. What I mean is that the "flustered innocence" is also so attractive!! That's the area I wish I could bring forth in myself, even though I'm completely and blissfully happy with Mr. Goddess, I sometimes miss the "back and forth" of flirting!!

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  • 2 years later...

OLD thread! Haha! I was reading this the other day and wondered if anyone still wore these together? I know we're not supposed to mix the phero blends, but that adding cops or alpha-nol is supposed to be okay - so what about this? If I wore LAM & MRF together, is it okay?

I wanted to check before I just went ahead & did it.

 

I have to go to a punk show tonight, (BF is playing his own original stuff for the first time! YAY! :D ), and I suspect some of the much younger hotties from his place of employment might turn up - so I'm finding myself wanting a *real* edge so that I don't feel like a fat, old chick! Especially given that I'm PMSing, feel bloated, ugly and not really in the mood for a punk rock show. I not only need a pick-me-up, I need a super-sexy, confidence-boosting pick-me-up, too.

 

So do I hear a yea? Nay? A why-the-hell not? A better suggestion?

 

Help please? I'm having a moment of decision-making distress. :Blusher:

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Yeah I think it would be okay if you really want to add cops to the mix. They shouldn't clash necessarily, although SS4W works wonders on its own, truly.

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Thanks Luna. I know it does - I had a great time with it last weekend. (I think I'm having a coronary here!). I really, really don't want people looking at me and wondering what the hell my hot 10-years younger boyfriend is thinking! I certainly don't want him looking at me, side-by-side with the hot girls he works with and flirts with, and wondering the same thing! I'm having a moment of extreme insecurity about the whole thing, which is super-dumb because he's so excited that I have the night off, and am able to go. I need to breathe... thank you for the reassurance.

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Thanks Calii! It's so funny - I feel like I'm doing a bad, bad thing combining the two. I s'pose I could just wear an Occo. I'm leaning toward LAM 'cause it's the one that made my un-compliment-y boyfriend compliment my appearance twice in one week. Plus, I've had a long couple of days at work, and I'm super-sleepy; I figured I could use a little boost from the extra Alpha-nol. I'm supposed to be a sexy punk-rock chick tonight, and all I really want to do is put on my jammies and some fuzzy socks, and curl up on the couch with the cats! Ooh... that's sooo sad!

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Ooh... that's sooo sad!

You don't have to be the life of the party every day, after all. As Quince likes to say, "I used to have a very noisy life, now I prefer a quiet one."

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Yes, this is me, too. I prefer quiet. I'm a homebody. Unless I'm traveling, that is. It's the forced-party thing. It's his first show where he'll be playing his originals, and he's so excited that I don't want to be a downer. I had a nap though, so I'm a bit more with-it. Maybe not life-of-the-party with-it, but at least I'm awake. ;)

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Inquiring minds want to know :lol:

...by the by,I know the scent is GGG but Captivation Equation is LAM in a spray...this is a never ever fail total happy juice on me and for all around me... A-Nol and Cops is a powerful combo!

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Inquiring minds want to know :lol:

...by the by,I know the scent is GGG but Captivation Equation is LAM in a spray...this is a never ever fail total happy juice on me and for all around me... A-Nol and Cops is a powerful combo!

 

I made a couple of my different LAM scents into spray.....it works when your man is sitting across the living room and you want to make him get closer.....

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I've been waiting all day to write a review of this, but I'm afraid it may seem a little disjointed, since my boyfriend is *awfully* pumped and chatty about how incredibly well his band's show went last night, and he's bound to keep interrupting my train of thought. So apologies for that, but in all his excitement, he's just too cute to ignore...

