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samalam

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  1. Hi All, Thanks so much for all your replies and so sorry for the delay in responding, i've been so very busy with work these days. Eggers You gave me a lot to work with I've been experimenting more with the socials rather than the sexuals over the last 2 weeks. SO responds very well, socially, to the socials, or maybe I do and my upbeatedness when wearing them makes him more upbeat and chatty. He has definitely been more chatty when I wear EST, TMI, H&S. They haven't garnered any sexual responses though I"ve laid off the cops for a while just to see the reaction to the socials, though I do enjoy wearing them as they give me a boost! I did breakdown and do a (hopeful) evening with Pherogirl (from pure frustration) but nothing. Now it seems SO has developed some kind of tummy upset over the last few weeks so he's booked in for a colonoscopy, he's a bit of a hypochondriac so he better have something wrong with him and not just be coming up with excuses - JOKE!! Yes my snuggly, cuddly, sleep wearing Taurus is also a hypochondriac, I can't catch a break!! I like your suggestion of LFN and will order a sample of that in my next order. Beccah Thanks for your thoughts. Not TMI to me as I'm pretty much open about things myself and don't mind hearing any thoughts or voicing my own I've had no problems with "self servicing" (love the way you put that!!) in the past but with SO now I'm getting so frustrated with things that I can't even do that so much, all my life I would have self serviced for physical reasons and had no problem doing it, but now it's not so much physical as I need the intimate connection and can't get that from myself, and SO's hugs and cuddles aren't enough either! I don't think he is suffering from Low-T but it's something I'm aware of, so once his colonoscopy is done, and there are no problems or if a problem is found and (hopefully) fixed, I'll be encouraging a testosterone test. I do my own self checks though He has frequent erections during the night while asleep which I throughly enjoy petting - not that it wakes him - and the biggest test of Free Testosterone Levels in men is morning erection between 6 and 7 a.m. and he has those EVERY morning. Just wish he would use them! I do hear and am cognisant of what you are saying re men not being robots, but really - it's been almost 4 weeks now and I'm just looking for once a week (more would be a bonus). He's only "exhausted" on the occasional week when his work schedule is for early morning starts, and on those weeks he only works 3-4 days so he has plenty of time to get un-exhausted. On the other weeks he is on later starts and get tons of sleep then, minimum 9 hours a night, I on the other had work at least 10 hours per week more than him and also run the house and look after the children (one of whom is disabled) and generally get less sleep than him (though I do need less as I have high energy levels) so it gets to me when I think that his lack of oomph is because he might "think" he's too tired (in his head anyway and that's were sexual desire starts). It makes me want to scream with frustration at him, or it did previously, now thanks to using phero's I've become much more at peace with the situation, though I'm not completely happy and still working towards improving the situation!! Dolly Yes I was referring to Lust After Me from Androtics, not a twitch from SO's litte SO using that. The EoW (from Love Scent) at least garnered a twitch and an even greater reaction on one occasion I'm raging I spent so much money on the LustAM! 99 Euro. So glad to hear you don't think its wasted putting my EoW into it. I've ordered an bottle of EW from here also as I'll feel better using that un-enhanced with another product, will put it back into use when SO's medical issue is sorted out. I've made the mistake with EoW and LustAM and gotten the bleed through whilst grocery shopping, it is a bit shocking alright. I'll keep my experimenting with it to only when indoors in my own home once I get back to trying it again. I have LikeAM and have worn it on a couple of occasions with SO when I first received it, but no response. I think it was around the time that I received my first order though that SO started to experience his tummy issues so I've put everything sexual on hold experimentally for now. Though I have to say it's been 4 weeks of no action now (and I've done Beach's self servicing to help me along) but now I'm at the point of ravishing SO, I'll be wearing some LAM this evening and doing just that. He should be happy to be ravished as he's just bought some car parts that he's lusted after for a while (yes he lusts after car parts, like literally!) so is a happy happy man today.
  2. Hi All, I joined the forum a couple of weeks ago after I received my first delicious order, which is the Womens Sample pack, plus FB LAM, FB EST, FB H&S and some free samples - what a lovely gift so thank you to LPMP for that. I have been doing some limited testing as my testing window is small and I have only 1 person to test on - the fabulous SO, who is himself a natural Cuddle Bunny Which makes testing Cuddle Bunny difficult as the effects it is supposed to evoke are natural characteristics he possesses anyway, but I think I did see a slight difference on the days I tried it around him. Also saw a big response from my son when I accidentally wore EST around him, so that was good. I have a few questions I am hoping someone can help me with - I have read through the forums, spending about 2-3 hours a days reading over the last few weeks, and have answers to a lot of questions that I had so that is great, you are all wonderful at sharing your experiences. But I do have some questions still so I hope it is ok to ask those here. Question 1 - Sample oils I have the Womens Sample Set, however I am unsure what a "dose" is. I have been applying by tipping the sample bottle onto my finger tip and then dabbing that onto my skin, so this is to me a tiny amount. Am I doing this wrong, is a dose larger than a tiny bit of oil on the fingertip - I'm used to the sprays from Androtics so not sure.... Question 2 - EoW/Lam (Lust After Me) I have had virtually no response from SO to couplins, regardless of what amount I wear. Which I'm raging about as I really want to amp him up, this was my main reason for seeking out pheromones and I was initially overjoyed to hear about copulins. SO was previously a very high libido man, as I am high libido woman despite currently going through menopause, in fact it seems to be ramping me up even more. We are both in our late 40's and together for 5 years, however his libido fell off slowly starting about 2 years ago, as did his adventurous response. Up until a few weeks ago we had settled into a once a week vanilla routine for sex, which I am not happy about, he does work odd hours and is the type of person who needs a LOT of sleep (it's a Taurus thing I think!!) Things are also going downhill further in that the length of time is getting longer, we are slowly approaching the once every 2 weeks stage and that he is starting to go soft during sex every time (this has been going on for the same length of time as his libido started slowing down - but only happened occasionally and now it seems to happen every time - we just switch to something else which is fine, but I wish it didn't happen at all obviously!!) So while I have had no reaction to copulins with regards to him wanting more action, I did note once when I put them on my neck, below my ear, before bed a few weeks ago (this is where his nose usually gets buried) he had no problems and ultimate stamina - actually a bit much, very enjoyable though I must say despite nearly passing out from the heat due to his drawn out activities However the other night while testing Cougar potion, he couldn't finish at all and wasn't interested in doing so - and it had been 1.5 weeks since we had sex, then the next night he just barely got going when I was playing with him and then went completely soft and wasn't interested in pursuing anything further, now granted he had been up since 5.20 a.m. and this was 10 p.m. but I thought given that he hadn't finished the night before he would be looking forward to lying back and enjoying the attention I plan to look after him well this weekend when he has some time off work to make up for it That seems like a long introduction to my actual question which is twofold: Firstly, I plan on just wearing a drop of cops on my tummy each day, this is to expose SO to copulins and keep his testosterone levels amped when around me regardless of whether it makes him active or not - is this ok to do? Secondly, before I managed to get around to reading a thread where Mara posted about EoW and Lust After Me, in desperation I mixed the two together in a bottle. Then last week I read mara's advice not to do this - does this now mean that my mixed bottle of copulins is useless? Should I purchase a bottle of EW from here - that Lust After Me was sooooo expensive and I hate the thought that I have wasted that much money Question 3 - Copulins and Other oils When I apply copulins, do I need to await dry down before applying say LAM or Cougar oil? Or can I apply the copulins and then immediately the scented phero based oils and let them both dry down together as they are both oils? Question 4 What on earth am I going to do with all my ToGo nearly full bottles I purchased from Androtics now that I have found the lovely LPMP offerings - ha that wasn't really a question that I expect answers to but if anyone has any ideas....they would be most welcome. Thanks in advance to anyone who can help and thank you to all who read
  3. samalam

