Ishtar Posted March 28, 2011 Share Posted March 28, 2011 I was wondering if you could give me some recommendations to help me break an old pattern in my love life. Although I'm very outgoing and meet people easily, I tend to be overly slow and cautious in initiating relationships. By the time I make up my mind to become involved with someone, either it's too late, or we've long crossed into "good friends" territory and nothing more. And sure, friends are great and all that, but some love and physical intimacy would be nice too! My last long-term relationship ended last fall, and I have met someone I really, really like. The thing is, we're both textbook Aquarians - fairly unemotional, stuck in thinking mode, and very reserved when it comes to expressing our feelings. Needless to say, things are progressing at a glacial pace, even if it's obvious there's a special bond between us (most people we meet automatically assume we're a couple). So I'd like to find something to help us open up and feel safe talking about our feelings - and at the same time heat things up a little! The vibe I'm going for at this stage is definitely more gentle and loving intimacy than blatantly sexual. I was thinking something with est or B-nol? Love Blossom maybe? Dolce Far Niente? Does that make sense, or am I far off the mark? Many thanks in advance for any suggestions you can make! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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