 

 

So I put my MRF/LAM on, and walked down to the bar where BF was playing and the minute I walked through the door, he was at my side, hugging me, kissing me and asking if he could get me a beer. Now, anyone who's read my other reviews and posts knows that my BF is not exactly a snuggly or affectionate guy, nor is he a fan of public displays of affection. So you could say that his behaviour was extremely out of character. Whether that was due to my pheros, or his excitement about playing, I don't know. But he did come sit with me to watch the opening band, which was also out of character - and he was touching me! He's usually completely hands-off in public. Normally he'd be making the rounds, so to speak, talking to all the people he invited. Not last night. He was at my side the entire night, except, obviously, for the time he was on-stage.

 

I have to say that this mixture is POTENT. Every time guys I knew walked through the door, they seemed to make a beeline for me. At no point last night was I without the company of a male, whether it was my BF, his buddies, some of my old guy pals, or guys I didn't even know. Men and women were introducing themselves to me all over the place, including some of BF's young, hottie co-workers - the ones I was worried about! And the women who were at my table seemed to enjoy my company quite a bit, too. There were DIHL everywhere, and I kept catching guys checking me out - even BF's band-mates.

 

Later in the evening we had a friend's birthday party to go to. When we arrived, two band-mates from BF's other band came directly toward me for hugs! One wouldn't let me go! The DIHL and sly looks continued throughout the entire party. It was really quite something. At one point I noticed that the drummer from BF's main band, (the band that played last night), was following me around! If I was inside by the bar, he was by the bar, when I went outside, he followed seconds later, if I was on the sofa, there he was on the chair beside it, or standing behind me.

 

All in all, it was a super-fun night. It was like I was either everyone's best old pal, or the girl they can't have. Seriously. This is *my* popularity potion. It affected men and women alike, and all the extra attention gave me the l'il boost of confidence I needed, especially considering how crappy I felt yesterday. People were calling my name at the bar, and at the party afterwards. I've said this before, though I can't remember where but it made me feel like Norm, from Cheers, only prettier.

 

Funny thing: for all my nervousness about BF's cute co-workers, it wasn't any of them who seemed to 'shine' for him; it was his drummer's mother, who he hadn't met until last night!!! And yeah, she *is* pretty damned hot. And oddly enough, the fact that he has a crush on his friend's mom made me feel better, because he's not just attracted to women younger than me, which was my fear, (since I'm 10 years his senior), he really does find older women attractive, too. And being reminded of that, (coupled with his extra-affectionate actions), sort of soothed the feathers that have been ruffled these past few months. I know: weird.

 

Anyway, to top it all off, I had an extremely awesome wake-up this morning, and have been treated to a happy BF who has been over-the-moon about the awesomeness of his show last night, and strangely starry-eyed about *me*, all day.

 

This will not be the last time I wear this combination. I cannot overstate how much fun I had last night. This sh*t rocks. :D

 

Sorry about all the bad grammar & spelling mistakes. BF's chatting my ear off as I type this. Over and out.

 

ETA that I forgot to say that this mix made me feel like I do when I'm really 'on', which is a miracle in itself, because before I put it on, I was exhausted, edgy, and wanted to be anything BUT 'on'.

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TOTALLY AWESOME !!! ... I am completely thrilled for you :) :) :):hearts09793: He was so obviously "showing off his woman" ...ohhhh this just warms my heart :abfx: win-win for you both !

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Thanks Calii, Mara! I had a lot of fun with the pheros. A lot of fun. And the BF's band just killed it. It was so awesome! He's been talking about it non-stop since the minute he took his guitar off. And I'm so proud of him I could BURST! :001_302:

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  • 2 weeks later...

I made a couple of my different LAM scents into spray.....it works when your man is sitting across the living room and you want to make him get closer.....

 

Sorry Dolly - I meant to comment on this before, and I kept forgetting. I actually wondered if this is how I should get my Perfect Match UN - in a spray. BF and I are usually across the room from each other, (due to the seating arrangement in our house and the fact that he's wired to the XBox), and I wondered if using the spray would have a better effect than the oil. I know everyone says 'oil's better for intimate encounters' but if he's so far away, (and hard to wrestle into a hug), I keep thinking the spray would be better at getting his attention. I don't think I'd use a spray on a day out with him, but at home, I kinda think it might be the better option.

