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I would say the lollipop is most probably too much!

 

I think it was too much, too. I'm thinking maybe just the lolly, no stick! :lol:

 

 

Have you tried to buffer it by layering with another mone to perhaps buffer the none, if that may be the problem? Do you have Topper or a complimentary scent with a-nol in it? Or maybe TMI? Un or scented? Maybe BI just needs a buddy to hang with to keep her happy while you wear her ^_^ In this instance, I would even try layering them directly over top of each other. Just a thought anyway :blushing:

 

I don't really like to layer my phero blends too much, except the simpler ones with only two ingredients, like Topper & LAM. I think Topper might be a great addition. Good idea, NuTrix. Next time I try it, I'm gonna wear less - lots less - and I'll spritz a bit of Topper over it, to see how it works. Well, maybe I'll just try wearing less of the BI fragrance first, and then I'll try wearing it with Topper.

 

It was so weird. I was in a great mood, and then all of a sudden I was crazy angry, shouting, "For crying out loud, cat, can I not just eat my damned quesadilla in peace???". :huh: I mean, I hate soggy tortillas, but my reaction to the litter all over the floor was *a little* much, and completely out of the blue. But I do love my Odalisk, (and my MRF2), so I'll definitely have to try again.

 

Thanks ladies! :)

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Edit: This was a note to Nutrix, sorry: have you experimented more with using them in place of wax melts?

Yes :) The men's scents so far. Without pheros I use about half oil half water...with pheros, 1/3 oil and 2/3 water and a trial size lasts 3 uses, so I'm using VERY little but it doesn't take much to make everything smell GREAT ^_^

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Hi there, everyone, I know this is an old thread, but it still seems active, so I'll just jump right in to say hello, I'm new here and having a lot of fun reading the posts.

Also, I got my first order yesterday, just BI and some wonderful sample scents that put me in a purry kitten mood when I smelled them.

Well, I was going to test run the BI on husband and was all excited that the parcel had come and I managed to hide it (I want to keep that a secret from him so I can tell if it works). Anyway we were going to a birthday party and I planned to put on the BI for that, and ran around naked in the bedroom deciding on what to wear, husband comes in and pulls me onto the bed. But that was before I even had the chance to put on any cops! It must have been my mindset, going heheh I'm gonna get you tonite, but before I got dressed for the party I did get a chance to apply BI on torso only, let it dry for 20, then put on on of the sample scents, Time of Your Life. I put my dress on then, and off we went. Over the course of the evening I could still smell the cops once in a while when I bent down to fix my shoes, but nothing too bad. The dress smells of them a little today, right where I put them on, but I really have to put my nose there to get the scent. I think I might have re-wet the cops when I put the scent sample over it, but it's nothing bad. Well, at the party I didn't notice much of a difference. I really liked the Time of Your Life scent, but no one commented, not even husband in the car. There were no hits either, and thats just as well because it was a family party, so half of the men are my blood relations and the other half married to my aunts and cousins :-) But husband was sweet to me, he was, as always, the life of the party, sitting, as always, with my pretty young cousins who adore him. He kept glancing over to me, and when I batted my eyes at him, he became very playful and cute, winking and making little signs. Later that evening I hugged him, asking him to dance, and he went to slowdance with me right away - which is something he hardly ever does because he does not like dancing. I was very smoochy with him and he responded in kind and said well, I guess we should have an afternoon romp more often...

So, I can't tell yet if that was a phero effect - or if he just didn't dare to refuse me a dance after he had entertained my cousins all night. ;-)

I'll give it another try today and see what happens!

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Welcome Maroon! Glad to see you jump in! Small "hits" like that are what many people miss when using pheros......they will not always be wild and crazy, but just a reaction that is out of the ordinary. If your hubby did something totally out of character, there is a good chance it was the pheros!

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Thanks for the welcome, Dolly. And let me just say that it was your postings about BI that convinced me to get it. And I took it out for another test run today. Decided to wear it at work, I know some people say thats not advisable, but I was confident I could handle myself. I basically did it to try out dosage. Theres plenty of men at my workplace, we're pretty close knit, too, there's always flirting and teasing and the guys like to show off.

This time I let it dry down for 40 minutes and then put cover scent and clothes on. I could not detect any cops and now, in the evening, my shirt smells of the cover only.

