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I will be attending the local chapter fo the Harvard university Club (I am a research assistant for a Harvard professor and visiting Scholar) and I need to know what to wear. I will be attending in hopes of making networking contacts and in a fund raising capacity. I know no one and need to make a spash.

 

I am considering:

 

Road Opener

Open Sesame

Lady Luck

A Bun Dance

Phero Girl Original

Leather

 

I have anything you might suggest. Any ideas?

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I'm so out of it I was going to reply... OOH what about a white collared shirt, tucked in to a grey or black pencil skirt and some cute pumps?

 

 

I have had a lot of success with PP and networking, but I'm new to the game, so I don't know, I really do like PP though, people that I don't normally speak to have stopped me at work to have conversations... so maybe that mixed with something else?

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Well, for that type of event, I would leave out the cops.....but SS4W if you have it would be very good, because it gives you that sexy "star quality"......I think I would either go with that or leather.....leather will give you that strong, self-assured vibe......

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open windows always seems to be great for social situations, sex it up with a cop heavy scent if you want to seduce, I personally though, like to mix open windows and cougar, very bubbly, mix, makes me feel and interact like an effervescent glass of champagne

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Yeah if PP works for you, it seems like the no-brainer choice. I personally do better with OW and Cougar so would choose one of those if it were me. I know I am alone in the corner always banging my drum about this but I find Leather can be like a bullfighter's red flag to assholes (or at minimum an extremely effective repellent), and so I wouldn't choose it just in case some of the people I wanted to network were assholes...why not win them over instead w/something in the OW, Cougar, or PP direction...

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Yeah if PP works for you, it seems like the no-brainer choice. I personally do better with OW and Cougar so would choose one of those if it were me. I know I am alone in the corner always banging my drum about this but I find Leather can be like a bullfighter's red flag to assholes (or at minimum an extremely effective repellent), and so I wouldn't choose it just in case some of the people I wanted to network were assholes...why not win them over instead w/something in the OW, Cougar, or PP direction...

 

I'm with you on the Leather or Dominance blends. I would definitely suggest PP or SWS paired with Road Opener or Mojo (instead of Lady Luck). If you still have Money Honey, then maybe Money Honey on the extremities & Road Opener on the neck chest & definitely find a way to dab some MR 2009 somewhere in there! Had an incident Saturday that was rooted in miscommunication!

 

Oh yeah & GOOD LUCK :D

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I know I am alone in the corner always banging my drum about this but I find Leather can be like a bullfighter's red flag to assholes (or at minimum an extremely effective repellent), and so I wouldn't choose it just in case some of the people I wanted to network were assholes...

 

LOL - Leather is a red flag waved in front of me...I admit, I'm an asshole.

 

These people will be academics and therapists, correct? Definitely go for the sparkle - SS4W always takes the day for me, but I know PP gets rave reviews in that category as well (gives me a bleedin' headache). Wow them with your phero-magnetism.

 

Have I told the story of wearing SS4W to a fundraiser at the local college? Lord I thought they were going to dedicate a wing to me. Politicians love it too **shudder**

 

Road Opener is surely the correct intent, right?

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LOL - Leather is a red flag waved in front of me...I admit, I'm an asshole.

 

:lol: I didn't mean it's an asshole DETECTOR for ONESELF!! I meant that it can make OTHER PEOPLE insane with rage, at least when I wear it... Of course I'm talking about a sample size of 2 people total in my experience, so maybe more experimentation is needed. (It may just be me or something about me [my shortness? my femaleness? my general smileyness?] not being 'congruent' with Leather, somehow - maybe the asshole thinks "I'll be DAMNED if I'm going to be subjugated by the likes of that peon"?)

 

/tj

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Thanks all! Mara, I wore a long jacket over a black cami, wide leg black pants and pumps. It was simple but with a bit of sparkle.The jacket had stones around the collar and down the front. I ended up going with SS4W and leather down my front because I was so intimidated! I will be speaking at the meeting in September about some fund raising I am doing, so this was a good way to get my feet wet with the community. I met some lovely people. When it was time to eat, I looked around for an interesting table. I grabbed the one with 4 handsome men. Of course as it turns out they were gay and we had the time of our lives together! I made some good contacts and had a lovely meal.

I tend to be very anxious and not to believe in myself, so on the way there I was about to vomit. I have never been to anything alone before. It was really scary. I finally decided that I was going to go make some new friends and it got better. All in all it was perfect!

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Thanks all! Mara, I wore a long jacket over a black cami, wide leg black pants and pumps. It was simple but with a bit of sparkle.The jacket had stones around the collar and down the front. I ended up going with SS4W and leather down my front because I was so intimidated! I will be speaking at the meeting in September about some fund raising I am doing, so this was a good way to get my feet wet with the community. I met some lovely people. When it was time to eat, I looked around for an interesting table. I grabbed the one with 4 handsome men. Of course as it turns out they were gay and we had the time of our lives together! I made some good contacts and had a lovely meal.

I tend to be very anxious and not to believe in myself, so on the way there I was about to vomit. I have never been to anything alone before. It was really scary. I finally decided that I was going to go make some new friends and it got better. All in all it was perfect!

 

 

See, I KNEW SS4W and/or Leather would be the right combo for you!! :)

 

So glad it went so well for you! Just knew you would blow them away!

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Happy for you therapygirl! Glad you made some new contact and friends!!! :Hug_emoticon::):wub:

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Thanks all! Mara, I wore a long jacket over a black cami, wide leg black pants and pumps. It was simple but with a bit of sparkle.The jacket had stones around the collar and down the front. I ended up going with SS4W and leather down my front because I was so intimidated! I will be speaking at the meeting in September about some fund raising I am doing, so this was a good way to get my feet wet with the community. I met some lovely people. When it was time to eat, I looked around for an interesting table. I grabbed the one with 4 handsome men. Of course as it turns out they were gay and we had the time of our lives together! I made some good contacts and had a lovely meal.

I tend to be very anxious and not to believe in myself, so on the way there I was about to vomit. I have never been to anything alone before. It was really scary. I finally decided that I was going to go make some new friends and it got better. All in all it was perfect!

 

:Hug_emoticon: I'm happy it went well for you!

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I finally decided that I was going to go make some new friends and it got better. All in all it was perfect!

 

:10_small16: ...YES YES YES...many kudos to you,now it will come easier !!! :banana052: :banana052:

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