StacyK

OMG. Beautifully done.

Cougar has some EST in it. I'd try just adding cops first. Yes, it also has cops. But, not as much as Bang did. Its going to be intresting experimenting. I hope people post results.

Yep. I just remembered how you love your LFM. Get a guy that loves you in that and you are all set.

This reminds me of a quote from ELF. "You're not Santa... You smell like meat and cheese." Processed meats and cheese do come through the skin and affect body odor.

Nope.But, I'll say this Mara has come up with some great blends. I really loved Bang and I can't think of anything exactly like it but we do have a ton of other choices. Cougar is another social sexy you can add some extra cops to it (there is a small amount in the blend) for extra zing. I have unscented Cougar in a x2 spray. Its great.

I am struggling with this news. Just when I was trying to console myself about Bang .. I see SWS is gone. Yikes. That's a hit. I can't sub that with Dom or Leather. Those 2 do not go well with work. Last time I wore Dom to work I was really pissed off all day, time b4 that I wanted to smack someone. No joke. I never related to the women here who said Dom made them bitchy until I wore it to work. Seriously. May the employment gods help Mara create a SWS blend soon. I need it, cant live without it OMG......

I noticed those missing from the store lastnight. Is it lack of ingredients? Very curious. Was there an announcement? Bang was super useful. I thought SS4W was very popular.

I'm devastated. I LOVE BANG. That said.... BANG was a combo of SS4W + EST & COPS. I assume LP still has all those (I gotta check the store). So SS4W + Cuddle Bunny might get you there. I'd suggest emailing Mara or perhaps ask on her Forum questions thread about the ratios so you can mix to get the same result.

What happened here? My advice is you can't change him.

Hi, so I was scanning down the thread. Its a bit late but I'll toss out mine. My type of blend will vary... Soft, sexual, romantic- GOTCHA Sexy, confident and a little "Grrrr"= Cougar & BANG! Whip holder=DOM (or LEATHER) Add COPS. SEX= Sexpionage Extra tips for your go bag: You should have a few trials off LAM, BAM and OCCO'S in your arsenal. They are great solo or layered With other phero blends*** Definately get "enhanced" when you can, ie. trial of Comp Positions. Make sure your practicing good phero placement (no cops by your face) and letting cop heavy scents/blends dry down before dressing. Also, you have to believe in yourself. His hang ups are his. Maybe you can help but it's not your job. Enjoy, have fun. If you are "working" too hard your behavior may not be congruent with what you are going for. You have to walk the walk. Remember, you said alot of the sex talk was via text. People are different behind the keyboard. If he's not living up to it then by all means give it the old college try. But, perhaps slip on some of the social sexy 'mones and cast a wider net. *** there is a lot of info on layering throughout the forum. I am ONLY referring to adding cops or LAM (or BAM). NOT complex phero blends. Start here. Try everything on its own first to get a feel for it. You DONT need to add cops to "cop heavy blends" (don't waste your money).

Hi there. Very late but as I work in a fem dominant environment and have had this come and go, it really never ends but you get to that "don't give a fuck" phase- go with SWS, GG, Teddy BB (or Balm Bomb) or [maybe] TH. Stay with one for a time for consistency. Then you can add another to the mix. NOoooo cops. I could writer several paragraphs as to why you should not go with a Dom or queen bee blend. Let's jyst say you gotta earn that. It could take you years to get there. Good luck. Let us know what you used.

Beautiful art work. Is the MLH the original or the one with extra DHEAS?

Yes. Totally. And, congruent too.

I have not experienced biting with cougar. Either me biting or getting bitten. But, I'd say, in the more rare circumstance I could [possibly] see it. I have gotten the "rwar" factor from men [younger] that seemed to be 'under the cougar influence' and it was intresting. Nope, only LAM and Sexpionage have given me the more hardcore , not to be dramatic but I might say "dangerous" response from hapless males clearly easily wound up by pheros. To bad I was not intrested in those dudes. But, that is not uncommon.

Dom Noir is Dom+eow that's probably why.

I have not done that. Though I did BAM + PM which is really nice when you want to get extra touchy. I haven't done the Straight B with already B heavy blends. But, based on what I have tried (BAM with PM or GOTCHA) I would bet the Bnol would soften the PM reducing the DHEAS effect. I did like it with TH as it softened the "edge" I sometimes personally feel when I wear TH. I have done it solo. With what I mentioned above and with Topper and LACE just for the experment. I tried it once with Sexpionage too. Some of these last few felt a little counter intuitive for me. But I don't like the BLAM combo either. I know others do. With straight B'nol I don't get the "truth serum" effect I get with TMI or TC. Then of course there's Gotcha which has also brought out some seriously intense disclosures. Straight B'nol is not as intense as those. Which is really nice sometimes. I get the relaxed, deep talk without the extra intensity.

