CaNativeBaby Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 I finally found the nerve to get out here and ask for advice! I've ordered items in the past (at least a couple years ago) when I thought I would take the leap and try to get out into the dating world but never followed through..I purchased a number of items like Stone Cougar, Blatant Invitation, Like a Magnet and a few others..I think I went through Like a Magnet quickly and loved it, think I had some "action" with the Stone Cougar , unfortunatly most of it leaked out of the bottle on a flight to Texas where I was hoping to try it out on some Cowboys (just kidding!!) , but my suitcase seemed to get the most attention! I think I still have some of the Blatant Invitation, hard to read the label, but if its the strong smelling one thats it! Not sure what I should do to cover the smell.. I also have Phero Dominance ( I think thats the name it came in a different type of bottle, little flat round bottle)) I really did not care for the smell of that one on me..Well although I think I noticed attention when wearing the products , I just was not ready or comfortable dating since my daughters were still at home..Now they are off to college and are pressuring me to get out there and meet new people and stop spending my Friday nights at the dog park! So I am here to ask opinions and get advice to help me out. I am in my mid 40's and am not really shy after I meet someone but I really dont like to do the approaching. My thoughts to replenish and try out are possibly: Like a Magnet (again) as I think it was a smell I liked RocketFuel III for the nights I want to be brave! Stone Cougar or Cougar Potion, any thoughts on one or the other? Lumina, maybe for helping to get me started and instill some confidence on a daily basis ? Also in my thoughts are BAM, Red Lace , Balm Bomb, Super Sexy and OCCO SLF.. I'm not sure if some of these overlap as I am overwhelmed with all the posts! I am open to other suggestions but I know I dont like resiny smells and whatever the smells in the dominance were. Also if anyone swears by one that is a great mood elevator .. Good Night and Thank you in advance for the help!!! I look forward to making an order after some help from the "pros"! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moonholly209 Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 No way am I a pro, but I'd love to share you my newbie experiences. From what I gather each blend has a general effect that varies depending on a.) the vibe you already give b.) the vibe you want to give. So for example, I've been told that my natural vibe is not too girly and not dominant "male" mentality, but a cool feminine vibe. I agree with this because of my cheery dreaminess and controlled attitude. These are what kind of feel these blends give me: Cougar- subtly charming. confident glam. Audacious- feisty.bold. cool confident. borderline negligent. devil may care attitude. Leather- on top. direct. "i got this." borderline arrogance. Cuddle bunny- coy. cute. SS4W- flirty. mental curves. playful. BANG!- slightly wild. provocative. LAM- carefree. feelin’ good Lace- i'm still working out the kinks for me on this one. it's supposed to be a happy juice blend. BAM- comfortable kind of allure. You might want to check out the reviews to get a sense of the themes to supplement the actual descriptions of the blends. Also what type of confidence are you looking for? Haven't tried Lumina yet, but Cougar and LAM are low maintenance blends (energy wise) that give you a boost. I feel that Audacious could help in feeling less adverse to break the ice. I hope this help until a seasoned phero user can tell you what's up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueBear Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 I also have Phero Dominance ( I think thats the name it came in a different type of bottle, little flat round bottle)) I really did not care for the smell of that one on me.. This might be a dumb question, but are you wearing a fragrance over the phero? Please correct me if I'm wrong, but the way this sentence is worded makes me think not. If you are not, please do it! While I, personally, don't mind the smell of the un-pheros, they do smell like natural body odors to my nose and could be a turn off to those you are hoping to attract. The LAMs, BAMs, and OCCOs are all scented, but Audacious, Stone Cougar, Blatant Invitation, Lumina, etc are not and should be covered with a fragrance (unless you get a pheromone enhanced fragrance, like Mara's Rocket Fuel, which is a fragrance with SS4W added). Especially those with cops, like Blatant Invitation. There are a ton of scents here. Check out the Reviews section and the Perfumerie of the shop to see what all they have. Apply your phero and let it dry down to meld with your skin. Cougar, SS4W, Lumina, can all dry down in about 15 minutes for me. I allow longer times for the cops heavy blends, like Blatant Invitation. I usually apply those right out of the shower and let it dry down at least half an hour before I apply my fragrance. I think Cougar is a great choice! I get great self effects, friendly vibes form women and coworkers, and lots of attention from men. Stone Cougar is the unscented phero, and Cougar Potion is a fragrance with Stone Cougar added. It's a lovely scent, and does not just attract the young men, lol! Lumina is a great mood elevator for me, as is La Femme Mystere. (Again, these two are unscented and should be worn with a fragrance. The perfumerie does offer two scents with these pheros added already, All Hallow's Eve with Lumina and Goddess of the Blue Moon with LFM.