Hello!
Brand new to the world of pheros, and I just ordered some good stuff and now I need to know how to best utilize it.
I'm in my mid-thirties, rather shy. My target is my best friend, someone I'm already close to. We're on the verge of becoming more. We already have a great bond, a lot of trust, and we've been huggy (though it's never been sexual). He's admitted an attraction to me. So we're already sort of on our way.
We live far apart, and as it currently stands, we rarely see each other in person. Next week, however, I'll be off to see him for a full 3 days.
Based on some recommendations from another board, and the help of Mara, I've picked out OCCO, PM, BI, and Lace (boosted with EoW). And last night, after reading about Cuddle Bunny, I ordered that too (it was recommended, but as we're already kind of cuddly, I wasn't sure it would be a good choice -- the thread with everyone raving about changed my mind though!).
If it helps, my target is not a macho-type man and he's very respectful (hopefully not too respectful to make a move!). I'd like to inspire love and a feeling of soul-mate-yness. But yeah, also some lust! Seeing as most of what I've ordered have cops, that might not be a problem!
My questions are thus: do any of these work well in combos? Any combos to avoid? Anything work best alone based on what I'd like? I know a lot depends on my and his chemistry, but I don't have a lot of time to experiment.
Thanks for any advice/help!