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  1. Honeybee, thanks for the detailed response and sagacious advice! It has really made me think more thoroughly about how you're spot on as per the mood the gym can have. I've been going for years as I used to compete in sports and you're so right in that groups and modes of behaviour prevail that make action constrained by certain scenarios. Sadly there is no parking lot nor even a bar (my old gym had one) and you're right those are prime zones to escape the gym mood, gym people, gym gossip and talk one on one with much less tension. I think you have understood the problem well, the gym has a certain mood and there's always people around watching whats going on therefore talking to anybody becomes a public affair, visible on the gym 'theatre' or 'stage' as people on the various bits of equipment are observing everything and everyone around them and there's a fair bit of gossip about the various people who frequent the gym. Add to that, as I noted, Puppy dog is the proud type, he's trying (as most men do in the gym) to be the bulldog, the Heman, Master of the Barbell Universe, play it really nonchalant and tuff as he curls and squats and what not. If the gym is like a theatre then he is attempting to play the role of that cool, strong guy and he plays it pretty well as he probably is one of the strongest men around, he squats 3 plates each side. So in the sense that the cool strong guy has established himself as a dominant successful personality in the gym cast, I'm sure he does not want to make a donkey of himself by trying to chat up some chick in public only to be rebuffed. I guess its my job to make him feel more secure. However likewise I also don't want to make a mule of myself by being seen 'chatting up' the cool guy. So I have to make it subtle. I think the reason why EST is working is because it changes the mood. I think the EST works as there is already so much testosterone flying about left right and center as men pump iron, that using pure cops would maybe increase the aggression but simultaneously introducing EST somehow tones it all down, makes pup deflate to a more mellow level. I know that EST can make men chivalrous and I observed as I put away the 45s the other day, he almost came over to help me, but something stopped him, he made two steps forward as he saw my small lady hands grabbing the weights but then, poof, two steps back again.... hmmm So the thing now is to open up the communication alleys and in such an environment its not easy. I don't have Popularity potion, its on its way though as I just saw my latest order has been shipped! Thanks again for the advice... I'll be planning and scheming as we women do until the next time I see him and the sexology will at least have him :dog1:
  2. Thanks Mara for your comments and Luna, Joc too! I see what you're driving at, Mara I suppose you have a point as regards the equality factor although one gets used to what one grows up with! Maybe I should try a social mix although I think in time only, if no further progress is made... for the moment I'm just having way too much fun watching the boy in question following me around like a helpless little puppy dog wagging his tail and panting ;-)
  3. Luna...North America is very different from Europe. If I was in Europe this would not be an issue. Being half-French and half-British, I'm not used to the way men and women interact here in Canada. I have noticed that in general Canadians differ in their method of looking at attractive women than the Europeans. In Europe men and indeed women too, are not afraid to stare, to ogle, to give blatant looks and this makes it easy to start conversations, people are more free with their emotions. When I first came here I thought I was in zombie-land, people are superficially polite but not really very free in public with emotions. In Canada, men seem to be almost afraid to look at attractive women (is it all this sexual harassment suits that have them so subtle in their habits?). Canadians have perfected the corner-of-the-eye technique where they do everything they can to look without being noticed. They look at you when they think you will not notice, they glance, they squint and peer as if trying to catch a glimpse before they get caught. I asked some blokes about it here, they said 'its rude to stare, so we avoid doing it openly'....hmmm Sometimes, indeed mostly, I find it annoying, I'm used to men appreciating women openly. The Canadians tell me that is considered sleazy but where I grew up, it is normal to have the Mediterranean French, Italian men and others scream out 'tu est belle gazelle' or 'ciao bella...' In England, even though much of the populace have sticks up their bottoms, the men are also not shy. I lived in Paris and the metro was a free for all and I was frequently picked up by or picking up some handsome stranger.... Anyway, back to the question: do OW and Sexology mix ok???
