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  1. Yes, JOC . I do agree with you 100%. i have experienced it myself. I haven't used makeup on myself till one and half years back. i used to line my upper eyelids only on wedding or special occasions. havn'nt used lipcolours, even after i was married and had my daughter. my coworkers used to be after my life to atleast apply some gloss, but i was like, no i am fine , i want to look natural. & people in my family & very close friends used to say u look so good without makeup. (it was the way i wear my clothes & carry myself). and i used to think in those times that why people wear makeup & does it make any difference in them. i always thought that make shows, so anyways when you wear it , it is obvious that you are made up, which personally i dont agree to. to me it was like being fake... but i have myself done make up on many people, and honestly i do it good. i havre that artistic sense so without officially learning it i do it. but 18 20 months back i had this change in me. one of my coworker bought me different coolours eye pencils & forced me to wear those. gradually i moved from only black to brown, sapphire, grey & then dark green. gradually i started applying glosses & lip colors. i use natural tones to my make up that still looks natural & not dramatic. on side notes - (but i admire girls who wear lots of makeup, & look gorgeous, cos it needs a lot of courage & confidance to do that, which most people lack. they wear it, without being conscious, maybe cos they know & have the ability to detach themselves from it. they don't relate their identity with makeup. people like me & you does it. nevermind, we are good too.... ) i do agree that when you dont apply you look completely different, but that is also a fact that you really feel good about yourself, when you apply. See JOC, when you get ready, you feel good. dont get ready necessarily for your man or for the rest of the people. but get get ready for yourself. it does make a difference in your attitude about yourself & life. don't show it to the world, but do it for yourself. you are worth it. see yourself in mirror & praise yourself & be happy. I'll suggest something about that sick look. Apply only Kajal(indian Kajal) only in your water line. take some lip balm, mix some homemade cinnamon powder in it. apply on your lips rub for 15 secons & remove the small flakes, if any, from lips by rubbing gently with finger tips only.( you will get tingling effect). this is the same effect you get from some lip plumping glosses or lip colors.( now you know what's in them, there) this will naturally plump your lips(cinnamon does it) & enhances your natural lip color. & you are ready for the day.. nothing more but you will still look attractive & not done artifically. reapply only balm when you feel the lips are dry again. And you can make some homemade lipcolor like this. i have taken a smallish pot & taken out some balm from the regular jar in it., have added cinnamon in it N yo, it pop goes in my hand bag. whenever i feel i apply it on the go as well. i agree with your school of thought that natural is best, thumbs up.....
  2. He he he. Dont pull out too much, I am just imagining. How you would look like wirthout hair... Just kiddin;-) So many ladies around here to help you to decide.;-)
  3. Hi dolly, based on your advice I have ordered tabby, lets see if works for me. I have tried it in sample but it finishesd out fast and I could not make out what irt has done to me. I am alpha have tried something else in past from somewhere else, which went really with me. I am looking kind of same vibe, keep guiding...:-) I have tried some frgreanceas n oredered lot of stuff. Lets see how it works..:-).
  4. J Hey gal, lets have something like chef's choice. Something your favourite , for us to try. :-);-) I dont mind trying it, it will make you to go back n dust off your wonderful skills. Charge yourself back & be what you are apart from being a wife or mom...;-):-D:-P go get the girl for us....
  5. Hello Liz. Thanks for the welcome. i love being here. Hope we will share great stuff here. luv
  6. Soooooooo can we have some good makeup tips form the artist??? Hello halo ,,, are you listening..
  7. Hello dear, As we all are here we will keep talking about feminity. just posted something on it. See if you skin cond. is hormonal then better take medical treatment. or try this method at least once only on forehead, to see if it helps or increases your eruptions. Jojoba oils is very good as it is very similar to human sebum. see if it works for you N Let us know. else i will lokk for something here which might be of some help for you.
