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Question to revive this thread- are you all wearing BANG! in Odalisque in oil, or would you say it's okay to ever use this blend in a spray? it has cops, so is it a bad idea to use it in spray?

So LFM is hands down my favorite HG hero. Its just my go-to when I definitely want to feel confident and it nets me admiration from those around me - though I must say I'm guilty of often pairing it … I often to the LFM/Gotcha pairing that someone in another thread discovered a few years ago, and I've never had a negative response that stood out to me. Sometimes I (and when I type this out it sounds dumb and incongruent, oops) add Open Windows to another part of my body further away, but so far it hasn't seemed to ruin things. So that all to say that LFM for me is always great, always successful, gets people to fawn over you, and hasn't given me a bad OD. SS4W I haven't worn in a long time but it always used to give me a sexy flirty, but not sexual, vibe, and make me seem fun for those around me. Cougar often gets me the man drool - my only complaint is the scent of scented Cougar seems so strong (grapefruit etc) to me that if I spray more than twice people seem to react as if I am bathed in perfume, went overboard with the spritzer. Pop potion used to net me positive effects when I wore it, but nothing notable so I put it down. I just got some Star Power, so I will go back into the world and test and then report back!

Wait, you wear all three together??! H&S+LFM+SS4W? Or you do two at a time, pairing H&S with either just LFM/N or just SS4W? I'm curious to know how those pairings tweeks the aura of heart & soul, please shar!

Hi Loves, I'm hoping you can help me concoct a blend effect for a specific situation! I'm essentially trying to foster an upbeat, socially magnetic and sexy glow vibe (think SS4W) within an air of deeper romantically bonding & attached attraction (think Perfect Match). BUT....is the combo of wearing SS4W + PM too complex to layer at one time? If so, I was thinking maybe adding BAM + SS4W, but not sure if the cops in bam take super sexy's sexuality too far.. I also have in arsenal: BAM, Lace, La femme mystere, Blatant Invitation, H&S, and TH. I've considered: - sS4W + BAM - LACE + PM, with a smidge of cops - LFM + SS4W - LFM + Lace -LFM + PM. I feel like adding Topper to my perfect match sounds like what I need, but i don't have that blend :/. If you have insight I would love to hear it! I do enjoy adding cops to my PM, but I feel like doing that just adds the sexpot to it, not the magnetic fun sexy to it. Alas, we're never quite happy with what we've got are we.. hehe

Thinking of adding some depth and bonding to the sexy playfulness of SS4W.... Has anyone tried the combos of SS4W + Gotcha, by any chance? or also considering SS4W + Perfect Match? Then again, if those are too complex of mixtures, maybe just adding BAM! with the bnol could do the trick, I'm trying to balance the sexiness with a desire for emotional/deeper closeness as well..

So I have a similar "happy potion" self effect from wearing Lace, and love the carefree vibe it creates around me, but I'd like to see if I could mix that happy sexy vibe with a deeper intimate connection vibe.... anyone tried/think it would work to combine Lace + BAM? just to add some bnol... or Lace + Treasured Hearts + cops?

Queen of swords - Do you mean you like to bear LFM + Treasured hearts, or la femme noire + treasured hearts? I've been considering testing out LFM + TH, not sure though if "admiration and awe" clashed too much with the TH intent of reducing intimidation..

ps update, sooooo over this situation!!

Has anyone tried to layer/combine LFM with Cuddle Bunny? I'm thinking admired and respected + adored, possibly similar to the LFM/Gotcha combo. Or is this too much of a clash between glamorous vs. adorable? Also, LFM + BAM anyone?

Any idea when this will be available again??

tx! But specifically do you know about the comparison between 60/40 alcohol/oil and 100% silicone roll-on?

So currently it is still cool where I live in the south, but within a month it will get hot again and stay like that for a long time. I'm trying to think ahead when ordering my social pheros, and am wondering about: Silicone roll-on vs 60/40 alcohol/oil spray Which has longer staying power? Faster and wider area of diffusion? I know both are touted as "best of both worlds" compromises between alcohol and oil application, but how do they compare to each other?

How many sprays do you use? And how often do you reapply with the 100% alcohols? I'll try again over the next week and make sure to really shake the bottle...will report back!

Okay, so...I bought a full bottle of this without even sampling it from all the glowing reviews and experiences in this and other threads, and i've been testing out different #spray amounts over the past few days. Nada :/ I got 100% alcohol, and i should mention this is my first time to use a full-bottle spray vs the trial size sprays - I know that the full bottle releases more product. First day I did 3 sprays, and there were no resounding positive or negative OD reactions that i could tell.. Then I later added 2 more sprays to a total of 5, and TG seemed distant/clammed up.... OD. The next day around friends, I started with 1 spray, no reaction. Later added another to make it a 2-spray dosage...still nothing. So i feel like I've tested all the way from 1-5 sprays, with none of the reactions that any of you guys talk about to gage a proper dosage...I've been around a good amount of different friends, so it can't be that everyone around me is averse to EST? I'm thinking of trying 3-4 sprays again, but really don't want another clam-up episode with TG... Has anyone just had no luck with this? Could it be that it's the unscented version?

You ladies are too wise....I got over trying to swim against the tide with this one and am at peace with the situation

trying to revive this thread....can't decide which one to full-bottle! I really like my experience with TH, but haven't tried H&S....I wish i could sample it but there are no trial sizes available

That seems like a lot? I usually do 3-4 sprays of stuff (all my sprays are trial sprays though), and I get nervous about OD'ing if I do more than 5 inches worth of oil (usually just do bottom of breast to belly button, and a 1 in strip on sternum or two dots on each side of neck)....but maybe that's cause of my age (early 20s)? I'm definitely no expert.