    New to the community

    Hi All, Thank you for the lovely welcome! I have been doing some (limited) testing and have a few questions so I think I will put them in a new thread in the General forum! @Beccah - I have trialled Cougar - love the smell, no response from SO, well there was but unexpectedly something that had never happened before Maybe TMI but he couldn't finish.... I have read up on Levitation and Open Windows and plan to include them in my next order once I have finished testing the trials I have. @StacyK - SO has a terrible sense of smell, can smell nothing, but from reading I think it doesn't matter so much, I hope anyway!! My LAM is scented and I love the scent and EST has a twang as you say but covered nicely with a scent so that was good, I'm planing on EST'ing him later again as I only tried it once. I have very limited testing windows and only 1 person to test on - the SO who is working mostly so very few testing windows - and I work alone and don't get out much if at all. Had a very interesting response from my son though with EST. He is intellectually disabled and also severely Autistic, he loves cuddling etc. but doesn't look for them and is too busy wandering around opening and closing doors to look for cuddles, he just loves them if you make a point of giving them to him. However on my EST day I didn't expect to be around him as he was supposed to be with his dad but that fell through. So I had sprayed EST before I knew this, well my lovely little boy sat on my lap for ages and keep throwing his arms around me and giving me hugs, this is the first time ever and he is 10, it was lovely, but I have to admit exhausting as he is the size of a 10 year old boy but has the behaviour of at 1-2 year old so was throwing himself everywhere with legs kicking - it was fun but I will be careful with EST around him as I need to have the energy for all the lovely hugs and be prepared for the bruising Ok, I will make a separate thread for my questions later today and hopefully have some things cleared up for myself - it's lovely to be here with you all and I love reading all the reviews and your experiments.
  4. samalam

