PHEW ! Thank you Ladies, for clearing up the difference !!! While I've been known for trying anything at least once, I think I'll try the latter first. Okay, now where would one find, read about or purchase ? I did buy a trial size of PHERO GIRL for mySELF and PHERO BOY for my lover, should I just see how that works before experimenting too much ? Liz
PS: Congrats Dolly on your engagement !