  8. Oh sure Bumbob, will write you about it if i get little time this weekend:) Just a quick tip, Keeping your back straight, (in its correct natural S shape) while walking, standing, taking, even sitting, makes you feel(inside) & look (outside) more confident & assertive. we know it all but tend to forget. Practice it everyday, until it becomes your habit & see the change.... when you deliberately keep your back straight, it affects your unconsciously. we females tend to hide our breasts unconsciously from public gaze by dropping our shoulders forward... which loosens our confidence too... if you try to sit comfortably you can't be attractive, so dont try being too much comfortable sitting in front of a man(specially in initial meetings...) unless you are in bed... To a man nothing is more attractive then a confident, assertive female. they just love it. In fact when you pull your shoulder back & correct your S shape, it makes you breasts look more firm & attractive. Practice it consciously girls & let me know if it helps or even if it doesn't...... we will discuss it more.
  9. Thanks Joc, I know its long N time taking to read but believe me its worth this time. hope it works for you as it does all the time for me, leaving me baby soft & glowing. i am reading for sometime here, its a great community, the way girls help each other. Will keep you all updated about my reports.
  10. Oh thank God. And i thought i am the only one lusting & doing the next order already. sorry PLOTTING>>>>
  11. Hi MISS L, Keep sharing your reviews. lets compare notes. I am also new here. I also want to know, what kind of magic is there in perfumes, other then pheros. I mean if we pick any perfume, what we can look forward to...?
  12. Thanks for the welcome Invi. Would you pls tell how much to use each one them?
  13. Oh Honeybee . do try it, its good. my skin is glowing with it. I have also used almond oil, jojoba oil as different thinners at different times. these two also work well in this recipe. And it saves a lot of money on cosmetics.. which you can spent here on your fragrances rather...
  14. Cougar – I tried this, 10 drops from the sample vial, on wrists and rubbed till the elbows in both hands. I did not notice much with this. I kept moving in my office whole day long wearing this but nothing much happened. just a small observation that when I reached office after 30 mins of application, I teased my 2 coworkers, in a light & flirty way. That’s all. May be that was a self affect. Increase the application?
  15. Lace – I sprayed my self with 4 sprays in cleavage, & rubbed with wrists. I did not feel much effects, but I just felt little soft & womanly. I am kind of alpha female but soft and somewhat shy in the core. I sometimes think about it too – about being alpha or not alpha. Anyways wearing lace unscented, I did not observed much hits. I went out for lunch with 2 friends but did not observe much difference in them or anyone else in the restaurant. Just the person who served helped us in serving and having a good lunch time. after that my friends dropped me and I went to shopping in the mall alone just for the sake of testing. This place is close to my house, so I often come here & most of the staff know me here. I went to the home store & picked up some stuff for the home. The only difference I felt in me & attendants in the store – is that I allowed them to pick up my stuff & take to the billing counter. Though it was something I could have carried in my own one hand. Typically I never ask for such help, even if someone gives it I deny it. I always do my work myself. But today I unconsciously allowed. Some of the attendants helped me in looking up things. Typically, I tell them to allow my space & let me do it myself . I thank them & tell them that I will call them if I need. So yes, much later, after the appliction, looks like there were some hits. Pls advise they were hits or not?
  16. Leather – 2 sprays applied on chest I felt very strong & stern with this blend on. I felt certain kind of inner strength. Very powerful, very much in control. Ready to take on world. When I left home I was feeling powerful, but something else was reminding me of my feminity . some unconscious reminder of feminity. I felt as if I am a very strong female who will not take any nonsense from anyone and knows how to deal with people around. At the same time I was feeling, loving, caring & still soft at the core. Kind of strong, yet feminine. Oh this blend is a super blend. Which completely balances the masculinity & feminity required for work place. I applied this blend as a standalone.
  17. Heart & Soul - 3 strips fm wrist to elbow( that makes 6 strips in both arms) I felt good & was in a congenial mood after application. This blend has made me softer somewhere. I had cuddled one of my friend , to whom I don’t do at all from my side. After 1-2 hrs of application I met one of my old friends. Suddenly she became very emotional talking to me & even cried. This has happened after years & years, that she & me have spoken & she opened her heart out. We were best friends once but then things changed we grew apart. This day she actually felt like same old friend. I even hugged her in public place to solace her. Though inside I was feeling very stern & strong. I don’t know whether it was this blend or it just happened. But whatever, at least I was feeling forging towards her & saw that she was right in her own space, of, whatever happened. So, I let it go….. I am not sure she felt the same or not…. After we shopped together & even agreed to share the newly picked dress. She actually bought one.
