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What's your favorite Love PotionĀ® fragrance? How were you introduced to our perfumes?

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  1. Hi everyone, I normally just read rather than post, but you all seem so helpful and I am in a love crisis! I am not sure if a phero will even assist me but here is the situation: I am a 34 year old woman, in a relationship for the last 7 months with a 46 year old man. The first half of our relationship, the communication was great- he encouraged me to be more open etc. And the sex was PHENOMENAL- lasting hours and just intense (scorpio thing maybe?) Even when it was a quickie it was never vanilla or lacking passion. I would have never thought him to be even close to his age either , given his stamina and physique. So fast forward to month 4-he has an "equipment failure" here and there, who cares right? That stuff happens, but since then his drive has gone way down, foreplay has all but vanished, he keeps my shirt on and now his shirt too, and its just 5-10 minute no frills banging. I should also mention that we used to enjoy a little bit of nasty text messaging quite often too, now if I bring up sex at all he shuts down. I am tearing up writing this, I don't know what to do and he is horrible at talking when it comes to anything serious. I feel like something is wrong with me. At first I thought he was cheating but he is more affectionate than ever and wants to spend every waking moment with me.
  2. I hope this hasn't been covered, I wasn't able to find it through searching. Phero fragrances, understanding that the phero is 1/3 the strength of the UN, how many hours would be recommended before refreshing your fragrance? Some fragrances get eaten up on my skin but I also don't want to ghost or OD. Suggestions?
  3. Hey there everyone! I hope all is well, I'm new here in the phero world and if you could, I need some advice and recommendations. I'd like to place an order soon which pretty well covers my schedule/environments/routine and I'm not really sure what I should get. I'm really interested in hearing your go-to's. My personality is very flirty, a bit wild, sometimes a bit of a bad girl, but with a bit of innocence if that makes sense. I'm not sure if this has anything to help take into account in narrowing options down. I'm hoping to make the order worth it and get a small variety. And grab some others in samples. I'm looking at mainly attractants I believe for the most part: 1. Something I could wear on dates thatd be sensual/seductive/sexually attracting. so maybe one that'd leave them head over heels, not necessarily in a way that'd scare them away but that'd have them thinking of me and wanting more (lusting?) 2. Something that'd be great for nights out, (I normally love going out dancing and to the bars) so maybe something that'd be more of a head turner as I walk past/popularity enhancing maybe? And again that's sensual/seductive/sexually attracting. 3. Something that I'd be able to wear at work Sexy, flirty, but not slutty or one that gives off a "fuck me right here right now" vibe. (I'm a bartender so I talk a lot with people, and there are tons of gorgeous options that come by) 4. And last but not least something good in the sack. (Yeah, I couldn't think of any other way of putting it..) I was also wondering if a boost is needed on any of the fragrances, would just a dab of essence suffice? Honestly, before I decided to resort to making this post I tried doing some research on the products offered here (reviews and descriptions). There were just so many to choose from so ultimately I got confused. Even when I was looking at ingredients I have no idea what ingredient produces what reaction, so I was at a standstill (I feel like a dumbass for not understanding). I'd really appreciate any and all help, thanks everyone! P.S. I'm really sorry for the longass novel I wrote here.. And thanks again to anyone that's able to read through this giant thing and help me.
  4. The situation: The BF is depressive and anxiety prone, not very good with expressing what's going on in his head or heart. He often says stupid things and gets upset with me for things I simply do not understand. Trying to portray the specifics would require a novel. Last night I cried myself to sleep after a phone conversation, not having a clue what he was tripping on, and I'm leaving today to spend a few days with him. It will be months before I see him again and I have seriously considered not going, which will only make it worse and break my heart. Sigh, he just called, wondering when I'll be there, and it seems everything is fine, like nothing happened, this is normal. What I believe: He has some internal struggle dealing with his emotional attachment to me, he's been hurt, his self worth destroyed, and doesn't have much experience dealing with love. I'm the opposite of everything he knows, empathy, patience and love are my forte, not to sound weird about that. I think my experience with him has illuminated me to those qualities in myself. Loving someone who struggles with depression is a full time commitment. I'm already struggling with the knowledge that I won't see him for awhile. I really want him to open up and get whatever it is out in the open, for better or worse. It's been years and we both need to come to terms with whatever it is that's ailing him, at least in terms of "us". The constant struggle between him pushing me away one minute and having a death grip on me the next is wearing me thin. I can't risk anything with A1 in it, if anyone has a suggestion on a blend that could help him communicate and deal with his emotions I'm all ears. I've spent hours/days reading review threads, I guess I'm hoping that someone has experience with similar circumstances and could provide some helpful insight. If we part at some point I'd rather not have a bunch of unsaid things that should have been addressed, and I really want him to be better for our time together, not further damaged.
