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Oh good! I was afraid there for a second! Twenty vials sounds like a lot to me, (though not quite as sweet as 20 pounds would be!). I decided finally that I'll probably order all the samples of the perfume/phero blends that sound good and interesting to me. That way I get the best of both worlds, and I don't have to bother with blending & covering. I need this to be as stress-free as possible. Besides, I LOVE hand-crafted perfumes! I just went to the sample page & chose a bunch there that sounded awesome & like they might do some good. I'd earmarked some money for a fancy face scrubber thingy, but I wonder if my stash o'cash might not be better spent here? At the moment, pheromones sound a lot more fun than scrubbing my face! Lol!

Oh my gosh! The more I read people's descriptions of perfumes and pheros, the harder it is to decide what to choose! Would it be crazy to order about 20 samples??? Is that outta line? 'Cause that's kinda what I'm coming down to. I think my head might implode from all the options. And just one more thing: is there a sample size of Treasured Hearts? I've looked and looked, 'cause I thought I might have missed it, but don't think there is one. Made me sad...

I'm really curious to see how the boyfriend will react. He's generally very protective of everyone, but he's not physically expressive. Not even wiith me, which bums me out, snce I"m one of those women who really craves non-sexual physicality. Oooh, I like the sexual brand too, of course. But it might be nice to get a kiss or a hug just for the sake of the kiss/hug. That's what I'm really curious about. If it doesn't work, too bad for me, I guess. But jeez, it would be so nice! :-) And he has his chivalristic moments, so there's hope!

Haha! Sorry about the pocketbook! It's not me, I swear - it's this place! Everything is so intriguing. Every time I start reading, I'm absolutely fascinated. And about new scents - I'm already a bit of a scent junkie, having made my own for the last 10 years or so - I am so going to lose the house! My boyfriend just groaned when I told him about this fabulous 'perfume' site I'd found. He knew immediately it's going to cost. A lot. :-) I'm already distracted by so many awesome sounding scents. I'm going for some of the phero blends first, 'cause that's what brought me here in the first place, but I can see myself spending way too much money on beautiful perfumes... spiked with pheros, of course! I kind of liked the idea of Lace, too. Something about it, (other than the fact that it's named after the girliest thing on the planet), makes me think it will make me feel pretty. :-)

I might have read the EST thread already. I'll have to go back and read it again, though. Honestly, I've been reading so much on this site that I think my eyeballs are going to dry up and fall out! It's tough to tell with my boyfriend what 'type' he is, or likes. But I figured that if I'm going to order a bunch of samples, it couldn't hurt to throw something with Lace in there. I read the 'Female Magic' thing too. I think that's what caught my attention. I'm off to the New Users Guide to read about EST...

Hiya Calii, I think it was the Garland and Lace v4 I was looking at. I'd want it scented, anyway, 'cause I think that to start with, it would be better for me to have everything scented. Plus, that way I get to try a bunch of scents, too! If G&L v4 is still there when I'm ready to place my order, I'll get some for sure. If not, I guess I'll wait for v5! Lol!

Thanks Dolly, I really appreciate that offer, and I may take you up on it! I like frank and open, BTW. Frank and open means I don't have to wear wading boots. ;-)

I'm trying to put together a list of samples that I'd like to order, and I keep coming back to Lace. Is this a blend I can wear in public without causing a scandal or a riot? Also a question about the EST: has anyone ever had any negative effects with younger men? I know the write-up said it could happen & I don't want to scare the young'un off! Shoot! I think I posted in the wrong place! Should be in the new users guide. Sorry!

Ooh! I'm with Halo. I'm awfully fond of Mexican beaches, but any beach would do.

Hi Halo, I don't think I realized that DHEA is already in Perfect Match, (it's hard to keep the all straight!). I thought she meant to add it myself. I'd rather not start mixing stuff up - these ladies are the pros, so I'll just find what I'm looking for amongst the things they've already made available. It's so fun looking at all the blends, perfumes included. I was up forever last night reading reviews of products. So much fun. I can't wait to try some stuff! I've already found about fifty perfumes that I think I need to have! I need to exercise some caution here, or I'll be broke soon. Broke and smelling pretty! After reading everything, and talking to all of you lovely ladies, I feel much better than I did when I first posted yesterday. I feel more relaxed. And trust me, it's really something to get me to relax when I'm all wound up about something. I've got to say: good job everyone!