 

I like the idea of using a LAM spray for the same reason - and does he ever love the LAM!

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I have PM in a spray and like it :) ...but personally think LAM is best in the oil,the cops are strong on me with the scent being light <brown sugar> much easier cover...with a dab of, ta da...MRF! :001_302:

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I don't know what it is about the LAM- maybe the cops? - but the LAM gets BF off his duff and makes him all touchy-feely, (SO NOT LIKE HIM!). It works even with the oil, so maybe I'd better not mess with that. It already seems to hit him like a brick.

But you like the PM in spray, huh? I kept thinking I'd get it in oil first, and if that doesn't reach out and grab him, then I'd try it in a spray. Ugh... decisions, decisions...

Tonight I'm taking the LAM/MRF train again. ;) I like that mix.

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Incredible. Wore this to BF's gig on Saturday night, and it did exactly the same thing as it did the last time I wore this combo. I will be wearing SS4W+LAM to future gigs, because it seems to help me hit exactly the right notes of 'sexy' and 'fun' for that scene. The self-effects help me feel 'on', even though both times I've worn it, I didn't want to be 'on'. I feel youthful, and sexy, and my mood elevates so that I feel as though I'm glowing, and I absolutely love it.

 

The LAM part of the combo makes BF physically affectionate, and compliment-y, (the way I expected him to respond to Cuddle Bunny), and since he is generally neither, I love his reaction to this, too. His reaction has the effect of making me feel wanted, which is the total opposite of how his normal hands-off leaves me feeling. I felt his eyes on me as we were sitting across the patio from each other, talking to different people - and of course, when I'd look over at him, he'd smile a big smile, and mouth, "Are you okay over there?", (because I was sitting with some people I didn't know). So that was pretty darned cute. And later on, at his friend's house, he sat beside me on the couch, and draped my legs across his lap AND put his arm around my shoulders! I still can't believe that he's actually started touching me 'in public' now. It's so unusual for him that the first couple of times he did it, (when I first started using pheromones), I actually backed away from him and asked him what he was doing! Now I just settle in and enjoy it. Feels awesome.

 

Anyway... as we were heading into the house after our night out, BF remarked, "What got into you tonight? You were hilarious!"

I don't know... this combo makes me feel sexually confident, and verbally ballsy. Apparently that translates to 'hilarious'. I'll take it.

 

I'm giving this LAM/MRF(SS4W) combo 11 thumbs up. Yes. Eleven. Like the volume knob in Spinal Tap.

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Incredible. Wore this to BF's gig on Saturday night, and it did exactly the same thing as it did the last time I wore this combo. I will be wearing SS4W+LAM to future gigs, because it seems to help me hit exactly the right notes of 'sexy' and 'fun' for that scene. The self-effects help me feel 'on', even though both times I've worn it, I didn't want to be 'on'. I feel youthful, and sexy, and my mood elevates so that I feel as though I'm glowing, and I absolutely love it.

 

The LAM part of the combo makes BF physically affectionate, and compliment-y, (the way I expected him to respond to Cuddle Bunny), and since he is generally neither, I love his reaction to this, too. His reaction has the effect of making me feel wanted, which is the total opposite of how his normal hands-off leaves me feeling. I felt his eyes on me as we were sitting across the patio from each other, talking to different people - and of course, when I'd look over at him, he'd smile a big smile, and mouth, "Are you okay over there?", (because I was sitting with some people I didn't know). So that was pretty darned cute. And later on, at his friend's house, he sat beside me on the couch, and draped my legs across his lap AND put his arm around my shoulders! I still can't believe that he's actually started touching me 'in public' now. It's so unusual for him that the first couple of times he did it, (when I first started using pheromones), I actually backed away from him and asked him what he was doing! Now I just settle in and enjoy it. Feels awesome.

 

Anyway... as we were heading into the house after our night out, BF remarked, "What got into you tonight? You were hilarious!"

