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And you're Welsh.

Welcome to the party!

Ha! Gratz!

Congratulations, Equinox!

You could try a scent locket/not applying to skin. Unfortunately it might just be something in that scent that bothers you. I think with that haul you have coming you should be covered for all sorts of dating situations!

Ooh, interesting. I have that so I will have to test it out and see if I have similar good luck.

I thought I was the only one who suffered from PP fail! I think I got it to work once but never again. Ah well.

Perhaps the band felt uncomfortable with finding you sexy. Good to hear it went well otherwise.

Sexology forever and ever, amen. LAM & BAM Gotcha! SWS

It's a living!

I think PM is great for not whomping; to me it enhances what is already there. Good luck with your cute guy.

Ha, okay, so you don't a specific target in mind? Cougar and SS4W are great choices but I'm tempted to suggest LAM (Like A Magnet). I know a lot of people on here have great results with Cougar and Bang or SS4W in these situations but from my personal experience LAM (I like to combine it with BAM but this is wholly unnecessary for what you're after) really is a magnet. It's also got plenty of cops so, erm, that always helps with the male attention.

I think he's a Superman villain, ephoebe. I'm a blushing milkmaid -- just a simple country girl with a head full of dreams and hands full of udders.

Yep. Just set it and (try to) forget it. Let the results manifest naturally. You might find that on reflection you notice hits that weren't apparent in the moment, too. That's part of what I find so useful about these boards: they offer advice from other people but also a space to reflect on one's own experiences.

Hey, I feel you on that. Don't worry about it. Like halo said in the other thread, try not to think about any potential negatives as that will probably draw them to the fore. Just have a play and relax about the results as much as you can. I will say that finding my sweet spot with LFM/LFN has been a tricky (ongoing) process, so you may well need to do a fair bit of experimentation. You might find it useful to keep notes (yes, really) on how much you apply and what the results are.

Hi, again! I responded elsewhere but just for the sake of clarity for any folks who read this in the future, the aloofness you mention is not part of the formula and is just something a handfull of people have reported. It is much more likely that you will have a really pleasing result from LFM just as it is. I can also be intimidating and seem unapproachable, but I have had some very good hits from LFM. The key is finding your sweet spot and experimenting with different application amounts and with different people/situations. In terms of warming up from the get-go, your attitude and behaviour probably make the biggest difference. If you feel approachable, open, and warm then people will pick up on that. I am saying this based on my own phero experiences, including with LFM. On the off chance that you do run into any issues then pop back and let us know the details and we'll see if we can make some useful suggestions.

Welcome! I suggest you not worry about it at this point as this is not a usual or common thing with LFM; it is just a fluke a small number of people report occasionally. I think in the first instance you should give your lovely new pheros several tries in different company and see how you get on. Try this before you even start to worry about anything like needing to make yourself seem more approachable. The overwhelming likelihood is that LFM will be just perfect and brilliant for you, especially once you find your sweet spot. Excellent choice of scent with Une!

Wow, great stuff!

Snoopyace, that hit is terribly funny!

Great hit and a really helpful heads-up/reminder. Also, digging your new avi!

Hm, interesting. And I'm sure they will!

I also like cops. It's not *that* weird! I need to place an order so I can get samples of LAM and BAM in the Pink Amber scent!

Oops, sorry for misunderstanding your post. Great news that this guy is a *former* colleague and that you are actually out of that office.

I could not love this one more. It smells beautiful and it works beautifully. It makes men so fascinated, attentive, and kind... as well as extremely sexually interested. Think intense sex but also lots of foreplay, a focus on pleasing you, lots of kisses, and an invitation to spend the night all cuddled up afterwards. Demur and you will be pulled back into bed anyway. This is one of the first FBs I bought and it was probably my best LP decision so far.

Ugh, that situation sounds toxic. Glad the LFM can be of some help as an armour while you're there but it also sounds like the sooner you get out the better. Take care of yourself.