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Hi everyone! I am looking to enhance my dating life and wondering if you folks can help me out with recommendations. I stumbled across the AD offerings first in my research but I find these blends sooooo much cuter and more fun! A little bit about me: Female, just turned 36 and actively dating. (**not sleeping around - I reserve that for a serious exclusive relationship.) My goal is marriage, kids, the whole shebang... but it has to be with the right person, and I figure the more guys I meet the more chance I'll find that special connection. Sexual chemistry is super important to me but I'm also more traditional than most... I appreciate very masculine guys who are confident and like to lead - I don't feel comfortable approaching men. Most people think I'm still in my 20s and from researching cops I'm pretty sure I'm still producing them at least around ovulation time. (I don't know if I'm the prettiest girl in the room but men have always found me sexy and I believe this may be part of the explanation since I don't blatantly dress or act that way.) Anyway, I would love to dial that up some more since it's the sexual attraction that compels a man to come approach you and want to spend time with you! Here's what I'm looking for... I don't know if one product would work for all of these scenarios or several: 1. Something to encourage men to approach when I am out and about 2. Something for first dates (usually blind since I meet a lot of men online) 3. Something to encourage both attraction AND bonding on dates 2 & beyond 4. Anything to help put me in a better mood before a date So far the blends that have peaked my interest include OCCO White, Cuddle Bunny, SS4W, Like a Magnet, BAM, Blatant Invitation, Open Windows and Heart & Soul. But obviously I need to narrow down that list for my first purchase! And I want to have products that fit my personality... What do you guys think? Scented or unscented - is there any difference in strength/ease of use? I'm already a Pink Sugar user so layering is no problem... Also, should I be buying oils, silicones or alcohol sprays? I live in a colder climate and summers don't get crazy hot here. I would like maximum diffusion! thanks in advance for your advice!