Stalk Talk!

[tanya27]

I am so anxious to order..I hope its today,because I am supposed to go to Ottawa

[dolphindolls2]

If its as big and exciting as Luna and Halo have stated it might not launch till this weekend. I'm real excited to see what's in store for us

Edited August 14, 2013 by dolphindolls2

[BlueBear]

 

omg a cupcake whore month!!!!!!!

 

 

LOOL Omg I laughed really loud like a fucking dinosaur. Mercy me.

 

Mara do I need to call in sick tomorrow again ?

Okay, now I laughed at that!!!

 

They see me stalking, they hatin'...

 

Good one!!!

 

 

I'm just gonna stalk quietly today. No more predictions from me!

[Eggers]

[Bella15]

I'm hoping for Friday, as that's payday... Labels can come anytime though!

[LadyVictoria]

Is it PORN MONTH??

 

Thar she BLOWS! with skin musk and sea salt

Bend Over Rover- with Teddy BB

[tanya27]

Will it be today? :-) I can't wait.:-) Mara your the best!

 

I forgot that next week,my in-laws will be here staying for 3 weeks.She will be like `Ohh my god ,what did you buy now! Let me see. Agh,so instead,I'm going to have to sneek my package to my room to enjoy in private without any questions about how much it costed!

[Bella15]

Will it be today? :-) I can't wait.:-) Mara your the best!

 

I forgot that next week,my in-laws will be here staying for 3 weeks.She will be like `Ohh my god ,what did you buy now! Let me see. Agh,so instead,I'm going to have to sneek my package to my room to enjoy in private without any questions about how much it costed!

on delivery days, I carry a tote bag so I can sneak my pkg in the house without anybody really noticing

[BlueBear]

Well, I just walk that bitch straight up in my house and put it on the table. one of the perks of being single, i suppose, but my future husband will just have to suck it up!!

[quietguy]

Is it PORN MONTH??

 

Thar she BLOWS! with skin musk and sea salt

Bend Over Rover- with Teddy BB

 

Ride'r Cowboy: leather, whiskey & sawdust

[hearts]

Will it be today? :-) I can't wait.:-) Mara your the best!

I forgot that next week,my in-laws will be here staying for 3 weeks.She will be like `Ohh my god ,what did you buy now! Let me see. Agh,so instead,I'm going to have to sneek my package to my room to enjoy in private without any questions about how much it costed!

Yes I hate getting packages when my BFs mom is staying with us for a few days. Totally nosy and acts so displeased about my spending! Shit- I'm grown! My own mom doesn't even care!

[Bella15]

I have a snotty kid who looks down her nose at me... but luckily she's moving out soon!

 

I don't even have an LP budget, I finance my purchases from my trade page! LOL...

[halo0073]

I would freak the fuck out if someone dared to have any opinion about my purchases other than supportive interest. My kids love it when my LPs get here and love to sniff each one. BF doesn't bat an eye and I like it that way.

[StacyK]

Yes I hate getting packages when my BFs mom is staying with us for a few days. Totally nosy and acts so displeased about my spending! Shit- I'm grown! My own mom doesn't even care!

Fuck her. I'd immeadiatly go out adopt 5 cats and have her car sit! lol

[ElizabethOSP]

Is it PORN MONTH??

 

Thar she BLOWS! with skin musk and sea salt

Bend Over Rover- with Teddy BB

 

 

Ride'r Cowboy: leather, whiskey & sawdust

 

Ah, geeze, you two! I'm trying to join in and everything I think of is too porny! Dang.

 

How about Come Hither: Carob Blossom, Whipped Cream, and Cops.

 

Now, that's not verbally over the top, but it would certainly evoke the reality. Ever smell carob trees in bloom...?

[LadyVictoria]

 

 

Ah, geeze, you two! I'm trying to join in and everything I think of is too porny! Dang.

 

How about Come Hither: Carob Blossom, Whipped Cream, and Cops.

 

Now, that's not verbally over the top, but it would certainly evoke the reality. Ever smell carob trees in bloom...?

 

LMAO! I call them the cum drop trees.