  18. Cuddle bunny – 1 strip from belly to cleavage 1 strip from wrist to elbow in each hand. 3 strips in knee sides & rubbed together. I felt awesome with this blend on. It is like being a true female I am. For years & years I have not felt like this. As if I have forgotten my true feminity. This blend has reunited me with myself after years & years.I felt so emotional with everything. I felt connected & closer to people around me. I felt so girlish, wanted to decorate the house, with flowers, candles, fragrances & what not. I had kind of nesting feeling. I even bought a console for my room. In those few hours of wearing CB, I made so many decisions about my home, which I am still working & acting on. I am pursuing the quality of life I always wanted. It is definitely something I will always always want to have along… this is amazing blend. I felt so cuddly & coo chi cooing with my chic also… I felt like I am a teddy bear, & should go into somebody’s arms….. oh its so good to feel like that…. I bet I can be my feminine best with CB on….. Awesome, amazing, wonderful, feminine feeling. Like I am the queen of the world. I want to run back to my comfy cozy home & be there….. :thumbup:
  19. Thanks dear.... I love mirrors..... any kind.. Hope to have a good time here with ya all
  20. HI, Thanks all the forum members for the warm welcome and allowing me to share my world with you all. its wonderful to get know you all guyz oops Girls.... I wanted to reply separately to all your posts but i am not able to figure out how the quote works here. i am sorry, but i also read it in the help section , but i am just not getting it. it is embarrassing but it is true. lol.. Anyhow, hope will learn that soon. JFYI i already had my arsenal of pheros & perfume,s when i joined the forum, sitting in my closet. I tested some pheros & want to share the experience with you all. Pls advise wherever you find appropriate. looking forward to it. Goddess... i too love feminity, & gradually it is becoming a natural part of me. AS you are interested, will keep sharing what i have learnt so far. not only about beauty but about confidence, strength, sensuality, womanhood, attractiveness, charm, seduction. all about being enchanting, captivating, magnetic, irresistible, unforgettable women. by yourself, to your man & for the world.... To start with, as feminity starts with visual pleasure. a female must look good. Naturally beautiful features are advantage but i female can still look attractive & beautiful if she knowa how to be & carry herself as a female. If you are neat, clean, tidy, dressed in anything that is well washe & ironed, & being confident & glowing, you will look attractive.... to any male or female. So this is something very unusual skin cleansing method.... it works wonders. i personally have done it, it is amazing. believe me, as weared it sounds, but the results are unbelievable. Pls don't judge it untill you try it. here it goes.... I am sorry Mara , its too long but i want to share it with ladies.... i read it looon back & have it in my machine. so uploading it here for ladies. though i have all the details to help understand the process but i am telling as much is required to see the results for now.. The Oil Cleansing Method Do not be afraid of applying oil to your face. Oil, alone, will not bring you blemishes. Pimples, cysts, zits, blackheads, whiteheads...these are a result of several different factors including hormones, bacteria, dead skin cells and the buildup of these factors. Your skin naturally produces oil because it needs it. It is not a malicious force to be reckoned with; it is there for the benefit of your skin, allowing your largest organ to function properly. It is naturally occurring. Not only does your natural oil help lubricate, it also heals, protects, and moisturizes your skin so that it may function properly. Properly functioning skin is beautiful, clear, and glowing. Learning to work with your skin, not against it, will save you tremendously. While we're talking about clarifying your skin externally, we must also touch on the internal aspect. WATER! Drink no less than 8 glasses of water a day. If your skin has issues with blemishes, drink up! Water will help release and remove the toxins from within, lessening the load on your skin to push the toxins out. Carry a bottle of water around with you throughout the day so water is always available. Now, to the main point The basic concept of this skin care and cleansing method is that the oil used to massage your skin will dissolve the oil that has hardened with impurities and found itself stuck in your pores. The steam will open your pores, allowing the oil to be easily removed. Should you