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sdak23 posted a topic in General questions, advice and comments about pheromonesSince I'm such a newbie idk if it'll let me post anything but I'm gonna try. I have a boring office job and one as an assistant director for the high school plays. We're gearing up to do a spring musical and I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas what I should wear around the teens / my boss? Our director can be sort of prickly at times, but she is very matter of fact and good with the kids - as long as she's not in a foul mood. Since I'm closer to their age (about a decade older) I would like to give off the approachable / fun vibe to the teens. The kind where you can talk to me about anything, but also have the ability to be respected and in charge if need be. Usually I don't have a problem with that, but as it's a musical there will be A LOT more kids and it's going to be immensely stressful so I want it to be a good, bonding environment for everyone - including myself. It takes me awhile sometimes to warm up to people because I have major depression and I'm not one who enjoys crowds so I'm thinking I need something with very good self effects too. I shine with good self effects. Plus, I just got a BUNCH of new pheros so I'm excited to try them out. I was thinking either Lumina / Open Windows / Levitation / maybe Mother's Little Helper would be good? I have only tried Open Windows with the fall kids (a smaller group) before, to decent success... I think? I'm not sure if I notice much of a difference With Open Windows honestly... maybe I'm using too much / not enough? It's hard to gauge it's effectiveness with all their different personalities and mood swings haha. Any thoughts?!
Hello! I know some phero’s can be combined or "topped off". I’ve used scents boosted with Cougar and topped off with Topper or LAM (1-2 sprays) but I am wondering about some other pairings. The Cougar/LAM combo definitely gained a lot of attention and mostly from younger guys but the attention seemed to only be sexual. Which is great sometimes, but others, you want to have a conversation as well lol. I am looking for a good social/sexual to top off with a bonding. Is that even possible? Something to grab attention and then keep it. Since I love Cougar so much, I was thinking to use Cougar and maybe pair with Gotcha or Open Windows. Does anyone have some suggestions of a good combo?
Yummy posted a topic in General questions, advice and comments about pheromonesHi ladies, I need help! I just reunited with a beautiful guy who I've known for four years, but we've lived in different states. He's ten years younger, and I know that Cougar will help with the obvious, and I absolutely love the smell and how it makes me feel...but I need to add something to make him feel close to me. I'm kind of a fwb right now, and has been since i met him (vegas will do that) which would have been ok with me (my first and last fwb) except this time he makes my knees week and my heart melt. I think because of my age and (ugh, I'm not Jewish) situation he doesn't see me as a viable long term match and thinks of things as fun only. But we have so much in common and the same likes and sense of humor...I'd like to think that if he spends time with me he might see that too. (I know, off on the wrong foot but it's too late now...) we finally live in the same city and things could actually go somewhere if I play it right. What should I be using to promote bonding, caring and commitment?? And of course lust and obsession My guess is that I'd need Cougar, EST, and perfect match? Heart and soul? I need help from the experienced! I also have no idea how to get these all into one..without smelling ridiculous. Any ideas!!?? Thank you thank Thank thank you!
ilovethesea posted a topic in General questions, advice and comments about pheromonesHi everyone! I am looking to enhance my dating life and wondering if you folks can help me out with recommendations. I stumbled across the AD offerings first in my research but I find these blends sooooo much cuter and more fun! A little bit about me: Female, just turned 36 and actively dating. (**not sleeping around - I reserve that for a serious exclusive relationship.) My goal is marriage, kids, the whole shebang... but it has to be with the right person, and I figure the more guys I meet the more chance I'll find that special connection. Sexual chemistry is super important to me but I'm also more traditional than most... I appreciate very masculine guys who are confident and like to lead - I don't feel comfortable approaching men. Most people think I'm still in my 20s and from researching cops I'm pretty sure I'm still producing them at least around ovulation time. (I don't know if I'm the prettiest girl in the room but men have always found me sexy and I believe this may be part of the explanation since I don't blatantly dress or act that way.) Anyway, I would love to dial that up some more since it's the sexual attraction that compels a man to come approach you and want to spend time with you! Here's what I'm looking for... I don't know if one product would work for all of these scenarios or several: 1. Something to encourage men to approach when I am out and about 2. Something for first dates (usually blind since I meet a lot of men online) 3. Something to encourage both attraction AND bonding on dates 2 & beyond 4. Anything to help put me in a better mood before a date So far the blends that have peaked my interest include OCCO White, Cuddle Bunny, SS4W, Like a Magnet, BAM, Blatant Invitation, Open Windows and Heart & Soul. But obviously I need to narrow down that list for my first purchase! And I want to have products that fit my personality... What do you guys think? Scented or unscented - is there any difference in strength/ease of use? I'm already a Pink Sugar user so layering is no problem... Also, should I be buying oils, silicones or alcohol sprays? I live in a colder climate and summers don't get crazy hot here. I would like maximum diffusion! thanks in advance for your advice!