Well good, Missdarlyncherie! I'm glad someone's finding this useful besides just me. Thank you! Whenever I get an idea in my head, I get very singluar about it. It's as if I have to cram everything into my head all at once, or some of it's gonna slip back out again! I was probably a very annoying child. Yup... I'm really digging all the advice everyone's given today. I've gotten myself a notebook to keep it all straight, (see? that's to keep it all from sliding back out of my head!). It's like a pheromone cram-study session for me today. All very useful stuff. And so interesting and entertaining! I've been reading the reviews of different blends, and those are hillarious! Such a fun place!

Yeah! Luna, that's just what I was getting at. I don't want to be all skanky and 'get off my man'. That kind of behaviour grosses me out, and I would die if anyone thought that of me. I effect I'm going for, (from him), is more of a beaming 'that's my girlfriend' thing. You know, I want him to be kind of chuffed to be with me. You're awesome! Thank you! :^)

Luna: I got it now. I think I misunderstood you. Thank you for all your help. You're so patient. Katz: thanks for the feedback on Milkmaid cops. I don't know why, but the description of the scent is really appealing to me. I figured it might be a good blender. Vanilla-scented things usually are. In my every day I wear jasmine, sandalwood, sometimes ylang ylang. In the right amounts, they can all be complemeneted by vanilla. Cool. It's going on the list! Ooh! One more Q: would Super Sexy be too much for that kind of situation? Just for reference, he and I both work in the restaurant industry. So when I'm talking about his workplace, it's not like he's in an office! But often, especially in summer, (because we're in a tourist town), a lot of restaurant workers gather in pubs & stuff to unwind, the two of us included - and often people from his work. I don't want to come across all slutty. I just want to *sparkle* a bit more than the others! Haha! Cheesy, I know.

Hey Luna, that's so strange that you just suggested Popularity Potion, because I was just going to ask about it. No, I don't want to be territorial. I don't want to cause anyone any discomfort. I just want to tilt his attention in my direction! So PP would work with some cops, and would help to lessen any negative vibes? I don't want any negativity - there's enough of that going on in my head, I don't need to intensify it outside of my head, too! Yikes!

Oh YAY!!!!!!! Mara, you just made my entire day! I've been admiring all these great labels for 2 days now, and there are seriously some I want to buy *because* of the labels. Yahoo!!!

Hiya Gabylicious! Thank you for the welcome. I accept my new addiction - and I haven't even tried anything yet! Lol! I know an addiction when I see one. I love the description of Pherogirl. All that honey AND copulins? Umm... okay! It'll be one of the first that I order. And I can't wait! Jeez, at this rate I'll have to take my jars of pennies to the bank! I've chosen so many things that I want to try - pheromones and just plain old scents - I don't know how I'll afford them all. I might have to quit paying rent! 'Cause I want to order a lot of things just because the labels are pretty! Please, please tell me there are sweet labels on the roll-on/oil vials! They're so awesome...

Hi Princess Fiona. I keep looking at that LP Red. Everyone here raves about it. In fact, I think it's how I wound up here in the first place! Maybe I should get me some of that, too... Aw man! I'm gonna be broke by the end of January at this rate! But from what I hear, it'll be worth it! Thanks for the welcome. It's so nice that everyone takes the time to say hello.

Cool. Okay. I suppose it's best to try them all out at home first. I'm not sure I want to know how you wound up smelling like a coochy-head! LOL! No cops in hair. Got it. Only cops close to body, in oil form. Got it. Awesome. I really do feel better just developing a plan, and a fun plan at that. I have little butterflies in my stomach at the possibilities! Thanks for the night-out wear, too. I keep leaning toward Super Sexy and Cougar, so I'm glad to have people backing me up there. Has anyone tried the Milkmaid cops? I often wear jasmine essential oil, and thought that the Milkmaid's vanilla might be a good pairing. Maybe not quite so jarring if it's layered with something I already wear regularly. I hope everyone will forgive my never-ending questions today. Like I said, I'm on holidays right now, so I have a lot of time to dedicate to learning all about this. And when I get it into my head to learn about something, I'm inexhaustible until I feel comfortable. Sorry if I'm being annoying. I'm like a dog with a new chew toy; I need to chew it and squeeze it until I get the squeaker out. Cute and funny perhaps, but really annoying, too. Apologies! Lol!