I was my usual self at work, I am very upbeat, friendly and helpful, and til noon I didnt notice any particular reaction. I went to lunch with four female colleagues, I told some funny stories but noticed they were kind of mellow and subdued. Could have just been the weather, I just decided to turn my chipperness down a notch. Then in the afternoon I'm at the printer and one of my male co-workers comes up to take some papers and makes a few flirty remarks - nothing special here, he flirts with everybody - but he stands right next to me and presses his naked arm to mine. And he never does that! Runs off with his mouth, never with his fingers. Comes back later to look into my room, more flirting. And then in the hallway another guy comes up to me, asks if I had a problem, cause I looked concerned, and gives me a full body hug! Not just arms around shoulders, full front up against me, tight. Well, since he's pretty much the best looking guy in the department, I didnt object ;-)

But that was a pretty nice turnout, I'lll say. Dont think I'll mention it to husband. Next try will be on him, again.

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Welcome!! And I agree with Dolly; the small hits count too!!!!

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Welcome! I had to post that I love your avi. Is the cat yours??? I love BI BTW too. I'm running low and should get some more. i like the oil based.

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Awesome posts Maroon and welcome! Pheros at work are FUN :666::ange::love:

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Hi, Raq On and NuTrix, thanks for the welcome!

I'm really excited that there's such "results" in the first days of using BI. It really must be a big gun like everybody here says.

By the way, good stuff continued, husband fed me off his plate at dinner, carefully preparing forks for me. I had just fixed somthing for him as I wasnt really hungry, but he insisted.

No, Raq, that's just a picture I found on the net while looking for fruit hats on people (I know, weird. It was a work thing). Found this right away, thought he looked so cute. My own cat would plot to kill me in the night if I tried to put him in a fruit hat!

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My own cat would plot to kill me in the night if I tried to put him in a fruit hat!

 

LOL! Plot.

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Hey, Bluebear, thanx for the welcome! Sorry I forgot you in the last post, I use the iPad a lot now and it's just he smaller screen that makes me miss things sometimes. I guess the smaller phero hits may sometimes even be cuter than the more obvious ones. It's only day 3 and already I'm having so much fun with this, and of course a new order is on the way. I'm so happy I found this site, you guys seem like such a great community.

Raq, like every cat he is Master of the house of course. If I don't comply with his wishes I got another thing coming ;-)

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Maroon, Just wanted to say WELCOME and I wanted to chime in on BI being amazing for getting hits, small and big... I use BI in a spray with my LP Black and I really notice a lot of hits when I wear this combo

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^^ I bet you do!! Wow that's got to be a punch in the ummm ... for some guys. lol

 

Welcome Maroon. What a great phero review!

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Hi, everybody, thanks for all the welcome greetings, I really love how friendly everybody is. I enjoy this sooo much.

Since I opted to try each scent for a number of days to see what happens, well, I just put BI on today, again. Just this time I must have been too blatant - yesterday I took 3 rolls from belly to cleavage, today I added a fourth just under the breasts - even though I let things dry for 40 minutes, and put on quite a bit of cover scents. I dont rub the BI around with my wrists, because I dont want to transport it to other places of my body, I use little plastic spatulas that I throw away afterwards.

On the bus I got plenty of stares from 3 men a few seats over - but they were 10 to 15 feet away, so I dont know if I can attribute that to the pheros or just a good hair day.

But at work, where I had been queen bee yesterday: very different today. Still people came in and were friendly, but nothing unusual. The overly flirty dude was pensive and kept to his room, looked down when I passed him in the hallway. Not unusual either, he can be upbeat one day and really subdued the next. But everybody who was joking and lively yesterday was serious today. The guy who had hugged me so enthusiastically yesterday was nice enough, but very softspoken and seemed a little nervous when I stood next to him. So basically I have no clue If that one extra roll was too much and I bombed everyone away. Or is it nervousness from the testosterone spike? I kept my conversation strictly business mostly, but I wore a really tight business oufit and heels. Who knows, I might have been really intimidating ;-) In the afternoon I got an intense buzz for a while, like I was vibrating sexual energy. Strange! Was about time I took myself home. No husband testing today because he's working late and I have a little headache anyway. Could be the onset of period, I'm due around now. Maybe that's why the pheros didnt have the impact the did yesterday? It's all so interesting!