  5. I originally found LP because my mom is dating again after a messy divorce and pheros were intriguing to me. Thanks to google and LPMP I'm now a bit obsessed with researching pheros in general and could use a little help/ advice for myself. Here it goes, all out. My hubby and I are over 40, 20 incredible years together and I have a boyfriend in his 50's. We are all friends, everything is honest and open, no secrets. I never dreamed I would be in a poly relationship but after 4 years of the worst sexual tension imaginable between the now BF and I the three of us took the plunge into what has been our relationship of three years. Generally speaking everything is great. The trouble is the BF suffers from anxiety and depression,being witness to the bad days can tear my heart out. He is also the only one that struggles with the social fears of acceptance in regards to our relationship. He has a bit of baggage from the ex wife, and some abandonment issues. Sometimes he subconsciously tries to push me away. I'm sure that some of that comes from having very traditional upbringing and views about relationships and an internal struggle with being the "third". None of us ever planned or imagined this would happen. When his depression gets the best of him he makes comments about how I'm going to go away too. He is a drear friend to my hubby and I love him very much, although there are no certainties in relationships, I don't see myself going anywhere, away from him, unless he decides to leave. What started out as friendship and the most animalistic, primal attraction I have ever experienced has turned into a very compassionate and loving relationship. My husband and I were both raised with good ol traditional values but as adults we have learned that love doesn't necessarily follow rules. The advice part: I would welcome any thoughts on what pheros I could wear that may help ease his anxiety without losing the sexual spark that exists between us. This is a very sincere request and I would appreciate casting personal judgements aside.
  6. Hi everyone! I am trying to decide between the two above, the BF and I have a trial of touchdown and we like it. But top dog also sounds pretty nice and there were very few reviews of how it worked on skin other than not-floral. Through a little experimenting tonight, we determined that the BF likes stronger scents but is not picky. I guess it would boil down to which one is the best carrier for MVP OR which one has a stronger, longer lasting scent? Thanks! ETA: MEH, I initially thought there was no review for top dog, so after posting here in the phero fragrance review section (so as to make a pseudo-review for top dog) I scrolled and found it. Please move to general men's forum if that's where this thread belongs... so sorry!!
  7. Hi, all. Merry Christmas. And nothing says Christmas like cops questions, don't you think? I didn't find exactly this question when I looked through the boards, so I'm assuming this is a new one. If it's not then I apologise to the mods/admins. Now, there's lots of helpful info on here about where you should and *should not* wear cops. Away from the face/hair and down on the torso seem to be the best bet. In addition, Mara noted (and others joined in agreement) that places on the body that produce their own personal scents (behind the ears) should not have cops (or pheros?) applied there. So, erm, this leads me to a somewhat delicate question. If: 1) Cops emulate a fertile woman's natural sexy musk and 2) Keeping cops away from face, hair, wrists, etc. in favour of the torso is good Then, erm, how low can you go if you get to the torso and keep on heading south? I imagine putting cops (and possibly pheros) too close to one of the main places where one's own sexy smells originate could be bad, based on logical inference from what I've read on here. Is that correct? And if so then how close is too close generally (allowing for the natural variations in body chemistry and so on). It seems sensible to have the DTF aura emanating from approximately the region it would naturally but this also could be risky. Experienced cops-users, care to share your hard-won wisdom?
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