Edited August 14, 2013 by LadyVictoria

[hearts]

Fuck her. I'd immeadiatly go out adopt 5 cats and have her car sit! lol

Lol! I know- I try to be all sweet for my BFs sake. How'd u know about her comments on my pets?! Haha- when she's over- I put my doggies and the cat on the couch wrapped up in blankets and smile like an angel hehehe!

[hearts]

Pirates Booty- sea salt, tobacco, rum plus COPS

[octave]

LMAO! I call them the cum drop trees.

 

If it's Porn Month, here's a few I'd like to see:

 

Hot Nutz: honey, peanuts (salted), cinnamon, caramel, and a dash of brandy.

Banana Hammock: banana, whipped cream, cherries, rum, and walnuts.

Bodacious Melons: watermelon, cantaloupe, honeydew, papaya, mango with a dash of brown sugar.

Honey Do Me: Honeydew, ocean water, pineapple, sand, coconut and lime.

Miso Horny: bamboo, vanilla, tiger lily, blue musk, white musk, yuzu, incense.

 

Ladies, what would want for Porn Month?

[ElizabethOSP]

If it's Porn Month, here's a few I'd like to see:

 

Hot Nutz: honey, peanuts (salted), cinnamon, caramel, and a dash of brandy.

Banana Hammock: banana, whipped cream, cherries, rum, and walnuts.

Bodacious Melons: watermelon, cantaloupe, honeydew, papaya, mango with a dash of brown sugar.

Honey Do Me: Honeydew, ocean water, pineapple, sand, coconut and lime.

Miso Horny: bamboo, vanilla, tiger lily, blue musk, white musk, yuzu, incense.

 

Ladies, what would want for Porn Month?

 

I WANT MISO HORNY!!! The name is funny as hell, and the scent sounds drop-dead gorgeous!

Edited August 14, 2013 by ElizabethOSP

[dolphindolls2]

I'm hopeful that the NR's will come this weekend...

[Eggers]

If it's Porn Month, here's a few I'd like to see:

Hot Nutz: honey, peanuts (salted), cinnamon, caramel, and a dash of brandy.

Banana Hammock: banana, whipped cream, cherries, rum, and walnuts.

Bodacious Melons: watermelon, cantaloupe, honeydew, papaya, mango with a dash of brown sugar.

Honey Do Me: Honeydew, ocean water, pineapple, sand, coconut and lime.

Miso Horny: bamboo, vanilla, tiger lily, blue musk, white musk, yuzu, incense.

Ladies, what would want for Porn Month?

Jeez... those sound freaking awesome. I want Honey Do Me & Banana Hammock... and maybe Hot Nutz. (Nuts *is* my kitty's name ).

[NuTrix]

*rustle rustle*

[ElizabethOSP]

*stumbles in after too many hours of errands*

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*crickets singing and Junebugs running into things*

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*hears rustling in bushes*

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*pssst! Hi, NuTrix!*

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[quietguy]

Is it PORN MONTH??

 

Thar she BLOWS! with skin musk and sea salt

Bend Over Rover- with Teddy BB

 

 

 

Ride'r Cowboy: leather, whiskey & sawdust

 

 

 

 

 

How about Come Hither: Carob Blossom, Whipped Cream, and Cops.

 

Now, that's not verbally over the top, but it would certainly evoke the reality. Ever smell carob trees in bloom...?

 

 

Pirates Booty- sea salt, tobacco, rum plus COPS

 

 

Hot Nutz: honey, peanuts (salted), cinnamon, caramel, and a dash of brandy.

Banana Hammock: banana, whipped cream, cherries, rum, and walnuts.

Bodacious Melons: watermelon, cantaloupe, honeydew, papaya, mango with a dash of brown sugar.

Honey Do Me: Honeydew, ocean water, pineapple, sand, coconut and lime.

Miso Horny: bamboo, vanilla, tiger lily, blue musk, white musk, yuzu, incense.

 

 

And there we have a full month's worth for Mara ... coming to you sometime this year haha!!

