Coughing up an emotional hairball...

[Shelly B]

Something is bothering HSF - want to see if when we are together this weekend I can create a warm, loving protective (and maybe sexy?) safe place to let out whatever the problem is...

 

I don't have TC and I HATE it anyway...OW not right for this I think... H&S for day and Sexology for night to get the BNOL/EST whammo going? Thoughts? Anyone tried blending the two?

 

Advice sought from my darling VGF's since I have not been an EsT or BNOL user...

[therapygirl]

Cuddle Bunny has always been the dead ringer for this situation for me, but the two that you picked should accomplish your purpose. I hate it when there is obviously something that needs to be said! Good luck!

[LadyRose]

I'm no expert but I've used BNOL and EST a lot. The Est seems to make guys around me want to take care of me and protect me, they seem calm/sweet. Does that make any sense? I use the straight BNOL along with whatever other Pheros I'm using when we go out as a group and it seems to make the GFs open up and we have fewer jealousy issues. Too much and I start being to honest though.

[Mademoiselle]

Mmm... I would say some Garland & Lace, Cuddle Bunny (which I loooove too!) would be my pheros of choice.

BAM if you guy needs to feel like he can open up to you.

Good luck Shelly!

[Dolly]

I have used B-nol (either BAM or TC) along with Treasured Hearts to get my man to open up.....it worked miracles!

[luna65]

For me, Cuddle Bunny brought down the walls, so that's my suggestion.

[Calii]

Hmmm...I have no direct experience but Sexology would be like Cuddle Bunny with the added B-nol...I think I would go with your first instinct and wear H&S,followed by Sexolgy for evening. H&S encouraged a friend to seek my advice.

 

Whatever you decide I hope you get the results you want...and of course it goes without saying that what he needs to say is not something you do not want to hear !

[tyvey]

Funny, I've found Treasured Hearts to be hands down the one that most moves people to let down their guard, be more trusting and loving - *and* it seems to draw a cougar-esque adoration vibe from men. And CB for me just has a very straight-up sexual vibe - like BI almost but more serious. H&S seems to loosen *my* tongue (sometimes to excess) but I haven't noticed effects on others (maybe b/c I've been too busy yakking their ears off). ...in short if it were me I'd go TH. But I seem to be in the minority...

[Dolly]

Funny, I've found Treasured Hearts to be hands down the one that most moves people to let down their guard, be more trusting and loving - *and* it seems to draw a cougar-esque adoration vibe from men. And CB for me just has a very straight-up sexual vibe - like BI almost but more serious. H&S seems to loosen *my* tongue (sometimes to excess) but I haven't noticed effects on others (maybe b/c I've been too busy yakking their ears off). ...in short if it were me I'd go TH. But I seem to be in the minority...

 

 

Well, I'm there with you Tyvey.....I have gotten great results from Treasured Hearts....whenever I have gotten ready to have one of those "difficult" conversations, it is the one I have turned to.....

[Mademoiselle]

Well, I'm there with you Tyvey.....I have gotten great results from Treasured Hearts....whenever I have gotten ready to have one of those "difficult" conversations, it is the one I have turned to.....

 

Yes, it's true Treasured Heart is the blabber mouth mix for me.

On Cuddle Bunny, I am talking about Ail's original version, the scented one, not the one that is unscented, and that is supposed to be much more sexual.