StacyK

Yes. There is a Mara's Rockst Fuel and LAM thread about it. I think its in the review thread.

Well in response to your request I say we have Dominance and Leather. Leather is full on dominant by the way. Well maybe thats IMO. Anyway.. But an un in either should be fine. LFN is another choice. He should wear SWS. But, I don't get why he can't ask her to stop. Basically he can. Either directly (if shes so upfront) or more subtly. For example she steps in between you two, HE says excuse us we are in a conversation, walks around/past her and you two exit together. Easy-peasy. If after a few clear but soft attempts like this its time to get real clear. 2 choices tell her to her face to stop or go to another co-worker of equal or higher rank and tactfully state his business. Cleanly & politely explain the level of discomfort. Think about what Luna said. But, I will tell you that anyone in the business will tell him that he first had to let her know hes not intrested. If hes done that and she is fool enough to persist then someone else can step up. But it will be best if he can clear it up himself.

XSP96 Vibe Glace Tease Bliss Babe I dont know these because I dropped trying other companies pheros once I tried LP. Anyone know these? Components etc.

I agree, in some cases that can be. I can relate to that. But, I have noted that some people are indeed more flexible than others. Its really down to what play they are talking about. I definately read it one way. Yes. Exactly. Well put, "hair of the dog". For me, I needed warm up time with TC & TMI, "Indiscretion" being a fav LP. But, others may have more control. It is one of those... be careful what you ask for things when it comes to those.

In real life, for most of us, yes. I do think she is on the right track with Leather. On a personal note I enjoy both sides. But, not at the same time. As long as everyone is true to their desires & comfort it is fine to indulge and try on the ropes or tie the knots whatever you like. But, its hard to be both at one time. On the other hand, being one thing (in that extreme) all the time & forever is exhausting. IMO, with BDSM play it would depend on everyones expectations. From the description of the boyfriend being submissive and she's looking at the Dom role for this experience... I say go all in. If that is what she's comfortable with. Its hard to be a Dom if you are not comfortable with that.

Hi. Welcome If it were me, I'd be merciless and go ALL Leather, as the big thing is your club event and you mention he's submissive so I am going to assume that's what he likes. IMO, that's going to be the best way to have an impact in that particular space of time. Stay on top, blow his mind and he will remember. You are asking for two different things. You want to be the Dom and you want sweet/cuddly/bonding. I would choose one of those, for this experience, to make my impact. Most of the bonding stuff is more cuddly. It's softer and at odds with the other Dom stuff. You are already doing a compromise going Leather instead of DOMINANCE. Definately add cops. I think if you slip into the Leather and cops (maybe read up on keeping the upper hand in a top/bottom experience) and go all in, you will both have a lasting impact on eachother. You will have other opportunities to test drive some other mixes. My rec's for the Bonding: •GOTCHA- in my experience, is the MOTHER of all the bondy/lasting impression stuff. But, again totally at odds with the roles you want to play here. •Bonded- (natch) works super well, upbeat and a dash of cops is very complementary here. •Cuddle Bunny- very EST heavy so make sure he's Est friendly before you try this one. •Treasured Hearts with a dash of cops is also great. •TMI- with cops is nice but IMO you will get chatty. So with both TMI and/or True Confessions I would do a couple of test runs before something big was at stake. IMO look at your phero experiments with a bit of a long term goal. You have specific plans so you need to decide what you and the boy want out of this experience. Good luck.

IMO. Topper is easy to use and fits a lot of social situations. Its flexable. I am not a big time DHEAS user. Though I did get it single molecule, just bacause. Most of my single molecule bottles I purchased 4/5 years ago. I still have a quarter of a bottle of DHEAS left. I go in and out if favoring pheros. I got burned out on the "giddy" from DHEAS. I think I had left Topper alone for about a year then Mara came out with Summershine. I just loved that. I think I've gone through 2 bottles of UN Topper since 2013. They are all uplifting & highly social. Just nuanced differently. Levitation is OW with a big splash of DHEAS. Mara first made it to go with a fragrance of the same name. It was such a hit she offered the phero un and it became the perfect partner for Flying Potion. Levitation, on me, is more mood elevating than DHEAS or Topper alone. Though they are all upbeat. If I really want to lift my mood (outside of OW) I'd probably go for Lev. If I was looking just to be more upbeat I'd choose Topper or DHEAS. But... I can argue that Summershine just made me feel so damn good about myself... so... The single molecule bottles are definitely great for expermentation. That's always fun. Try a shot of DHEAS next time you wear Treasured Hearts. IMO, its really down to my mood. Also, a perfectly enhanced scent (the perfect paring of scent and phero) does amazing things and definitely influences my choice.