On me, straight B'nol sets a sort of mellow, reflective mood. I remember sometime back, someone on the forum called it the "poetry writing" phero. I thought that was pretty close to my experience. My favorite use for it was to add a spray on top of Treasured Hearts because alone I don't get selifies off that blend. I did like the results I had. I am sure I wrote a review, maybe in the TH (or B'nol) thread. Alone I don't get the chatty thing with it. It is just soft and mellow.

I use both now. Some I favor in Unscented more than others. I will always go for a phero enhanced scent that I love (meaning I love the scent & phero) over anything. It's the perfect storm of fragrance, phero and intent. Except for Bang, I had tried all the others I listed above in enhanced scents first. I remember I got both UN Cuddle Bunny and Scented CB at the same time. But played with scented first. I don't really bother with LAM or BAM in un. It's much easier [for me] to work effectively with those in their scented versions. I have plain EOW but used OCCO's and EOW enhanced stuff far more. When you have Unscented full stregnth pheros remember that they are 3X as strong (1000 mcgs) than the phero dose in an enhanced scent (300 mcgs) that LP puts out. [If you order a phero "boost" to a scent and that is also in full stregnth] You can use your UN pheros no problem just go with a less is more approach. Note how much you use and tweak it the next time and compare results. It takes time and patience. Also, keep in mind if you are using pheros in your relationship, someone you have lived with etc you are changing your personal phero signature and going easy at first may not be as big a shock.

Snoop is more versed in pheros than I am. But, have you ever tried PM + BAM? That's what I have reached for looking to amp up the cuddle/purring effect. It's a pretty good combo. There was a thread I don't know if it's still there.

You are going to have to do your own experments to get your answer there. But, I will say pheros (and cops) are very situational. I can give you a list of my personal "biggest hits ever". Keep in mind I bought my first LPs in December '12. I joined the forum the following Spring. IMO to get a true gauge of the effectiveness you need a few trial experments of each type. Even then, with pheros, it is still very personal. But, if you read the review threads of some of the blends (and EOW) you like you might see some common ground. My most notable/memorable hits came from: •LFM (my first ever phero experience, if you can manage to start out with enhanced scents I favor that (because I did). It's very easy to OD on UN's. Don't let over enthusiasm get the best of you. •LAM (the first public trial was not even a favorable experience but lesson learned and wow it never fails. •CB (some of the best hits and one super funny experieance) •Gotcha (These hits are burned into my brain) IMO this baby is powerful. •Treasured Hearts (I almost left this one for good. I get zero self-effects and an OD can be miserable. But wow does it work on EVERYONE. Hits can be subtle I tested this and H&S over an entire holiday season. •BAM (the cuddly mellow inverse of LAM sometimes underrated IMO but then thats the point. LAM is fun, its all clevage and nipples. BAM is a fitted hi-neck dress with bare arms. People may pet you.) Like a fabric softener for people.) •Cops (They can be great or cause the exact opposite of what you want. They can cause trouble, be sexy or way too much for an individual or situation.) *Practice makes perfect. Start out with less than you think you need. They work and you will notice they are in a fair number of blends I mentioned. Keep them off your face and outta your hair. COUGAR- (I did not get a lot of hits in the enhanced fragrances but my Un Spray delivers big time. Thanks to reading the forum I finally got this one down. ) •BANG (fun, sexy but also super social. I'm a social network on steroids with this. And that is not me. So thanks Bang.) •Open Windows (when you dont know what to do but you want everyone in a good mood. Done. Easy) •Teddy BB (if I need to just chill..... and I want everyone else chill and comfortable. Done. ) •Heart & Soul (I don't know if it is available anymore But it was soft, comfortable, feminine and friendly. Nicknamed the "sweetheart blend" but worked well on all. IMO of course.

Oh I am sure he'll recover. Poor baby overdosed on sex.... lol

Well it's a bit of trial and error. Everyone has their "sweet spot". That perfect dosage. It's not always the same for everyone. The general wisdom is start off easy and work your way up.

Try it again in a few days. Do a little swirl on you stomach use your wrists to smoosh it around a bit. Put a dot or small stripe in your clevage (great if you love a scent) Let it drydown before dressing. Also if it's on your hands or wrists make sure you don't accidentally get it on your face. That's happened to me. After a couple of times you'll learn. Lol Don't let him get a whiff until you have dried down and don't mention anything to him so you can get a clear response.

Where did you put it and how much did you use? That scent is a pretty decent cover for cops. You may want to try again but give yourself drydown time, meaning give it 10 or 15 min before you dress. As always keep cops away from your face and hair. I'd leave it off the neck area too.

Remember with pheros less is sometimes more. Try a bit less. I agree, in some cases that can be. I can relate to that. But, I have noted that some people are indeed more flexible than others. Its really down to what play they are talking about. I definately read it one way.