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Ok, I'll go first. The pheromones or blends that have gotten me the most favors are: Cuddle Bunny & Lace (both heavy EST blends)
So I have been noticing something. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I thought I had it figured out in terms of which pheromone he responded best to. I thought it was LFM for the majority of the first 1.5 years because I would notice that he would be more apt to go along with what I asked, but I also noticed that LFM (as well as Leather and LFN ) would make him agreeable to my desires but kinda unhappy about it. Like he was doing it because I asked but it didn't bring him joy. We were also prone to argue more if I wore these pheromones more. Then I tried EST heavy fragrances because he is Alpha and he would be sweet at first but then try to exert his will and be a little bossy. So these were quickly put away (although I loved wearing them). These scents were Cuddle Bunny and Lace (including Red Lace). So I thought back and noticed that he always liked when I wore Cougar around him. We always had a blast! However CB and LFM had always been my guaranteed go-to's in the past with other guys when I wanted to get my way or be spoiled (and I love being spoiled). HERE'S THE FUNNY THING THAT HAPPENED. I noticed that the more fun we had (both of us) while wearing Cougar, the more he seemed as if he RELISHED in pleasing me, spoiling me and surprising me...GO FIGURE!! Any of you other ladies had a similar experience as this?
Since I'm such a newbie idk if it'll let me post anything but I'm gonna try. I have a boring office job and one as an assistant director for the high school plays. We're gearing up to do a spring musical and I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas what I should wear around the teens / my boss? Our director can be sort of prickly at times, but she is very matter of fact and good with the kids - as long as she's not in a foul mood. Since I'm closer to their age (about a decade older) I would like to give off the approachable / fun vibe to the teens. The kind where you can talk to me about anything, but also have the ability to be respected and in charge if need be. Usually I don't have a problem with that, but as it's a musical there will be A LOT more kids and it's going to be immensely stressful so I want it to be a good, bonding environment for everyone - including myself. It takes me awhile sometimes to warm up to people because I have major depression and I'm not one who enjoys crowds so I'm thinking I need something with very good self effects too. I shine with good self effects. Plus, I just got a BUNCH of new pheros so I'm excited to try them out. I was thinking either Lumina / Open Windows / Levitation / maybe Mother's Little Helper would be good? I have only tried Open Windows with the fall kids (a smaller group) before, to decent success... I think? I'm not sure if I notice much of a difference With Open Windows honestly... maybe I'm using too much / not enough? It's hard to gauge it's effectiveness with all their different personalities and mood swings haha. Any thoughts?!
Has anyone ever covertly used any unscented Pheros for men on your partner or hubs? All this focus and research on trying to find something I can wear, that will make him hot for me... Could I get something to "innocently" (yes, I said that) season his aura that might RELEASE THE KRAKEN for me ??? He's a RL Original Polo (Green) Dude and rarely strays from that... which isn't all bad because I love smelling it just to think of him. Married 20 years, 2 kids, FINALLY heading into perimenopause at 55 (and not having to have birth control always in the back of my mind), my objective and obsession is to start stoking those fires a bit... and perhaps trying to be less inhibited myself as a 'mature' female. Oh, I THINK about it a LOT... it's just freeing the lusty temptress (who grew up with her share of Catholic guilt!) is more of a fantasy than a reality right now. And I know what will probably come out of this post is a recommendation for something that will lessen MY inhibition (that advice is welcome as well), but is there anything that might drive ME crazy if I manage to get some on HIM? The thought of using myself as part of my "research" is kind of thrilling, actually. But, I don't want to let my subject (my husband) in on all this "research"... I don't want anything skewing the data. If you want to chastise me for even thinking of covert opps on my man I will understand, but isn't that what the very definition of what a love potion is? Thanks in advance for any and all sage advice!