[tyvey]

Octave, I don't know you, so I'll assume you didn't realize it, but "me so horny" is RACIST AS FUCK. It's saying 30% of the world's population is uneducated Vietnam War prostitutes. Suggesting a scent with that name is like speculating about a scent called "suck yo dick for a dolla?" Whether you "meant" it "that way" or have Asian friends or are yourself Asian is irrelevant; I'm letting you know how the exact words come across.

Edited August 15, 2013 by tyvey

[StacyK]

Lol! I know- I try to be all sweet for my BFs sake. How'd u know about her comments on my pets?! Haha- when she's over- I put my doggies and the cat on the couch wrapped up in blankets and smile like an angel hehehe!

Good for you!! Lol

 

 

Ooh got one for the Porn Club;

 

THE POLITICIANS DESK

Cherry Wood

Parchment

Vetiver

Cops

dash of aged Sea Salt

Edited August 15, 2013 by StacyK

[NuTrix]

D'oh! *rustle - thump* IIIEEEEE! *rustle* Hi ElizabethOSP...Ooooo, stubbed my toe in the dark!

[dolphindolls2]

I’m going to put my guess in for launch of NR’s to be on August 19^th

[Invidiana]

Octave, I don't know you, so I'll assume you didn't realize it, but "me so horny" is RACIST AS FUCK. It's saying 30% of the world's population is uneducated Vietnam War prostitutes. Suggesting a scent with that name is like speculating about a scent called "suck yo dick for a dolla?" Whether you "meant" it "that way" or have Asian friends or are yourself Asian is irrelevant; I'm letting you know how the exact words come across.

 

I completely agree. Octave, I know coming up with clever names is all for fun, but you need to be careful. The stereotype Tyvey is referring to is an underlying notion that started in the--correct me if I'm wrong--30s? I believe and still somehow hasn't been extinguished in the US today, especially among white men. There is a fine line between plain ol' sexual innuendo humor and something that could really end up being offensive.

 

edit for typo, Invi is generally dysfunctional before noon

Edited August 15, 2013 by Invidiana

[Darbla]

Octave, I don't know you, so I'll assume you didn't realize it, but "me so horny" is RACIST AS FUCK.

And this is RUDE AS HELL. If she's never heard what you're talking about, there's no way for her to know it would be taken as racist by anyone. You can educate people much more kindly than talking to them like this.

[LadyVictoria]

I didn't read it as coming off as rude, ill be the first to say I'm completely offensive 99.9% of the time to humans and animals,

Where I come from ( my head ) swearing is like breathing and can be used as an exclamation point, kind of like showing passion.

She was just trying to educate her in a passionate way. I understand it because I am Mexican and all Mexicans are passionate because we eat spicy foods. Tyvey was speaking Mexican.

 

I predict the new releases today!!

[tanya27]

Wow I didn't think mesohorny was racist!! She wasn't implying it to any persons..just perfume notes..lol

[Bella15]

I'm hoping for today too. My life is on a crazy merry-go-round/roller coaster, and NR would give me something to focus on!!

[luna65]

Wow I didn't think mesohorny was racist!! She wasn't implying it to any persons..just perfume notes..lol

Let me state this from the perspective of someone who is not privileged by their own cultural standpoint, just so everyone can understand why intent is irrelevant:

 

Today, someone said a slur. It actually doesn’t matter what slur it was, because you see, he didn’t intend to hurt anyone and therefore it couldn’t possibly be a slur. Much like how intent magically protects the actions of all privileged viewpoints, intent means that anything you say, no matter how many groups it hurts, what awful views it enables, no matter what systemic bigotries it props up through the usage of language that enforces social concepts that crush a marginalized group, it mystically negates all of that.

 

All we ask is that people be sensitive and respectful of the perspectives of everyone, just as you would expect them to be of you. If any of you were offended by something, I'm sure you wouldn't hesitate to express it and expect to receive understanding from everyone else,

[quietguy]

Octave, I don't know you, so I'll assume you didn't realize it, but "me so horny" is RACIST AS FUCK. It's saying 30% of the world's population is uneducated Vietnam War prostitutes. Suggesting a scent with that name is like speculating about a scent called "suck yo dick for a dolla?" Whether you "meant" it "that way" or have Asian friends or are yourself Asian is irrelevant; I'm letting you know how the exact words come across.

