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Hi, I’m back!😃 Between being unwell, having more family time and LO being on a break from daycare, I haven’t found enough time to post. My order took a little longer to arrive than previous ones but it did a few days ago, and I’ve sorted through all my bottles and trial sizes. So excited to have my arsenal expanded!🥰
 

I’ve posted my reviews of UN Open Windows and Baby Blue w/Open Windows in the relevant sub-forums (in a nutshell: they literally turned my partner’s frown upside down and keep getting laughs, stories and offers of treats from him!). 
 

Here I actually want to ask for opinions/experiences of others with all the sexual blends when you were starting out. I have 8 (!), mostly unopened, vials of scented blends that I’m too scared to try, in case I turn my SO off rather than on.
 

We haven’t been intimate all that often since having our LO, and the longer we leave it, the more nervous I get. Almost as if we’ve never seen each other naked before! We exchange sexual innuendoes every day, and we just need a nudge to make an effort to actually carry through with the deed. So… What order could I try the following sexy blends in (in ascending order of cops amount, presumably?🤔):

 

LAM

BAM!

Blatant Invitation (either UN or scented)

La Femme Mystere

Gotcha
Sexology

Cuddle Bunny

OCCO White

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@CosmoTea, with the caveat that I’m no phero expert: Blatant Invitation and any of the OCCOs  would be tied for my #1 pick. But the OCCOs are a perfume version of Viagra.  Whatever fragrance they are (OCCO White, Pink, Red, Black)  could also trigger scent association memories.  The pheromone blends, whether or not they contain copulins  have a more complex effect.  
 

Sexology less sexual, more encouraging nurturing perhaps? Cuddle Bunny, nurturing plus cops, LAM and BAM! are less complex (I’d put Cuddle Bunny in that category too).

 

 LFM is less sexual than LFN.  Both are complex   Both I think totally different effect from BI. 

 

Gotcha, more complex than sexual. I believe Mara created it as a pheromone version of her Love Potion fragrances. 
 

Good luck, and have fun experimenting! 

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Hey @Eve! Thank you as always for sharing🤗 I think once I find the right one to start with, and once I get a consistently good result, there will be no stopping me. I just think back to Cuddle Bunny and think, that was NOT a good date night. But then I didn’t use any social blends in the run up to that, so the cops and Est might have taken my SO aback.

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I would start with LFM higher up (hair/neck) and add a decent amount of OCCO around your belly, cleavage, inner thighs and smoosh it around with your wrists. Just make sure the OCCO dries before putting on clothes and keep it away from your hair. I think the LFM will give you a ton of confidence, since it sounds like you are feeling a bit shy. I love LFN and that always gets me a great response from my husband.  I would road test Gotcha when you're alone first - sometimes it makes me a bit emotional and I don't generally wear it to initiate physical intimacy. Gotcha helps more with emotional bonding for me. Blatant Invitation is also great for physical intimacy and bonding, but probably won't give you the same confidence boost as LFM or LFN. Good luck and have fun experimenting!

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Thanks @Kayla, I thought none of the blends with cops can’t be applied above cleavage. Is LFM an exception? Do LFM, LFN and Blatant Invitation need 20 min dry down? 
 

Edited because I’ve realised that LFM has no cops!🤦‍♀️ It has Est as the first ingredient though, so I will test Lace first (Alpha-anol & Est) to see how my SO reacts to Est this time around.

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1 hour ago, CosmoTea said:

Thanks @Kayla, I thought none of the blends with cops can’t be applied above cleavage. Is LFM an exception? Do LFM, LFN and Blatant Invitation need 20 min dry down? 
 

Edited because I’ve realised that LFM has no cops!🤦‍♀️ It has Est as the first ingredient though, so I will test Lace first (Alpha-anol & Est) to see how my SO reacts to Est this time around.

You can try straight LFM without adding an OCCO during the daytime if you prefer. LFM has a way different vibe than Lace. Lace is more girly and upbeat. If you apply BI, give it plenty of time to dry down. I haven't found LFN to need as much time to dry down, but everyone is different. 

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Good luck! If it were me, I would probably start with either LAM or OCCO White. On another thread, you said Open Windows worked well with him. Maybe Open Windows with the OCCO White? OW to keep him happy and the OCCO White to work its magic? LAM would probably work the same way.