That Defensive Magic was the BOMB.

Omg! I've been waiting for this review.

Definitely. ?

Can't wait to try them both.

1 Choco cherry occo please

1 Dari Gold 1 Dari's Rocket Powder Omg!

They looks amazing. Happy to see the SPL in there nice. Sold

For a sexy/social Cougar would definately fill your need. That would be my choice in that category. My perfect scent choice with that wkuld be something like Adrienne's Tangy Ylang. Really need to request a rebrew of that if Mara still has the necessary components. My choice out of the NRs, like Eastwood rec'd would be Carta d Amor in spray. In a perfect world i'll have that someday Hope you are having fun ??️‍?

I am frozen with indecision. ?

Ouch. When we fail we learn. There should always be a bit of truth in there too. Its like baking a cake. You have the basic ingredients then you embellish with all the fancy bullshite. I wore this yesterday to test out the longevity again. Its a bright musk heavy scent. More complex than my nose got the first time. The "China Musk" is pretty and feminine. I get the subtle bits of floral and of course the citrus. The E. Musk is noticable too. Its like they sit side by side mingling and complementing each other. The saffron is light and calm here. Staying soft and well mixed in. It can be medicinal on me. Not this time. I love the smooth cedar too. I do wish its lasted a little longer. A pretty orange, musky scent. Breezy. I never thought I'd want a Sexpionage scent in spray but... yikes!

Yes. I still have a teeny bit left.

I really, reeeally think we are about due for a fab carnation soon ? Something "Bonded" like would be awesome. Maybe a spicy fall carnation incarnation. ?

Most of the Fairycakes I can do. The cake is light, they dont have that strong note that turns on me. Liebchen is heavy, it sort of walks that line. But when I tried it (lightly) I did not get the sour dairy. I wore Fuzzy Wuzzy just fine which was similiar to Liebchen. In general I do better with marshmallow (Aurora). But there are cakes I can do. Civit is not usally a win for me. The only exceptions were Tattooed Lady & Cat's Eye. I couldn't wear Tattooed Lady though because it has BI and BI feels like someone took a cleaver to my frontal lobe. I think Deliciae and Carta would both make great wax melts too. I put some of this in an oil warmer to test it and it was great.

I always love Orchid. But this one is a monster. Big and grabby. It slapped me around a bit. I was just surprised. That flower usally plays so nice with me. Its like invasion of the flower snatchers came down and swiched it out. Maybe time will tell. I'll retry in a couple of weeks. ?

The lack of a back button (as before in the upper left side) to go to the "general chat page is tough. When I want to get out of a thread, lets say this one, I have to go to my browser and enter the http for the general forum page. This is on the mobile setting.

Thank you for the condolences. Poor me. Seriously its been rough. I'd love my skin to smell of fab orangey cupcakes... but alas....

Definitely. Now I want the pedicure too.

Attention all PINK scent lovers! Get it while you can. This a BIG PINK summer scent. Pink, Pinky, Pink, Pink, with smooth oakmoss. Are you kidding me... This is pink heaven. I could go on and say the strawberry is really just there for the [summer] pinkness and the mulberry tames it adding more glorious pink. This note, that note.... Its a freaking wonderful pink scent. I had the same reaction I had when I tried the original MERRY (thats winter pink) and Lick of Pink (floral pink). It's freaking PINK and if you like pink scents, that's it. I love the slightly dizzying complementary addition of the pheros because when you smell this pink who cares.