So, tomorrow I'll go easier on the dosage again or even take a break, I'll see how I feel...

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BI can create nervousness..oh yeah - for sure :lol: Hit! It can broadcast alpha female and make you seem less approachable and if you were all business that would have lent to it...or you could just be a hot chick who on occasion makes the boys nervous.... :Emoticons0424: .

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Okay, this is to wrap up 4 days of trying BI out in the field. It's a winner for sure! I found my sweet spot with three rolls on torso. The past 2 days have been an absolute flirt fest. I got so many hits I don't know where to start. Every man in the office wanted to be around me, chat, laugh, buy me coffee. Some coming into my room asking nonsense questions just to spend time with me.

 

I got so much attention it pretty much exhausted me. And in the evening: husband telling me how georgeous I am and getting hands-on...

 

BI gave me some wicked good fun. Will give everybody and myself a break today. Can't wait for my next order to arrive. I have some Occo ambrosia coming. I have a feeling this will be one magickal summer!

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BI, is one of the few phero's that I only need one or two sprays of and I get mega hits every time....This is such a great phero

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BI, is one of the few phero's that I only need one or two sprays of and I get mega hits every time....This is such a great phero

 

DD do you have this in alcohol or silicone mix? Curious about a spray. I have oil roll on.

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Blatant Invitation is such a winner for me that I've been wearing it almost every day now. Just three short rolls of the oil, a cover scent over it and then just a dot of Occo Ambrosia on each wrist - and it works like a charm. Today the CEO of my company who I'm sure has never heard my name, just got up from his lunch table when I walked up with my tray and told me to please sit down as he was making room for me.

 

I am not sure if this counts as a hit, since I was only around him for seconds. I wore a really nice dress, but this man never talks to anyone he doesn't know.

 

Is there a rule of thumb how long minimum you have to be close to someone for a phero to hit home?

I know I must have really gotten to a coworker cause he practically wouldn't leave my side all day. Had no good reason to be there, but there he was, chatting, standing very close whenever he could. I think at some point he was actually breathing me in. I could feel him exhaling on my hair. Another has started to wink at me everytime our paths cross. My boss gets really nervous around me.

 

Strange though, while I get such a fantastc showing from men all around, husband, since that first little hit, does not respond. He's upset about his business at the moment, a lot of things didnt work out well recently and he's depressed about that. I should probably get some mood lifting phero for him, poor sweetheart....

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DD do you have this in alcohol or silicone mix? Curious about a spray. I have oil roll on.[/quote

 

I have it in a spray. It's the 60/40 spray

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Strange though, while I get such a fantastc showing from men all around, husband, since that first little hit, does not respond. He's upset about his business at the moment, a lot of things didnt work out well recently and he's depressed about that. I should probably get some mood lifting phero for him, poor sweetheart....

 

If you have Open Windows, wear some of that around him. Great mood lifter. When my man is in a funk, it is like flipping a switch.

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Not sure about the rule of thumb but just curious: Maroon, where and how short are the 3 rolls you put on? I love BI but it's sort of hit and miss with me. Wondering if I'm applying too much.

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Raq, I have the oil and I roll once from belly button to cleavage, and once diagonally from belly button to each boob. Smooth it around with one wrist, put cover scent on after 20, then clothes after another ten. The occo on wrist is just a dab no more so I put the scent out when I move my hands.

 

Dolly, thanx for the Open Window tip. Will see if it cheers him up...

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So is it true that some people cant smell certain cops/mones? Everyone's complaining about how bad BI smells and I just recieved my order yesterday & YES - its a little bit funky but not rank like everyone has been saying - I've had no problem covering it up? I even had a few ppl smell me to see if they could detect anything unpleasant - was my batch short of cops?

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What I do is I spray it on when I'm getting ready and keep getting ready and that allows about 15 minutes to pass and then I put the scent I'm going to wear as my cover and I'm good to go

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If I read your question right, are you saying "alpha" as in personality, assertive ect? My answer would be yes and no. It certainly makes a statement and gets attention but it's also femme and a little flirty. A little one step forward one step back, But the message is Blatant as they say. IMO

A more assertive or sexually aggressive phero blend would be Sexpinoage.