Hi Liz! I like your l'il flashing sign! Thanks for the welcome. While I'm at it, thank you again to everyone. You've all been so welcoming and helpful, and well, just downright sweet. :^)

Grr... my computer gave me the boot just as I was about to hit 'Post'. Luna, I'd actually chosen those three to try in the wax melty things. I thought it might make a nice, comfortable atmosphere for the two of us in our home. We're very comfortable together at home, but I'd like to emphasize that feeling so he'll feel happy to come home, and happy to be home. With me. Does that make sense? Although, I had actually thought I might try Heart & Soul in the pink/dog labelled perfume. Gosh, my list just keeps growing and growing... So here's another awkward/dorky question I would like some help with: sometimes I have to be in the same room with my boyfriend and these cute girls he works with - it's sometimes unavoidable. How do I emphasize my own 'sexy' and keep his focus more on me, than on them? Pheremonally speaking, of course! God, I'm so embarrassed having to ask such nerdy, insecure questions, but I have been wondering that for a while now. Would Cougar be a good one to wear in that kind of situation? Or Super Sexy? Would I add cops in a situation like that??? *sigh* so much to learn...

Hiya Dolly! And thanks for the welcome. I've been having a lot of fun today, hearing everyone's suggestions, and trying to hone my phero choices accordingly. So far, so good. So... how do you know? (You've got me curious). I've kind of narrowed down my selection to Phero Girl, ('cause I love honey - it's my favourite food, and I think it's sexy as all get-out), and Cougar, 'cause it would be nice to feel sexy, Super Sexy for Women I settled on the moment I read about its popularity, and maybe some other scented cops just for variety. I can't wait until I get a better feel for this stuff, like you and well, most of the others! I used to make my own aphrodisiac perfumes, (some of them worked a little too well on an old beau!), and it would be nice to have a better grasp on how to use them, mix them, and get some great, fun effects! I'm really looking forward to that. And to someone else making the perfume for a change! So Cougar or Super Sexy during the day, and OCCO at night... don't mind me, I'm writing it down, adding it to my gigantic list of suggestions! Thanks again, Dolly. It's really nice to be here. I'm feeling better already.

FWB. Got it. Thanks for the explanation. Never would have guessed that one on my own! And I think I just might splurge. I'd actually dog-eared some money a while ago, to buy another pheromone, (much more expensive than here, and couldn't find any decent reviews of it, so I put it off). Think I might put the kai-bosh on the expensive one, and try a few that I've heard more about - from here. I'd rather trust this community than a bunch of reviews that sound as if they were written by the same person. Mara, thank you very much for the welcome, and SO very much for cleariing up the copulin confusion for me. I feel better now. I was having an anxiety attack there for a bit! Lol! I also appreciate the advice regarding DHEAS. I thought I might be on the right track there, but it's nice to have my guess verified. Perfect Match caught my attention last night, so perhaps I'll try that with DHEAS, like you suggested. What would be a good every-day/night at home kind of blend to try? Something that will make him feel happy and content to be there with me? Would the Perfect Match/DHEAS blend be good in that capcity, too? Or would it be better to try something else, instead?

Haha! Katz, I gathered from reading a kajillion posts last night that Luna's smart - today when I posted, I hoped she would chime in! I can definitely identify with needing something on my side. (Umm... what is an FWB?). I might fess up once I'm more comfy with the idea. Right now I just want him to think it's all me! Heehee! It'll be more fun for me that way, instead of embarrassing to admit that I feel insecure. Whatever happens, I plan to try and have some fun with it. I will be taking Luna's cops advice. Sounds like damned fine advice to me. I can't believe I'm saying this, (because I"m awfully fond of being on holidays), but I can hardly wait to go back to work so I'll have some extra cash! ...who am I kidding? I"ll probably just splurge. I'm a splurgy kind of gal these days. What's one more? ;-)

Yes, it's true: boys will be boys. And everyone's flattered by attention. But it's not that he's paying attention to strangers - he's never done that. It's girls he works with that has me worried. YOu're right though, Luna: who the hell knows what he's thinking? I just want to make sure I stand out from the crowd as someone special and (still) sexually attractive. Preferably more sexually attractive than his pretty co-workers!

Clever Luna! That makes total sense. I'd better make sure it's awesome sex then, hadn't I? They'd have to be pretty powerful, these copulins, to draw his attention away from his guitar, (he's a musician), and his video games, (he's also a bit of a nerd, I guess, Lol!). Well I"m very glad to know I'm not the only one to keep pheromone use to herself. Thanks for the reassurance everyone. I thought I might be a weirdo, I guess I'm not, I'm just a very private person. (With the exception of spilling my guts here, that is). And I really appreciate the guidance. Actually, I did talk to my Mom about this, (and *that* was an uncomfortable conversation, let me tell you!), and she suggested that he could be showing interest in the younger hotties because they're showing him interest, and that makes him feel good. After some reading, I kind of thought maybe DHEAS might be of some help there, because wouldn't that help provide those butterfly feelings in him when he's around me? That was one idea I had, because what my Mom said kind of made sense. Any opinions on the use of DHEAS? (Or will it cause butterflies in my tummy, not his?)