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Problematic PYT

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  1. I got this maybe a week or two ago and have been testing it out to see what kind of effects it has and have been wanting to report back! Right off the bat, here are my notes about hits: I get more overt hits from women than men, and I'm (mostly) straight, but definitely give off subtle bi vibes. One night while I was out at dinner, I caught an older lady giving me the DIHL look from a whole separate table across the restaurant. We made eye contact and smiled. Later, my waitress came over to mention to me and my partner that she asked about me and was gushing about how pretty I am. Our same waitress kept complimenting throughout the evening, and went out of her way to accommodate me in every way possible (I have some dietary restrictions) and spent a lot more time at our table than any other in the restaurant (this might not be a phero thing, but I *felt* like it was). Another night, I went out at dinner with a friend at a restaurant he's a regular at...both our server (either bi or straight woman, couldn't tell), and the owner (straight woman), whom he's known for years, were openly flirting with me at our table. When my friend first introduced me, the owner held my handshake for a long time, made extended eye contact and had the total DIHL look and kept going "wow, you're *really* beautiful." After we finished dinner, she invited us to stay for a drink after they closed the restaurant down, and put it on her tab. While we were doing that, our bartender overheard me say something to someone else about my work and then spent 20 minutes talking to me about it and sharing some thoughts, complimenting me and affirming me. The friend who I was having dinner with is notoriously difficult to get to open up, and our conversation over dinner was one of the most open and meaningful conversations I've ever had with him--during dinner, he shared things about his worldview and thought process that I don't think I ever would have learned otherwise. I definitely felt like there was an emotional deepening that happened in our friendship as a result of that dinner. He kept saying how grateful and lucky he felt that I'm a part of his life. I went for a nightcap later in the evening with that same friend to a bar that we're both at least semi-regulars at. I can say that my guy friends looked *extremely* happy to see me and kept giving me hugs. Random people kept coming up to me and complimenting me and buying me drinks. Every time I would go to the bathroom, men would just (unintentionally) stand in front of me, give me that DIHL look with a shit-eating grin, and not move until I would ask them to move (mostly nicely). That same evening, I don't know if I can count this as a hit, but definitely think the pheros were a component...one of the bartenders (who I've known for a while and I suspect has a thing for me) literally would not look at or speak to me the whole time I was there. Like was actively avoiding me. I suspect that he actually was jealous about the amount of attention I was getting, and the one interaction I had, he asked with a very particular (read: passive-aggressive) tone about how dinner went. Idk, it was weird and a little unnerving...I don't know him that well. The last time before that when I saw him, I caught him staring at me, and asked him why he was giving me that look and he just blurted out "Because I'm attracted to you." (was also wearing pheros that night). My dynamic with this man is mostly talking tons of shit to him because he's a little bit cocky and always sarcastic, so that previous interaction completely caught me off guard. As far as selfies: I feel like this blend makes me much more touchy-feely with people that I'm emotionally close with. During the night mentioned above, I held hands with one of my girl friends and she had her hand on my leg at one point. Not even in a romantic or sexual sense, but just genuinely being affectionate. My guy friends who I saw that night were all super affectionate, but also respectful. This blend feels like a confidence boost--I definitely feel less self conscious and more effortless. It's almost like an alter-ego type thing where I'm able to be a little less anxious/inhibited, and more relaxed. When I wear this, I become the living embodiment of "I'm a bad b*tch and I know it"...subtly bratty/spoiled/used to getting what I want, and everyone's willing to give me what I ask for with a smile on their face. Will continue to test this phero out and will report back!
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