need it, the smallest drop of the same oil formula patted over damp skin will provide the necessary lubrication to keep your skin from over-compensating in oil production. We will need two oils. The first, and most importantly, is Castor Oil. If you don't have this medicine cabinet staple already, it can be found online or in the laxative section of your grocer or drugstore - usually bottom shelf. Castor Oil has potent anti-inflammatory properties, but is also healing and cleansing, which is why we're focusing on this oil as our primary oil. Though it may be our most important oil, we won't be using it in the amounts that we will the other oil (or combination of oils for those who want to take this a step further). A little bit of Castor Oil goes a long way and too much will leave you, surprisingly, with dry skin. Since Castor Oil is so thick and its cleansing properties so strong, we need to dilute it with another oil, thinner in consistency, but no less nurturing to the skin. Sunflower Seed Oil, Extra Virgin Olive Oil. Both are wonderfully caring oils for skin application, but I've found that Sunflower Seed Oil has a more luxurious feel for massage. It sinks into the skin better, aiding the castor oil in transportation deep into the pores and allowing it to draw the dirt and grime to the surface of your skin where it can be wiped away. The essential fatty acids, though they are not naturally occurring in the body, are a necessity for the health of our cell membranes. These acids help restore the skins natural moisture balance and help prevent unnecessary dryness. The secondary oil that you choose is entirely up to you and should be determined by your skins needs and the properties of that oil. Choose from natural, cold-pressed vegetable oils, as these have nutrients, vitamins, and fatty acids that mineral oil and other refined oils don't. You may even have these oils in your kitchen, as they're used for cooking, as well! For the sake of explaination, from this point on, we'll say "Sunflower Seed Oil" in place of "Secondary Oil." Remember that Sunflower Seed Oil may be replaced by your vegetable oil of choice. Your Personal Oil Blend The starting point for creating your own, personalized skin cleansing oil blend is knowing your general skin type. Those with dry skin will want less Castor Oil. Those with oily skin will want to blend in more. Finding your perfect combination of oils will probably take a little bit of trial and error, so start with very small batches. Once you know what your ratio of oils looks like, you'll be able to blend much more at a time for convenience. Some suggestions in creating your blend of deep cleansing oil: Oily Skin: Try a blend of 30% Castor Oil to 70% Sunflower Seed Oil. Balanced Skin: Try a blend of 20% Castor Oil to 80% Sunflower Seed Oil. Dry Skin: Try a blend of 10% Castor Oil to 90% Sunflower Seed Oil. You can vary these percentages to match your own skins needs. If your skin feels too dry, you'll need to use less Castor Oil and replace it with more Sunflower Seed Oil. Keep in mind that Castor Oil is the drawing, cleansing, and purging oil for your pores. The Sunflower Seed Oil is to dilute the Castor Oil in viscosity (thickness) and additionally provide moisture, nutrients, and other benefits. My own, personal blend, for my sometimes oily, sometimes dry, frequently flakey, and easily irritated skin is about 25% Castor Oil to 75% Sunflower Seed Oil. I mix and store my mixture in a clean four-ounce flip-top bottle for convenience. When you go to replenish your oil blend, I suggest cleaning your bottle thoroughly with dish soap or the dishwasher. Better yet, if you can replace the bottle, this is ideal. We want to be extremely cautious in introducing bacteria to the bottle. The Oil Cleansing Method First and foremost, this is typically done in the evening, prior to bed. There should be no need for deep cleansing in the morning if you're waking up with skin cleansed the night before. In the morning, a quick wipe with a warm washcloth should suffice. We don't want to overcleanse our skin as this will serve only to irritate and cause more oil production. The objective of using this method is to deep clean while balancing our skins oil production at the same time. You'll need a soft washcloth, your oil blend, and hot, running water. Pour a generous puddle of oil into the palm of your hand. Roughly, the size of a quarter, but more is acceptable. Rub your hands together to warm the oil and smooth over your face. Begin massaging the oil into your face. This will remove makeup, dirt, and other impurities, so there is no need to use a makeup remover or wash your face prior to the massage. I've found that this removes even my