Deer In Head Lights! OH OH OH OH,that is too funny,I have picked up on many of them just by reading,like Lam,Bam etc,but this one had me stumped ,thank you so much and also for the welcome, Rosebud.
I was looking for an area to test some of the options out without looking too silly,but oh well the people here seem very unsnobbish
so I will just plunge ahead