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Invidiana Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 Welcome CANativebaby! I find that A-Nol is really uplifting, Leather makes me feel more confident and outgoing, and Lace just lifts my mood in general. Lumina is fun especially when there's alcohol involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missdarlyncherie Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 Welcome CANativebaby! Lumina is my new favorite mood elevator and almost everyone here swears by the Cougar Potion...just sample up on the scents I say!! Good luck, have fun and keep us posted on what happens with the dating and pheroing!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ravenwing Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 welcome here! i say give cougar potion a try! the scent is lovely and the pheros work! best of luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raq On Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 Start off with the 4 you mentioned but maybe consider a social phero like Popularity potion or open windows. They are good time-y pheros that can be worn at work or with mixed company. I like that you put cougar and lumina in there, Lumina seems to be my personal happy juice. More so when I were it in the blend All Hallows Eve, than on it's own, Welcome to the forum. you'll learn so much here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katz Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 Hi and welcome back! I'll leave the phero advice to others.. but if you're talking about the PheroGirl Dom perfume (Rose and Chocolate) that came out a LONG time ago in a flat, round bottle? I and others would be *HAPPY* to trade you /purchase from you for that one! :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calii Posted March 29, 2012 Share Posted March 29, 2012 Wow,just awesome advice given,could not have said it better myself...ummm yeah what Katz said too Welcome back to the adventure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElizabethOSP Posted March 30, 2012 Share Posted March 30, 2012 Hi, CaNativeBaby! Lace is a GREAT happy-potion for me. Also, SS4W and Cougar make me feel like I Am The Queen. Cops seem to make everything better, too. They also make my daughters follow me around like ducklings, but that's another story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaNativeBaby Posted March 30, 2012 Author Share Posted March 30, 2012 Wow, Thanks for all the input and welcomes! I can't wait to get home tonight to reread all the posts and figure out my next step..I think I need to find all my bottles that way I can figure out the scents I do and don't like. I am pretty sure the PheroGirl Dom perfume is the Rose and chocolate as it sounds like something I would have ordered, but for some reason I don't care for something in it..but if I figure it out I might know what to stay away from..I will give more info tonight..Thanks all and have a great day! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goddesslynne Posted March 30, 2012 Share Posted March 30, 2012 I will share something that an old friend did, just as an example of what not to do: when I first found LP I shared my excitement with her and she bought 2 UN pheros: SS4W and Girl/Girl. She wanted some action and didn't care where it came from!! She SLATHERED both on at the same time, maybe 1/3 bottle each!! Then covered with her signature scent, went to a party and wondered why no one even approached her. I was too new at the time to advise her, but she phero-bombed an entire party!! The lesson, try LESS before you try more. All the best!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaNativeBaby Posted March 31, 2012 Author Share Posted March 31, 2012 This might be a dumb question, but are you wearing a fragrance over the phero? Please correct me if I'm wrong, but the way this sentence is worded makes me think not. If you are not, please do it! While I, personally, don't mind the smell of the un-pheros, they do smell like natural body odors to my nose and could be a turn off to those you are hoping to attract. The LAMs, BAMs, and OCCOs are all scented, but Audacious, Stone Cougar, Blatant Invitation, Lumina, etc are not and should be covered with a fragrance (unless you get a pheromone enhanced fragrance, like Mara's Rocket Fuel, which is a fragrance with SS4W added). Especially those with cops, like Blatant Invitation. There are a ton of scents here. Check out the Reviews section