stubborn waterproof mascara and concealor. Using slow, firm motions across the skin, massage the oil deeply into your pores. Take your time and focus on your problem areas. You want the oil to work into your pores so that blackheads and the like can be dissolved and steamed away. As you're massaging, let your mind drift off to something calming and breathe deeply. Take this time to relax and release some of the stress that your body is harboring. Sit down, breathe deeply, and take your time. Give the oil enough time to work on dissolving the impurities in your pores and give yourself enough time to unwind. Picture what your face would look like if it were completely clear and free from blemishes. Focus on that image and know that it is attainable. Trust that it is attainable. Accept that it is attainable. You can have clear skin, free of blemishes and you will have clear skin, free of blemishes. Focus on perfect skin and breathe deeply. Once you're satisfied that your pores are saturated and you're feeling calm, pick up your washcloth and soak it in clean, steamy water. We want the water to be warm enough to open your pores and remove the oil. Cool water will not open your pores, nor will it remove the oil efficiently. We're not scalding our skin, we're steaming to coax our pores to release the oil carrying the impurities. We're essentially steaming our skin as an esthetician would, but without the luxury of a steam machine. Hold the washcloth to cover your face. Allow it to stay until it cools. You will feel your pores releasing the impurities. Wipe the oil gently away and rinse the washcloth well in hot, running water. Hold the washcloth to your face again, allowing it to cool. Wipe gently, rinse well, and repeat two or three more times. Avoid any temptation to scrub, as you'll find it's completely unnecessary and your skin will be soft, smooth, and free of flakes without the additional manual exfoliation and irritation that will result. Impurities, dead skin cells, and bacteria will be gently swept away. Have no fear of the oil, as the steamy washcloth will remove it. The Castor Oil, though it is an oil, will help with the removal of the other oils, as well. It is our main cleansing oil and is easily removed with warm water. If your skin feels tight, take a tiny drop of your oil blend, rub it between your clean, damp palms and pat it onto your damp skin. Gently massage any oil residue into your skin so there is no film of oil left sitting on the surface. Your skin should now glow! This deep cleansing method should be done regularly, but not too frequently. You'll know if you're deep cleansing too frequently by the dryness that your skin will exhibit. Don't be surprised if you find you've unblocked an oil flow for the first few days. Once you remove the plugs from your pores, they will begin functioning properly again. Perfect skin won't happen overnight and while it should take a few massages to achieve your goal, you should notice a huge difference in your skin after the first deep cleansing massage. Give your skin a few days to adjust and adapt to being clean and clear of blockages; understand that the new oil coming from your skin is actually a good sign and will balance out very shortly. You'll find redness and irritation subsiding. You'll find your skin losing that "congested," and thick feeling. Hope it benefits all. Lovingly
  21. Yeh finally..... its lovely talking to you. thanks for the welcome. its good to know so many experienced phero users & fragrance lovers. i am sure we will enjoy exploring the unknown & have fun when it is known.....
  22. Hi frienz, heartiest greetings. I am happy to find LPMP & be here with all you guyz, n of course girlz... i am a die hard fragrance lover. I am not new to pheros but new to LPMP. About myself - I am in mid 30's,work in field of behavioral science, & love observing & helping people. I am a creative person, have different arts as hobbies. :emot25: I practice feminity everyday & would love to do anything to enhance it. ye yeh I am already on my voyage here at LPMP, & want to get lost in this wonderland forever.... LP fragrances are awesome. Thanks to Mara for creating this land & community for us fragrance lovers... I need advise of sr members on my newly acquired possessions - Supersexy, swimming with sharks, pherogirl, Heart & soul, Cuddlebunny, lace, leather And, Tabby, Love blossom, Flourite, Cougar in sample size. pls advise on the doses & the kind of probable hits. I am excited to do my bit for this community to grow it every night & day.... Wishing all the best wishes & gods blessings to LPMP, & its members. All suggestions are welcome.
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