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So is it true that some people cant smell certain cops/mones? Everyone's complaining about how bad BI smells and I just recieved my order yesterday & YES - its a little bit funky but not rank like everyone has been saying - I've had no problem covering it up? I even had a few ppl smell me to see if they could detect anything unpleasant - was my batch short of cops?

 

Everyone will perceive the smell differently. I doubt very highly if it was short of cops. If you got yours in silicone, make sure you shake it before applying.

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Would any of you ladies who have tested/worn this say that it is an 'alpha' mix?

The none in it might give it the an aggressive edge in the come hither department, but I think, for me, the Est buffers that pretty well giving me a definite feminine vibe. I would agree with StacyK about Sexpionage being on the more alpha side in comparison :)

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Thanks StacyK and NuTrix.

 

I am just wondering about congruence.

 

If I read your question right, are you saying "alpha" as in personality, assertive ect? My answer would be yes and no. It certainly makes a statement and gets attention but it's also femme and a little flirty. A little one step forward one step back, But the message is Blatant as they say. IMO
A more assertive or sexually aggressive phero blend would be Sexpinoage.

 

 

The none in it might give it the an aggressive edge in the come hither department, but I think, for me, the Est buffers that pretty well giving me a definite feminine vibe. I would agree with StacyK about Sexpionage being on the more alpha side in comparison :)

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So, I have been seriously debating between Blatant Invitation and Sexpionage, but after reading this, I've just ordered BI. It seems to have a "softer" affect on people. I do have a trial of compromising positions, however. It has had a very strong reaction on me, and on the limited number of people who I've been around, but maybe I need to pay more attention. I was going to order the full version today, but posts on here convinced me to try BI. Fingers crossed....:)

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Crossing my fingers for you too, lol! Looking forward to you future posts/findings :)

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Hey Storms, I ordered BI for the same reason as you. I was hoping for "softer" than sexpionage. My man is an alpha type man, and I wasn't sure how he would respond to Sexpionage. Est heavy blends make him very touchy and huggy, so I know he responds well to the est.

 

BI... Knocks him across the head. On more than one occasion, I have been attacked (in the most positive way!) while waiting for the BI to dry down before getting dressed. In fact, I have learned to make sure I put my fragrance cover on at the same time, just in case!

 

The funny thing is, it makes him want to ...ahem... just please me. ...whether or not we go farther. BI was the first sexy blend I tried that got such a strong reaction out of him.

 

BI made me a believer!

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I've read all the reviews of BI multiple times but I'm still curious - would those of you who have it say it's more effective in spray or oil form?

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I've read all the reviews of BI multiple times but I'm still curious - would those of you who have it say it's more effective in spray or oil form?

 

I ALWAYS get BI either in oil or silicone. It is a very sexual blend, and I personally prefer to keep the sexual blends close to my body. Only those who get into my personal space should detect them. You really don't want sexual blends diffusing and flying across the room, which is what happens with spray. I get the social mones in spray......NOT BI.

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Exactly! I think I was getting thrown off by all the reviews mentioning it in spray form. But I suppose I forgot to consider the trial sprays and also, that some folks are super precise in their applications whereas I'd probably accidentally get it in my hair and have a new mess of issues. Thanks, Dolly!

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I love my spray but i only use it at home. Considering I use it for sexy time only, I want the diffusion to be huge and in his face. That's the whole point. And I don't need it to last that long either. That's why I use my spray.

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would those of you who have it say it's more effective in spray or oil form?

 

I love my spray but i only use it at home. Considering I use it for sexy time only, I want the diffusion to be huge and in his face. That's the whole point. And I don't need it to last that long either. That's why I use my spray.

I've decanted some into a 5ml spray (in the Odalisque fragrance) to layer with the oil, but like Halo I tend to wear it for HIGH impact on hubby...though I've worn it out just for fun to see what would happen...usually sprayed to torso and smooshed around with my wrists and then it's under my blouse mostly, so the diffusion isn't as crazy as when I load up for in the home. I'm horrible, I know...I'm an instigator at heart...I just like to be covert about it :D

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I love my spray but i only use it at home. Considering I use it for sexy time only, I want the diffusion to be huge and in his face. That's the whole point. And I don't need it to last that long either. That's why I use my spray.

 

 

And I have a spray as well....BUT like you say, only at home. Out and about, silicone or oil.

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