  4. Thanks for all the replies and suggestions. No not even a hello has been exchanged, I'm too proud and he seems so too...albeit he's not too proud to come and bicep curl right next to me while I'm doing stiff legged deadlifts... Can I mix open windows with Sexology????????? Its just that I love love love the effect sexology had on him, he was following me around with big big puppy eyes, his tongue almost hanging out..... its just he was not talking.....more like stalking.... heehee Thanks Tezza, for your input, the problem is, also when women make the first move, men can take it as being too forward. If he continues to keep his pink puppy tongue tied I'll just have to find a situation where I can pretend to ask him for help with an exercise -even though I detest that as I used to be a champ in my sports division and playing the damsel in distress annoys me...
  5. Thanks Violet I do have that but in my experience it has made other men over emotional not necessarily talkative...I'll run some tests....does TC help?
  6. The bottom line, which I've learnt over time, and I cannot emphasize this enough is: what works for someone else might not work for you. You need to try and test what suits your personal chemistry We all have different body chemistry so different things compliment what natural pheros we are already giving out, producing in our bodies. Cops and I are dangerous for example, unless they are laced with EST, I get men being super aggressive with me or treating me with disregard like a harlot; or being plain scared off. I think its because I'm young and no doubt have quite a bit of my own cops so dont need to add too much or it becomes OTT. For some reason EST works really well on me. But This may not be the case for another woman. Leather makes me into a bitch probably because I am already an alpha female so makes me unapproachable. Its all really a question of trial and error. You need to take time to comprehend through trial and error what will correlate to you and your natural chemistry, there seems to be no universal wrong nor right when it comes to pheros, just more experience over time as you try and test different blends and amounts. Enjoy the journey!
  7. There's a rather sexy young man at my local gym. Over the course of the month we've been exchanging glances but no verbal communication has taken place. I've tried various pheros. It seems anything with cops without EST makes me scary or makes men aggressive towards me, eg blatant invitation, cougar, lam, etc. Maybe its because I already give off a sexual vibe but those just dont seem to work especially with younger men. However anything with EST works wonders (apart from leather) so cuddlebunny, lace and especially Sexology. Perhaps it makes me more approachable, more toned down? The other day I wore sexology and the man-prey in question was following me around like a puppy dog but we did not converse. Sexology truly works, is all I can say! And with all the gym body heat I felt like a giant human diffuser- I also noticed some collateral damage ( a random old bloke also following me around?!). I don't want to start the conversation as I am European and expect the men to be gallant and start the dance of seduction, its good to give them the appearance of being in control, even if we women are generally always 2 steps ahead (at least). Would adding some True Confessions into the mix get him to talk to me or should I add something else?? Advice please!?
  8. I wear leather in the form of Dangerous Games but I noticed it makes me a tad bitchy and when together it makes my lover and I edgy and I observed that he becomes rather irritable, like a dyspeptic rattlesnake..... why would that be? I have also noticed that EST blends seem to mellow him out and make him loving, I know leather has EST in it but some other phero must not sit well with him.... any ideas??
  9. Indigo

    Haunted Hallows

    nobody else tried this? I am interested to hear more...
  10. Indigo

    Verhext

    Has verhext lead to anyone being versext?
  11. This scent is pleasant but rather a bit too sweet for me in addition to being somewhat of a comestible odour. My nose prefers florientals and deep-bodied scents. However for somebody who likes to smell edible this may be for you especially as it has a touch of intrigue due to the odd yet harmonious choice of ingredients. On my skin the primary impression is of a sweet almond-cashew rice-milk pudding topped with lavish amounts of white sugar however slowly the tobacco smoke smell slinks in, and its not a shy move but a surprise move which I certainly was not expecting. This lends a touch of ethereal to the fragrance, the tobacco is not timid, it seems to float below the sweet tang of the almond-cashew milk pudding. Although as I said, at first I found the contrast odd, the marriage is actually successful and stops Sugared Moon Dust from being too cloying.