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@RosesArePink Hey, yes, I thought about combining Open Windows with a sexual pheromone. I just figured OCCO was straight up cops, so much stronger than blends that have other pheromones in them? SO didn’t react well to Cuddle Bunny, which could’ve been due to cops.

 

I’ve confused myself even further- Gotcha doesn’t have cops🙈 So both LFM and Gotcha can be applied to hair and neck. Which one’s better to try first? 

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Lace is more girly, feminine but with a less strong “confident woman” vibe.   LFM gives off a more self assured impression.  The LAM and BAM!  are single molecules plus cops. Neither I don’t believe have as high a concentration of cops as the OCCOs. 

It seems like your immediate goal is to have intimacy again. Longer term goal is commitment to marry. I’d break it up into these segments.  Use a sexual one that gives you confidence for times it seems likely the deed can happen, instead of mixing intents together as one. 
 

LFM is more about you, and how he perceives you.  If you think you could use more confidence, it is designed to give that aura. Gotcha is more about reeling him in for the ceremony and ring.  Neither are overtly sexual.  
 

Me?  I’d wear BI or OCCOs  plus  a happy phero to get him in the bed. Put it on early in the day when he’s going to be around you, and just let things happen when they do.  
 

I feel like BI also instills confidence in the woman wearing it.  LFM and LFN have  perhaps a more “elegant”  signature. 

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Well, ladies… I chickened out of using a blend with cops, thinking I would start with something that might give me confidence first. Instead of LFM I accidentally used Honeyed LP w/Gotcha, and once I noticed the label, I was already 2 swipes in. 

Since I didn’t give Gotcha a good go before (I used too little, 2 swipes, with no result), I thought I would apply more of it and see what happens. I tipped the vial over on the skin, like you @Eveand someone else suggested before. Wrists, crooks of elbows, cleavage and back of the neck. Honey scents aren’t for me normally, but did I not feel sexy after an hour!! 😃🦵🏻I layered it with Betrothal Potion but I could still detect a bit of honey. 

Most scents don’t last on me into the next morning, which works fine because I try out another scent the next day. The honey scent of Gotcha lasted for well over 12 hours and oh, my….🤫🤩 Our LO was at nursery (daycare) and we made full use of our alone time for the first time in maaany months😁 Looks like honey is a good scent for self-effects and agrees with my partner.  And that isn’t even the full strength! I shall do more testing to confirm the effect.
 

I’m now on the fence about whether to order UN pheromones or scented. I could get UN Gotcha and a layerable Sugared Honeycomb or NoCo Honey. Or I could go for Honeyed LP w/Gotcha full bottle. What do you @Eve do with the scents that you want to get FBs of? What do the rest of you ladies think? 

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1 hour ago, CosmoTea said:

….🤫🤩 Our LO was at nursery (daycare) and we made full use of our alone time for the first time in maaany months😁 

 

This makes me happy! (Likely not as happy as you two are though:lol:)

 

There are many honey scents that are distinctly different from each other.  It’s unfortunate that shipping takes as long as it has been to get to the UK, and that you have the added cost for it.  Nevertheless, it is probably a good idea to get a few in the trial sizes first. It’s a slower way to get what you want, if you find you love one, and have then to wait for a full sized bottle, but due to the wide varieties of honeys out there, in the long run it makes sense. 

 

My favorite is Beewitched.  In fact it very well may be my all time favorite perfume.  It is a rose and honey scent like none I’ve ever smelled before.  I don’t know how many are left in stock.  Mara rebrewed immediately when it sold out so quickly.  I have both the original and the rebrew and they’re the same to my nose.  It has no pheromones and would be perfect for boosting with Gotcha, or any of the pheromones except Leather or Dominance.  Those would not be congruent.  I have a bottle boosted with Sexology, one boosted with Charisma for Women, and a couple bottles boosted with cops.  I use it as a spray too. (Yes I love it!)

 

Phero Girl is a honeyed perfume with cops.The “virgin” version is UNE.  At first l liked them layered with the Noco White, but getting the ratio right for my skin chemistry was tricky, and I didn’t care for just the scent by itself, and it’s been ages since I’ve made the attempt.  
 

Sugared Honeycomb and SLF were fails for me, but many love them. 
 

The most recent collection has Goddess that is another entirely different honey scent than the others.  This also has Aja in it.  
 

