lss Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 After having 2 children and running a full time business, putting on alot of weight etc, my husband and I are not as intimate as we used to be. Alot of it is due to my lack of confidence but I would like to start to rekindle our intimacy. I am not looking for hot sex necesarrily, more of a gentle, comforting reconnection, but if sex should happen that would be fine too - any recommendations? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starlitegirl Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Cuddle bunny and sexology sound like they might suit you. They're geared toward more intimacy and connection than outright sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therapygirl Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 I totally second that rec. My So and myself had very rough patch last year. Scented Cuddle Bunny got us through that and enabled us to bond again, Sexology took it ti a deeper level. I would also try the new release Return to Me. Lover's Reunion Potion is one I charged and used with vigor as well, but for pheros those are the two. The one I would add after that is Treasured Hearts for nesting and permanence with the new found bonding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luna65 Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 Cuddle Bunny thirded, it is amazing for the purposes of intimacy in terms of coupledom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starlitegirl Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 I totally second that rec. My So and myself had very rough patch last year. Scented Cuddle Bunny got us through that and enabled us to bond again, Sexology took it ti a deeper level. I would also try the new release Return to Me. Lover's Reunion Potion is one I charged and used with vigor as well, but for pheros those are the two. The one I would add after that is Treasured Hearts for nesting and permanence with the new found bonding. Oh very great recommendations with explanations. I love it when people add specifics about their experience with them. Thanks for taking the time to do that. Always gives me a better feel for which ones to use in which circumstances. Thanks TG! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beccah Posted January 12, 2010 Share Posted January 12, 2010 I'll add that the blend is going to depend on him personally. My husband doesn't respond well to full strength blends containing Est.(everyone else does ). He responds well to 1x Cougar, G&L, 7 min., & LAM. I don't get as much of a blatant sexual response from him with cops. Its more of a friendly, playful atmosphere when I use LAM. I get nothing from Sexology, except 'Ive smelled that before'. Just a thought... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolly Posted January 13, 2010 Share Posted January 13, 2010 I'll add that the blend is going to depend on him personally. My husband doesn't respond well to full strength blends containing Est.(everyone else does ). Yours isn't an oddball, Beccah! Mine usually only responds to Est in smaller doses, or tempered with more dominant pheros (BI, Leather)..... I get mixed results from him with Lace, Sexology, etc.....I never can predict the results I will get with those....sometimes EXCELLENT, somtimes "meh", sometimes not-so-good..... Did get very nice results from him with Treasured Hearts, also..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lss Posted January 20, 2010 Author Share Posted January 20, 2010 Thank you all so much for taking the time to reply and I will definately give some of those a whirl. Sounds like Cuddle Bunny might be a good place to start. Thanks again xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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