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He came into the bathroom while I was still in dry down of my EoW - right as we were leaving for a grown up weekend.

 

And he wanted to know what in God's name stunk. And I had to explain - it's moi. And it will get better - give it half an hour.

 

Which lead to a really interesting conversation about the use of Pheros- and the fact I have a self-effects from the EoW - well - let's say - he's not at all disappointed about that.

 

And then it led to him realizing when I had it on - he is really, really turned on. As he put it - it stinks - but it totally works. As a test - I practically swam in it between EoW neat with PheroGirl over the top. And I'm lucky the bed didn't go through the floor or the wall. I had visions of Dolly's need to spackle and repair. <rofl>

 

Which led to conversations about different experiments - and the fact I'm very rapidly moving to using just happy or gentle 'Mones at work. Cougar doesn't seem to have as many cops as BI - so it doesn't seem to effect people the same as BI - imho. But I explained that Cougar gives me a sparkly vibe, that Tamashii No Tomo - with it's Soul Mate - is more of a cuddly thing for me. I'm looking forward to having Treasured Hearts in the arsenal as it would be nice to tilt things to the Love Shelly vibe in the office.

 

He died laughing at the fact that the day I wore Dominance to the office - I went looking to kick the guy's a** whose given me such a hard time. He said I should wear that one more often. And to tell him all about it when I did - one because he's curious and two because he will try hard not to mess with me that day.

 

He thought the idea of Teddy Man helping with cuddles/PMS interesting - so he's open to trying. Maybe next order. :-) And he knows I'm waiting for a decant of SS4M for him - that I'm dying to test drive. The fact I am trying to make the whole thing exciting again - I think he likes that. When you've been married a long time- things can get kind of B-O-R-I-N-G . All in all - I think he considers it a very happy surprise.

 

He took one look at me when we went out to dinner/drinks last night - and said - please - please no stinky Phero's. I asked why - he said I already looked hot enough that he didn't want to have to beat other men off with a stick as well. Settled for Soul Mate in the Tamashii - and got my hand held all the way down the beach - there and back.

 

And yes - the grown up weekend was *very* grown up - and went a long way to reminding two long married people why they got married in the first place.

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As a test - I practically swam in it between EoW neat with PheroGirl over the top.

See, that's copulins on top of copulins and IMO I don't think someone needs that much redundancy unless the person they're trying to nail is actually dead. :frown:

 

He thought the idea of Teddy Man helping with cuddles/PMS interesting - so he's open to trying. Maybe next order. :-)

Let me just say...I took a good whiff of Teddy Man and *purrs* I know someone who is definitely getting dabbed with this one because my brain didn't think cuddly so much as molesting now, cuddling later.

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See, that's copulins on top of copulins and IMO I don't think someone needs that much redundancy unless the person they're trying to nail is actually dead. :)

 

But Luna - I'm just testing...for the sake of science you know. :D

 

And I have to tell you - you are correct. My DH was a whole lot more - ummm- "not dead" that I was actually probably prepared for. Maybe than I've ever seen...that was a total drag my woman off to the cave moment. 'Nuff said.

 

Let me just say...I took a good whiff of Teddy Man and *purrs* I know someone who is definitely getting dabbed with this one because my brain didn't think cuddly so much as molesting now, cuddling later.

 

Cool - will add this to the must acquire list. :-)

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LOL, "science," yeah okay. :D

I just wanted to express that synthetic copulins are powerful enough that you don't need a lot, IMO, whereas other components might benefit from slathering. Plus, well...I suppose you can always replace furniture but it's those other kinds of injuries which overly-enthusiastic sex can cause that you want to avoid. :)

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GREAT story Shelley! Your man had much the same reaction that mine did. I don't always tell him when I'm wearing them, simply because I don't want my results to be skewed. He is cool with that......SOMETIMES he'll ask if I am wearing them....and SOMETIMES I'm honest.....sometimes I fib though, because I don't want a placebo effect going on......

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And yes - the grown up weekend was *very* grown up - and went a long way to reminding two long married people why they got married in the first place.

Good story Shelly B, sounds like you both had GREAT weekend.

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Great story Shells,

 

I love hearing about all your tests and experiments - i may start calling you Jr Dolly

 

 

She's my protege......

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She's my protege......

 

 

May I please be Baby Dolly? That sounds naughtier than Jr. Dolly. :-)

 

And Dolly - the Treasured Hearts are on the way. Let the Shelly B love at work begin. :-) Soon I hope.

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May I please be Baby Dolly? That sounds naughtier than Jr. Dolly. :-)

 

And Dolly - the Treasured Hearts are on the way. Let the Shelly B love at work begin. :-) Soon I hope.

 

 

How about "Shelly-Dolly"? That sounds sweet!

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LOL, "science," yeah okay. :666:

I just wanted to express that synthetic copulins are powerful enough that you don't need a lot, IMO, whereas other components might benefit from slathering. Plus, well...I suppose you can always replace furniture but it's those other kinds of injuries which overly-enthusiastic sex can cause that you want to avoid. :lol:

 

You are indeed correct. And I can't possibly tell you why. <ROFLMAO>

 

But for any female considering doing it because Luna suggested this might just be too far and too much - and you want to do it anyway. Because you think your life is just not that interesting and maybe this would ensure that it was a bit more so. Trust me on this. It is, it was, and I won't do it twice.

 

You are of course - very able to ignore me.

 

Free choice is a wonderful thing.

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But for any female considering doing it because Luna suggested this might just be too far and too much - and you want to do it anyway. Because you think your life is just not that interesting and maybe this would ensure that it was a bit more so. Trust me on this. It is, it was, and I won't do it twice.

 

 

Been there done that.....picture this.....Essence Oil, Super Sexy, covered with Phero Girl......a very interesting evening indeed!

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:666:

Okay, here's one of my favorite ancedotes (from a few years ago)...now, I mentioned in another thread that scenarios with slutty boys can be fun and one such incident caused me to place a call to my friend rey to come pick me up.

 

"Why? Where are you?"

"I won't lie to you, dude. I need you to drive me to my car, which is half a block away."

"Dude, WTF?"

"Ever had one of those nights that you can't walk away from? Because you literally cannot walk?"

"Duuuuude."

"I know, right? I'm lucky I can remember where I left my damn car."

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Been there done that.....picture this.....Essence Oil, Super Sexy, covered with Phero Girl......a very interesting evening indeed!

 

 

Oh. Oh sh*t.

 

Yeah - that would be too much. I might need to surgically reattach some favorite bits had I done that.

 

Dolly - you are crazy.

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:lol:

Okay, here's one of my favorite ancedotes (from a few years ago)...now, I mentioned in another thread that scenarios with slutty boys can be fun and one such incident caused me to place a call to my friend rey to come pick up.

 

"Why? Where are you?"

"I won't lie to you, dude. I need you to drive me to my car, which is half a block away."

"Dude, WTF?"

"Ever had one of those nights that you can't walk away from? Because you literally cannot walk?"

"Duuuuude."

"I know, right? I'm lucky I can remember where I left my damn car."

 

See us here at LP with them pheromones and such, yeah we have an addiction with some shameless stories!

 

:)

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LOL, that just immediately sprung to mind when Shelley mentioned "too far and too much." Some of my shameless stories make it into the porn, but some of them, well...putting them in a fictional context would rob them of their intrinsic hilarity.

 

Like, I have a hilarious story related to the first time I wore Queen Crossbones for my Quince, which I was going to share in the Honeyed Amber and Musk review thread but I figured it might be too OT, although it totally supports the notion that honey/amber/musk = sex.

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