and the Perfumerie of the shop to see what all they have. Apply your phero and let it dry down to meld with your skin. Cougar, SS4W, Lumina, can all dry down in about 15 minutes for me. I allow longer times for the cops heavy blends, like Blatant Invitation. I usually apply those right out of the shower and let it dry down at least half an hour before I apply my fragrance. I think Cougar is a great choice! I get great self effects, friendly vibes form women and coworkers, and lots of attention from men. Stone Cougar is the unscented phero, and Cougar Potion is a fragrance with Stone Cougar added. It's a lovely scent, and does not just attract the young men, lol! Lumina is a great mood elevator for me, as is La Femme Mystere. (Again, these two are unscented and should be worn with a fragrance. The perfumerie does offer two scents with these pheros added already, All Hallow's Eve with Lumina and Goddess of the Blue Moon with LFM.) Thank you for the info it helps making it more understandable. On the particular bottle that I did not like , Phero Girl Dominance I wore it alone as I believe it is scented. On the others that I had I usually did wear something over but I did not wait as long as you to let it dry down, I think I may need to try that on the Blatant Invitation bottle I found that I have.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaNativeBaby Posted March 31, 2012 Author Share Posted March 31, 2012 No way am I a pro, but I'd love to share you my newbie experiences. From what I gather each blend has a general effect that varies depending on a.) the vibe you already give b.) the vibe you want to give. So for example, I've been told that my natural vibe is not too girly and not dominant "male" mentality, but a cool feminine vibe. I agree with this because of my cheery dreaminess and controlled attitude. These are what kind of feel these blends give me: Cougar- subtly charming. confident glam. Audacious- feisty.bold. cool confident. borderline negligent. devil may care attitude. Leather- on top. direct. "i got this." borderline arrogance. Cuddle bunny- coy. cute. SS4W- flirty. mental curves. playful. BANG!- slightly wild. provocative. LAM- carefree. feelin’ good Lace- i'm still working out the kinks for me on this one. it's supposed to be a happy juice blend. BAM- comfortable kind of allure. You might want to check out the reviews to get a sense of the themes to supplement the actual descriptions of the blends. Also what type of confidence are you looking for? Haven't tried Lumina yet, but Cougar and LAM are low maintenance blends (energy wise) that give you a boost. I feel that Audacious could help in feeling less adverse to break the ice. I hope this help until a seasoned phero user can tell you what's up. Thansk for the insight, I am definetly going to read more but I think that I will add Audacious and Bang to my list after reading your list! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaNativeBaby Posted March 31, 2012 Author Share Posted March 31, 2012 Hi and welcome back! I'll leave the phero advice to others.. but if you're talking about the PheroGirl Dom perfume (Rose and Chocolate) that came out a LONG time ago in a flat, round bottle? I and others would be *HAPPY* to trade you /purchase from you for that one! :-) Hi and welcome back! I'll leave the phero advice to others.. but if you're talking about the PheroGirl Dom perfume (Rose and Chocolate) that came out a LONG time ago in a flat, round bottle? I and others would be *HAPPY* to trade you /purchase from you for that one! :-) I believe that's the one! I was hunting through the bathroom trying to find it but no luck today! If I do find it I may head on over to the trading board along with some of the others that I have here that I did not seem to care for..Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaNativeBaby Posted March 31, 2012 Author Share Posted March 31, 2012 Well I went digging through the house and located 5 bottles that are empty and obviously liked from my last venture a couple years ago! So I know I will have to order those..but thanks to all of the input and review reading it looks like I need a second job to order everything I think I want! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueBear Posted March 31, 2012 Share Posted March 31, 2012 Thank you for the info it helps making it more understandable. On the particular bottle that I did not like , Phero Girl Dominance I wore it alone as I believe it is scented. On the others that I had I usually did wear something over but I did not wait as long as you to let it dry down, I think I may need to try that on the Blatant Invitation bottle I found that I have.. Yeah, I know BI has the tendency to creep back up on you if it doesn't dry down properly. It took me over half a bottle before I got the hang of it! Oooh, I see Moonholly recommended BANG! I agree 1000%. It's quickly becoming my go to. The effects on others are awesome, but the self effects... Have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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