Thanks for the reply, I am so excited by all the replies and suggestions!!
I do tend to get overlooked as I don't think I have that kind of sex appeal some women have unfortunately and that kind of effect on men I wish I had.
As for scents I love all different kinds mainly either floriental types (more so for cooler weather or night) of fresh scents for the day. I like Chanel Coco, Guerlain Insolence, Allesandra Del Aqua, Kai, Child, Amariage by Givenchy to name a few!