  12. I just received this and love the resinous tones. I am wondering if anyone could inform me as per which pheromones are in this blend?
  13. my package arrived and it came doubly fast, this is because I requested express mail, so if any of you feel that patience is not your virtue I recommend express mail so you can get your goodies faster.... Enjoy Halloween....
  14. a little question: can one wear EST during that time of the month? or would it send out confusing signals? many thanks for any advice.
  15. Thanks JOC, now my order has arrived it is highly likely that I shall be up to some mischief!!!
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    Welcome Chrisy.
  17. Many thanks for your detailed replies I will definitely order this one! Goddess Lynne thank you so much for the link.
  18. I was contemplating ordering Fade to Black from the sale listings however could not glean any info online as there were no forum reviews...Could someone who owns this scent please describe how the perfume evolves with time and if it wears well? I fear it could be a touch too sweet for me although the musks and resins sound appealing.
  19. Thank you so much for your advice, Excalibur sounds wonderful, lots of resins even though there are no musks. Has anyone tried out Pendragon? Perhaps I should order some trial vials! It is so hard to tell also how scent will mix in with someone's body chemistry.. I could not find the description for bodice ripper, maybe as it is sold out and it sounds too raunchy for him to wear without little moi!
  20. I wondered what you ladies found enticing on your men? As soon as my order arrives I have promised mon amour that I shall surely order him a perfume from love potion however it is hard to choose amidst the rich panoply of fragrances. I adore woody, musky, warm and 'full' scents on my lover. I detest anything sweet, reminiscent of food and also scents which are acidic, acrid, citrusy. Spice is pleasant as long as its not the 'old man type' of spice otherwise it reminds me of Grandad smoking his pipe which is pleasant but not sexy! In the mass produced category of perfumes both he and I have relished Jaipur by Boucheron. We also enjoyed to a lesser extent Envy by Gucci and Coach's fragrance for men. All of the above are warm, musky scents with subtle notes of spice, the latter being oriental rather than gastronomic or geriatric. These scents are also grounded by wooded, earthy tones that bring fullness and a sense of maturity. I should add that they are in no way sugary nor sour like some overly aquatic or citrusy perfumes can be. Any thoughts, recommendations, would be great as I very much desire treating my man to something lovely from this site but do worry somewhat as he is of a fussy disposition with regard to what he wears. I want to encourage him to eschew commercial products so I seek something that will win him over fragrance-wise and of course which I will find delicious on him. Thanks for your advice.....
  21. I was wondering what chemical components in the pheros would cancel eachother out and therefore what potions should not be blended?
  22. ok thanks Luna it is now scribbled down in my little black book on my list of pheros to order....it looks very innocent next to OCCO black...
  23. Been very stressed with part time work plus studies on top recently, hard for me to sleep well or operate optimally, feel like a jitterbug all the time and I dont even drink coffee. Are there any pheros that have in your experience helped you feel relaxed, chill, more mellow? I used to smoke les cigarettes and we all know how bad that is, would be great to find an alternative....
  24. Thank you Dolly....all this advice is wunderbar.... I have a bottle of a homemade mix of: musk, vanilla, patchouli, rose to which I shall now add frankincense all that's missing is the precious cops to arrive to spice it all up.......por favor postman hurry!!!! Dolly what kind of effect do you get with the Leather? on others and self? I was thinking of ordering it but not sure if it was for me....
  25. male members haahahaa ..... My bébé is not olfactorily challenged but either way I would not care, this is not l'ordre du jour....and from reading your posts naughty Luna I know you know what is l'ordre et c'est dans son pantalon que ca va se passer pour bébébulle... Anyway all this being said, je suis very glad to hear your testimony as I did plan to have my tutti frutti scents making bébé mount tents in is trousers here there and everywhere at the sniff of my EoW, sexology, BI, Bam, ad infinitum and ad sexeum... I am waiting on my first package from LP and also my first package from bébé from LP's first package if you get my (phero) drift......
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