WnG Posted March 9, 2014 Share Posted March 9, 2014 OK - This is a little outside the box and I'm wondering if this would be an appropriate use of pheros. I travel for work once or twice a year for a couple of months at a time. It's far enough away that visits back are not really possible. Last year, I was in a relationship when I had to take a trip. We dated several months after I got back before breaking up, but things just weren't the same - for him or me. In retrospect, the outcome probably would have been the same even without the travel. But, it makes me a bit gun shy about starting anything. Would / Could pheros help maintain the bonding feeling while gone? ie, Could sending a snail mail card with pheros in it while gone help with the bonding ? Or is that a bit outside the box and I just need to find someone ok with my schedule? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
halo0073 Posted March 9, 2014 Share Posted March 9, 2014 Generally pheros have to be associated with an actual person to be effective. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WnG Posted March 9, 2014 Author Share Posted March 9, 2014 That's what I wondered. Thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missdarlyncherie Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 Even though it probably wouldn't work I thought it was a pretty clever idea! Your best bet is to have two relationships, one in each destination and just travel back and forth more. Lololol...just kidding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eggers Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 Welcome to the forum! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WnG Posted March 10, 2014 Author Share Posted March 10, 2014 Can't stop laughing! Thanks, missdarlyncherie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WnG Posted March 10, 2014 Author Share Posted March 10, 2014 Thank you for the welcome, Eggers. Great being here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amalthea1978 Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 I love that you're asking so many great questions! Still being a semi-newbie myself, all this info is good to know, and some of it is stuff I would never think to ask. Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Blackthorn Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 Welcome WnG! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calii Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 No,but scent association can do wonders,ie,at this point in time my SP will react strongly to MRF2 w/ Blatant Invitation,even if it did not have pheros ...welcome here!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeycake Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 Calii... you know that may be an idea. WnG, I remember Mara saying in response to a post I made a while back that mones have memory. So what you could do is wear the mone that you have decided on around your target and then leave something behind that has the phero free scent on it. That could possibly trigger memories. For example if you had LFN in Nola. Wear that phero blend around the target and then leave something behind a scarf, something that is scented with plain Nola on it. No,but scent association can do wonders,ie,at this point in time my SP will react strongly to MRF2 w/ Blatant Invitation,even if it did not have pheros ...welcome here!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WnG Posted March 11, 2014 Author Share Posted March 11, 2014 Great tips! Thanks Calii and Honeycake!! Those are definitely ideas I can see helping maintain bonding while gone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeycake Posted March 11, 2014 Share Posted March 11, 2014 You are welcome! Great tips! Thanks Calii and Honeycake!! Those are definitely ideas I can see helping maintain bonding while gone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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