    New to the community

    Hi All, I've been lurking for a while reading and researching (and getting very excited in the process) and finally placed my order which I have now received, I wanted to wait for it to arrive before posting my hello. My order took less than 1 week to arrive to Ireland so I was very happy to receive it on Wednesday as I thought it might take up to 3 weeks . Also how it was packaged is delightful so it was a huge pleasure to receive it. The moment I opened the box the beautiful smells whafted out. It was sooooo nice... I had purchased some pheromones and mixes from Androtics but was disappointed in them somewhat, it was difficult to understand how to use them and I couldn't find enough information in their forum as the important knowledge areas are locked - there was one very very very helpful male member who gave me good pointer thought! . So now I have a pile of ToGo bottles with nowhere ToGo. But thankfully I found Love Potion. I ordered the womens sample set plus a FB of Heart & Soul, LAM (following on from reading Dolly's WOW review of it!) and a FB of EST. I also received a number of free samples. I didn't know where to start with all of the lovely bottles once I opened the box and had to resist blobbing bits of different oils all over me My main intention is to "encourage" SO's libido and communication. He is an extremely cuddly, touchy-feely man who is very loving and caring, he is like anaconda in bed, wrapped round me - I have to sneak away once he's asleep as I get so warm!! As far as sex goes we've settled into a once a week routine which suits him just fine, but not me, and he's lost his "aggressive in a good way" and "adventurous" approach also, which I'd love to rekindle. He's also an extremely quiet, as in practically mute, type of man. I did find that Instant Openess caused him to be more chatty and I have a small vial of Androstenol which he seems to respond well to so this is fantastic as we can sit and chat now where before it was just silence (with a lot of cuddling and touching but no words). So as far as pheromones go this had made our lives much better already. We also used Instant Shine which has made both of us much happier, calmer etc. I haven't found any particular response to Instant Honesty. Not that we weren't happy previously, but the extra communication has added to the happiness, so now we begin our journey with both of us in a much happier frame of mind and some delicious scents to share. I also have Eow and Lust After Me, which regardless of the amounts used caused no reaction from SO I wonder how to use the samples, the full roll on's are easy as I can roll down and get a dose. But the sample bottles, how to know how much to use, I've just been tipping them onto my finger tip and wiping on my skin? It's a bit difficult to test around SO as he works odd hours and a lot of time we will only see each other for brief minutes over the whole week until we both manage to have a day or two off work together - so those days and the rare evenings we manage to catch together will be my testing times. Other than that I will try each scent to see what I like also. So far I have done quick tests on: EST - sprayed onto neck and cleavage - I like the smell but don't notice any significant change in the cuddle level or SO wanting to do more for me, however I did notice while I was trying to open a bottle of wine that instead of having a few giggles at my weakness at popping a cork he instead instantly jumped to take the bottle and corkscrew from me. I'm going to leave EST to the side for a while until I test the scents. Sugared Banana - free sample received. Delicious smell, love it! Sneak Clean with SS - I like the smell but not overly so. I put a dot on my upper torso and behind my ears, when I sat down next to SO he instantly asked what the smell was (he has a terribly sense of smell), and affirmed that he liked it when asked, but I think he would say that anyway, so maybe I need some truth potion when asking him about the scents LAM - decided to try the LAM today and applied in the recommended lollipop way and resisted the temptation to smear it everywhere else as well. SO was around for a while so even though I would be in my office he would be pottering around and making us breakfast so I thought I'd see if I could get his nose twitching. Ah he had to go soon after so nothing to see, he will be home tonight at around 1 in the morning and I will be in bed so maybe he'll enjoy the smell then - in the meantime I'm here in my office enjoying the lovely scents all to myself I'm looking forward to testing - slowly - all the oils I have received and learning from everyone here on the forum.
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