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Skip Starbucks for the rest of the month and get an UN of Cougar. Sounds like it would be worth it with those hits and selfies!

Oh, thanks for allaying my fears, NuTrix. I found the Big Easy a bit dusty/powdery smelling. So, the fact that this one and Tickle, Tickle didn't work for you but Beautiful Dreamer does gives me much hope!

I am learning to like Topper. When it works it adds that bit of good-time feeling and makes me want to go that little bit further to be sociable, as well as getting those around me to be friendly and upbeat.

Oh, are you outside of the USA, too? All of us who have to wait for international shipping should start a little support group on here!

Oh, I'm extra excited about this one now! Thanks NuTrix! I'll see if I can't get my fella to wear it, too.

I'm just putting a note here to remind me that I redeemed at 1100.

Thanks, both of you. This is very interesting indeed. I'm still not sure I want to go for a UN sample bottle or keep my fingers crossed for a perfume enhanced with Leather to appear as an NR. Ah, well, I still have a few weeks to think about this.

These labels are beautiful!

Oh, this sounds like I might love it. I've never yet met a fragrance that was too clean for me!

I am crossing my fingers that this lavender does not go in a medicinal direction on me. Tickle, Tickle, which also has the vanilla and amber, does not work on me: it reminds me of cough medicine for hours, though this does dissipate after a *very* long dry-down (four hours, say). Sounds like it could go either way.

I asked for an invoice at the weekend and I had a response on a Sunday! No slouches at LPMP! And I'm now a Woozy Floozy. 99% accurate.

I'll let you all know what I think of these in 2015, or whenever the post arrives. Stupid international post.

Hey, it didn't go perfectly but there was some recognition on his part regarding your position and the friend's behaviour, right? So at least that gives you a starting point to work on all of this. I'm sorry it was difficult to get through, though. Your idea about different pheros sounds for these kinds of conversations smart. You might want to have a little think about how you'll deal with things if she does show up for Thanksgiving.

She decides she wants to stop by our place first and take a shower... WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK? Her behaviour is entering overbearing territory on an express train. Can I just go walk around in my underwear? Can I start drilling and hammering on the printing press I had been working on/building at any time of night and day? Can I talk to him and behave towards him of she weren't around? Yes, especially work the printing press when she's asleep after a night out with Fiance. Also get all up on him (in your tiny undies, obviously) while she's having her Cheerios. Sit next to her to have a girly chat and when Fiance steps out of the room just look straight into her eyes for a bit too long. See how long she keeps dropping by. As for conjure, Hot Foot that woman. You can even make Hot Foot powder yourself; there are a number of formulas posted online. And protect your thresholds. There are a number of methods in various traditions.

I finally decided and I'm getting: - a full bottle of my beloved Kitten Heels - my first-ever sample set, and thus - a trial of MEGA WATT! trials of: - Pherodise w/ Lumina - LP Exotica w/Gotcha! - LP Incandescence w/ Bang! - LP Rouge w/La Femme Mystere - LP Terra Mater w/Treasured Hearts - LP Flutterby w/ Heart & Soul-1.5 - Ebil-ish 2014 - Mark's Girl Nip 2014 w/ Perfect Match Yes, I'm finally trying some Love Potion variants, which is hugely exciting. I put off another four FBs I wants and of course UN phero samples sizes. I'm waiting until Christmas gift certs roll in to order these so I will be pondering for at least another month. I'm so glad the opportunity to get the UN samples is running through December!

Thanks for the update. I hope you have an excellent and relaxing vacation planned!

The best part is that you don't need to be mean when you're Queen Bitch. No one would ever dare oppose her, you see!

androstenol, I LURVE my OCCO Blue! I have only tried Blue and Black, though. Black is a bit too much for me. I didn't have room in my cart of any more this time, though. Thanks for reminding me that I need to try the others, though!

LOL LOL LOL I was thinking about this situation on my way to work and this is exactly what I concluded. Dom them hard and be super chill. Don't let her see you sweat even if she drives you up the wall because if she *is* trying to put you off on purpose all she needs is the tiniest bit of encouragement to know its working.

Bourbon? Don't audit his bathroom cleaning if this is his first time. It could put him off forever. When I talk about this kind of stuff to my main squeeze I try to keep any critiques as suggestions and no more than three at a time! This woman is just too much and your fiance is being unfair to you. This isn't just you being inflexible. WARNING - UNSOLICITED ADVICE BELOW! PROCEED AT YOUR OWN RISK! So, if I were you I'd sit down and make a two (or more) column list of my issues with this whole mess. I'd probably label one Boundaries for Guests and another Closeness to X (this friend). Then I'd list my issues based on my feelings. It might help if you write a vent page first that is not for sharing. On your list you might write things like: I feel frustrated when guests overstay without a good reason like a cancelled flight, I feel disrespected, hurt, and angry when guests treat my art badly, I feel annoyed when guests ignore discussed house rules and leave a mess for me to clean up. On the other list you might write something like: I feel uneasy when Fiance tells me to change to suit Friend, I feel sad when Fiance take's Friend's part, etc. I'd ask Fiance to set aside 25 minutes to have a chat about the guests issue and explain that you're going to have the floor for a few minutes to say you piece uninterrupted and then give him the floor to respond uninterrupted for a few minutes. You'll have some times to absorb this before you do the problem-solving bit. I'd leave the second list until the first issues is sorted. After that you might not even feel the need to discuss the Fiance's closeness to Friend.

Does anyone else think some MLH might be useful here if phergineer doesn't have Empathy Potion on hand in time? I can see myself having been similarly put out in your situation. Would feeling secure in your position of woman of the house help you to feel able to make the effort with this woman? It might help her behave a little bit more respectfully while in your home, too. Good luck, by the way. It can be so hard to have people come into your home when it's not really what you want. I hate intrusions into my safe place.

I am such a fan of this perfume. It smells warm and golden, tasty and sweet without being cloying, and of course delightfully of honey. It is such an exact replica of the true honey scent that when I apply it people sniff and exclaim "oh, I smell honey". There's never any equivocation. It wears true for hours and is a natural foil for lots of LP scents, since so many of them are sexy, gourmand, or even have honey notes. I really hope the rebooted Sugared Honeycomb in the Sugared Layerables collections will be just like this older version.

Well, of course the best way is to get loads and road-test them all!

Ooh, all of your good reviews are making me think I need to toss a sample of this into my order!

Aw, thanks. I find it so tricky to describe how the pheros work for me, as it's subtle, personal, and subjective. Glad to know you have had similar Gotcha! experiences and that I'm not just talking out of my backside!