When I first came to LPMP I tended to use the unscented versions of pheromones.  It does lend more versatility.  As time passed I’ve come to ordering them already boosted.  Not only do I trust Mara to know the correct strength, but I also am at a disadvantage because I don’t have many “selfies” from the social pheromones in particular—so how would I know I had enough or too much on, you know what I mean? 
 

It will be interesting to see what others here suggest, and yay for you! 

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@Eve Thank you, as always, for your support and being happy for me! Today was exactly the reason why I decided to explore pheromones in the first place, and today’s experience has definitely spurred me on. I’m so grateful to have found LPMP and this community, and very grateful for my ever-growing scent collection🥰

 

I’ve been lucky to get some orders within a week before, so can’t complain. It’s maybe a good thing that I live far away, I get a chance to pace myself:lol:

 

Good call about trialing different honey types until I find the right one for me. I was actually curious about Beewitched, it’s no longer on the website though. I might get it on Etsy if it doesn’t get rebrewed. Thanks for the suggestion!

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9 hours ago, CosmoTea said:

 

 and we made full use of our alone time for the first time in maaany months😁

 

🙂 So glad Gotcha worked for you! Yeah, it’s confusing to figure out what’s the best one to use! If you aren’t sure about the honey scent, maybe the UN is the way to go? Sounds like it was phero more than the scent since you also layered Betrothal Potion over it. 

 

Like Eve, honey doesn’t always work for me either. Sugared Honeycomb doesn’t work for me. But I also really like Beewitched (Also hope there is another rebrew). And I want to try Goddess to see if it will work for me. I think I have layered Pure Sugar with Honeyed Love with Gotcha to mellow it out a little. I’ve only used it on a target guy once and would have to check my notes.

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Thanks @RosesArePink! I went to order several full bottles of stuff and wanted to order a trial of Beewitched but couldn’t find any. Along with Pherotine Heart&Soul. They both must be really popular!

 

I’m finally planning on trying out one of my sexy trial vials this week, my first time playing with cops! After reading lots of reviews, I’m a bit concerned about the longevity of cops (their effect lasting well into the next day even after after a shower) and the scent of cops smelling like urine to women. It’s lovely to have that much staying power, but I need to be able to visit my parents, take my child to daycare, be out in public places etc.

 

My SO and I are both off for a long weekend, and he is usually in the mood for intimacy in the morning, as opposed to later on. So if I apply Blatant Invitation, LAM or Sexology, try to seduce my SO and then shower before leaving the house a few hours later, will everyone around me detect cops? I don’t even know what I would do with OCCO s🤔 Heeelp, ladies!

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Firstly, the scent of copulins does not smell like urine to me.  At all.  Ever.  Some people do get a suggestion of vinegar, I know.

 

But no, I would say that not everyone is going to detect cops on you.  Some people might depending on how close they get to you, but it's not like they're even going to know what it is anyway.  Reaction depends a lot on context.  Usually if they do last into the next day or so you have to get really close to get a reaction - in my experience.

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Thanks @luna65. I’m guessing with me showering, then maybe using witch hazel and wearing layers of clothes, it would be ok. I was worried because of people saying they were getting hits even after showering, and I would rather not get my stepfather or women around me acting funny. 

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@CosmoTea  The only one that I’d be hesitant to wear if I knew I’d be out around the general population relatively soon afterwards is Sexpionage.  I wear cops every single day. I wear fragrances with Sexology on my torso and have never felt it was inappropriate unless I was going to be physically close in a smaller enclosed space, or in frequent  physical contact with adults other than my guy.  By showering first, anything lingering will be negligible.  
 

If you can still smell the fragrance on your skin after you shower, and it is one of the heavy hitters with Sexpionage in particular, or if you’re wearing a ton of cops in addition to a pheromone blend that also has a high percentage of cops, then yes, witch hazel.  But I think you may be more concerned about this than you need be.  
 

I hope you make good use of your long weekend :say09752:

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Thank you for putting my mind at ease @Eve! I was overthinking it, wasn’t I. I think I am getting a parcel tomorrow with LAM, Lace and a couple of non-phero scents. Mara brews such interesting floral combinations! I am always amazed by their depth, and scents that I would never think I would wear (Honeyed Love Potion, for example) are becoming my favourite. I will post back after testing out my sexy blends:Emoticons04235:

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🥳. Hope you have a great weekend! Sounds like you are moving in the right direction.

 

Interesting that Heart & Soul pherotine bottles are sold out already. I would not have guessed that (though, it really is a great blend, especially with some added cops/OCCO 😈).

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