I don't know... this combo makes me feel sexually confident, and verbally ballsy. Apparently that translates to 'hilarious'. I'll take it.

 

I'm giving this LAM/MRF(SS4W) combo 11 thumbs up. Yes. Eleven. Like the volume knob in Spinal Tap.

 

That's AWESOME Eggers!!

I can't wear MRF :( but I will try my LAM Pink Amber and UnSS4W next time I have the opportunity. I am very interested in this combo...

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  • 1 month later...

Wore this combo out again last night, to watch my BF's bass player's other band play a show. It's a good going-out-to-rock-out mix.

When Bass Player's band finished, he came over to where we were standing and exclaimed, 'Oh my God! Eggers! You came!'. :blink: He immediately got all blushy and giggly and shifty-eyed and shifty-footed, like he was embarrassed about having wondered if I *would* be there. It was super-cute. 39 years old and still making boys blush. B)

 

My boyfriend's other buddy kept leaning in to sniff me, and at one point asked what kind of gum I was chewing. I told him, 'Cinnamon.' He frowned, and continued sniffing away for another hour or so, until finally he said, 'I got it! You smell like a s'more!' :lol: This is the friend I mentioned in one of my posts above, who was following me around. Think he's a little crushed-out on me: whenever he calls BF to jam, (or do whatever else boys do), he always asks if I want to come too! I always hear BF say into the phone things like, 'Uh... no, she's not coming. She has to work,' or 'She's going out with her own friends.' :lol: BF hasn't mentioned it to me, but I can tell his buddy's little crush sort of amuses him - he always chuckles and gives his head a tiny shake whenever this particular friend says or does something weird concerning me, and then slips his arm around me or rubs my back or something like that.

 

I'd like to think this is all down to me, but it's really a cumulative effect of all this MRF & LAM I've been wearing. I love this pairing. :wub:

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Thanks Calii! No, I haven't tried S'More Than A Feeling yet, but it immediately popped into my head when he made that comment. I had to go look it up again this morning - looks yummy! I have to add it to my growing list of samples to order now... ;) *sigh* So much perfume, so little time...

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  • 1 year later...

I just had to share because I do believe I had my first real "hits" and it was with this combo.

 

I wore it to work this morning and everyone was very chatty and touchy with me (I work with a bunch of guys). One of my co-workers came to my desk to ask about a report and he looked tongue tied. He's sort of that way to begin with but I told him that I would look for what he needed and he thanked me so I went back to work on the computer thinking he was leaving. I looked up after a few seconds and he was just standing there, staring with that DIHL I hear about. I looked up at him because I thought maybe he needed something more because he looked... confused. He just looks at me and says "I think I'll get going now", waits another few seconds and then turns and leaves. It was actually kind of cute. Then, about an hour later, another co-worker (who's probably about 30) totally gave me this huge smile and good morning when I walked by him. As I passed, I remembered I needed to ask him something and when I turned around, I caught him watching me, still smiling!! He's cute too, very nice blue eyes. Well, I totally lost my train of thought at that and just smiled and kept walking. And that was just a couple of the things that happened today out of the ordinary. It really kept occurring all day long even though I was super busy and couldn't enjoy the moments as much.

 

It seems to work on women though too. My leader has always been an admittedly reserved person and it was so difficult for me to talk with her for months but since I've been wearing this (last week), she has been super chatty, laughing and even shared some family pictures with me today. It's been great getting to see that side of her and it's completely different working for her. It's comfortable and friendly and I don't feel the wall that I felt for months in the past. Mind you, I've worked my tail off to do a good job and she's said I help make her life easier but the atmosphere has no tension in it and I've truly been enjoying my job.

 

So, I think I will be wearing this when I need that extra boost. This is the first phero/combo where I really do think I've seen some noticeable hits. I was starting to feel the grind wearing me down at work but with everyone enjoying my brown sugar sphere, even these ten hour days are going by with much more enjoyment. I won't be able to help myself so I know already what I'll be wearing tomorrow!

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