OMG!! Hahaha, Fluffygirl I can't get over the brilliance of this LFM/Gotcha combo (with smidge of occo white for me)...had two great hits today! So smokin' coffee shop guy who introduced himself and was hanging around a lot last time I went to the cafe was there again today when I went to get work done of course (he did insist over and over that I come back )...and this time he brings me over a complimentary latte with some cutesy heart foam art and my name on it. Haha oh deaaaar, what a cutie. Then, on his lunch break he came over to my table and asked if he could join me, we talked throughout lunch, and he asked for my number . An hour ago he asked me on a date to the newly opened museum in the city this Sunday, score for genius combo! Thennnnn, I went to a casual eatery/cafe by myself for a quick dinner this evening, and got asked to join the group of the owners and their friends (young hip crowd) at their big table because I was one of the only customers (it was an early early dinner)... I talked with them all for a bit and they were very friendly, and one of the guys monopolized me for the last 2o minutes in conversation and then asked for my number. But that's not the beauty of the story...best part is on our way out he stops in front of his car, which is a minivan that he uses for specific intriguing work purposes, and he just starts justifying to me/explaining all about it and goes on about his minivan (giving me tour, yada yada) for 10 minutes as if he just can't keep himself from going on and on. Later he texts me (great hanging out, we'll be out tonight, etc) and apologizes that I had to hear about the minivan. HAH! lols good stories today, good good stories.

You guys are the best, ahh and unfortunately so right! and Quietguy, its good to hear one of the fellows chime in every once in a while . Damn nostalgia and attachments! I can't think of anything or anyone that will ever be worth all the emotional rollercoastering I've done over this one at this point. It sucks to hear so many ladies have regrets about this, but your older and wiser "been there done that" stories are talking me off the cliff, going to back off on this one.. Love you all for your kind words and support *bursts* (creepy smiley, hehehe)

Sigh, you guys are right. I know, even if he says he cares about me more than anyone, there's a reason he's seeing someone else, and it's that for some reason he wants to be more attached to them than to me now. It's comforting (/very lame and unfortunate at same time!) that a lot of you can relate to the situation. it takes a special kind of self-control to turn away and move on, but I probably should continue to take that route. Oh life!

hehehhe, you ladies are so right. Young men/unbridled testosterone, sighhh. Though that's not to say that unbridled testosterone isn't sometimes just the thing for the situation

I guess i wasn't clear... our current separation is greatly a factor of our age/feeling that we are young and need to experience life single (or 20s male reluctance to be tied down situation), and he talks about me being a match for him with whom he sees himself once he shakes himself from this phase, but while he is in the phase of not wanting to have anything more than casual relations he does not want to mess with fire and be tempted back into getting serious with me when he knows it's not where he's at right now. Edit though, I should not being going for a sexual connection, my priority is for us to be able to be emotionally intimate and express our affections, being both on the same page that it currently has not implications of a serious relationship right now. The forced walls are what I'm trying to overcome.

Ohhh you must report back Nutrix, I'm curious what reactions the social bar scene will garner as opposed to the more daytime and one-on-one reactions! And fluffygirl, was that you who fashioned up the combo? You are genius darling!! I have to admit I added 2 tiny dots of Occo White to top it all off, never hurts .

ditto! Thank you! I have the trial size spray, and I used 2-3 sprays. I'm also early 20s though so I am still producing cops and am always weary of going overboard. 4 sprays next time it is Although, I must confess (incoming review, dun dun dun), I definitely got an obvious hit from the night I wore this that I originally didn't think to attribute to BI as much as to drunkenness. Alas, it was def BI, it was pretty forward! I wore 3 (Trial vial) sprays to a party at my male friend group's house, which was probably dangerous because multiple men in that group have gunned for me in the past (I briefly dated one of the 3 roommates and it turned sour so I got no positive or sexual reaction from him, blergh). Well! Only 1 of the 3 roommates hadn't ever expressed sexual interest in me before, and apparently tonight was his night to put me in an incredibly awkward position and give them one more reason to feel resentful of me they're pretty much frenemies now since I've resisted sleeping with them . So #3 here, he walks with me and the group to the bar but then starts buying me drinks left and right once we get there (and stupid me just accepts the challenge). Fast forward 20 minutes to him telling me how beautiful I am and how we hadn't talked much before so he didn't realize how intelligent I am, its so hard to find an intelligent and beautiful girl, blah blah blah....fast forward to me crashing at their pad but not intimately with him in his bed (upon my declining), and then finally to the final clip in the morning where he is coldly distant to me because he feels slighted and there's nothing I can really do about that but feel a teensy bit guilty that I was a BI-toting enabler. Bad bad self! This stuff IS dangerous!

Okay, this phero is just precious! I have the UN-spray, and I wore it today in the afternoon, during which I went to the gym. The older man I walked in with (friendly, not sexual) started chatting me up and asking me about how my joint pain was feeling, recounting his running injury stories and just being really sweet overall... so adorable to see them under mara's little spells! hehe...anyway, everyone was friendly at the gym during the workout class (we are generally all familiar faces and many know each other by name), but this is to be expected. I left early because my hip was bothering me, and was surprised to see a text on my phone when I got home from my gym friend P. saying that he noticed I left early and if I was alright! I think that's the treasured hearts typing away..... I also felt a mild calming self-effect from this, which I needed after an emotionally tumultuous day in the romance department, sigh. Thumbs up, definitely a mainstay!