 

I appreciate the additional commentary you added to the original first line. But I am going to have to politely and conditionally disagree. Yes, it can be taken as racist and offensive, but I think that also depends on context, like much in the English language. And Invi is right - as we have all seen it is very easy to take something wrong in a format like this forum. And therefore even if you are Asian and saying this, given it is difficult to determine context in this format, the term could be offensive.

 

However here is where I differ. While it might offend, who says what does determine nowadays whether it is racist or merely offensive to an individual.

 

I dated a Korean girl for a while - one of those odd situations where you both try to make a great friendship work as a romance and then realize you are really only good friends - and she would use that term - but in two different contexts. The first context was when, well, she was in the mood and I was not picking up on her subtle clues. Me miss subtle clues - go figure, right? But the second context was actually where I saw her first use it - as an insult to guys, in essence calling them horn dog racists. When guys would assume she was some Asian bimbo who would sleep around looking for a Sugar Daddy, she would break contact, and with a sneer say "Me so horny". I almost choked on a beer the first time she did that.

 

We could also go into the use of the infamous "N" word. About ten years ago key members of the NAACP and other black leaders made a push and appealed to black entertainers to stop using the word. obvously popular culture blew right through that request. And as the defense attorney was told during the Zimmerman, the line of thought that the "N" word is instantly racist is "old school" - it now all depends on context. And from my experience around young people, it seems to be the case. They seem to pretty much reject the racism/offense reality our generation assumes.

 

"Today, someone said a slur. It actually doesn’t matter what slur it was, because you see, he didn’t intend to hurt anyone and therefore it couldn’t possibly be a slur. Much like how intent magically protects the actions of all privileged viewpoints, intent means that anything you say, no matter how many groups it hurts, what awful views it enables, no matter what systemic bigotries it props up through the usage of language that enforces social concepts that crush a marginalized group, it mystically negates all of that."

 

I do not completely disagree with this but perhaps it best applies to those considered "privleged" because again an entire younger generation seems to reject the notion that certain terms are now automatically racist or even offensive. Now if they are offended by something you say or do, they will certainly let you know. But that does not preclude them from using terms that we as an older generation are certainly sensitive about.

 

Again, I am not arguing with the idea we need to be careful with what we write here on the forum as the intent or meaning can easily be misinterpreted and offend. But the idea that certain terms are automatically racist seems to be changing no matter what we think or say.

 

 

All we ask is that people be sensitive and respectful of the perspectives of everyone, just as you would expect them to be of you. If any of you were offended by something, I'm sure you wouldn't hesitate to express it and expect to receive understanding from everyone else,

 

 

Exactly. Well said as usual.

Edited August 15, 2013 by quietguy

[BlueBear]

QG, we can't make assumptions about the younger generation. I am a part of the younger generation, and I will gladly and frequently educate anyone using a racist term in my presence, even if they are using it to refer to themselves. I think "context" falls under the scope of Luna's quote as well. Doesn't matter. Someone was hurt by it. That is what is important here. We learn and move on from it.

[luna65]

Someone was hurt by it. That is what is important here. We learn and move on from it.

Yep, that's what I mean to say.

[Beccah]

QG, you know that I am fond of you, but as the mother of a black child; I will ENTIRELY beg to differ about the N word being situationally racist. There is never a time when it isn't. People that use it may feel like they're taking back their power, but it's still a NASTY word. Just like I may refer to myself as a bitch, but it is one of the first insults that pop into my mind when I don't like a bitch, because it's mean! As far as Asian racism, it does need to stop. Objectifying women with a stereotype that they have magic vaginas isn't flattering, it's demeaning. It also pisses me off when there are women that objectify black men, in much the same manner. It's ridic..

[quietguy]

 

 

QG, we can't make assumptions about the younger generation. I am a part of the younger generation, and I will gladly and frequently educate anyone using a racist term in my presence, even if they are using it to refer to themselves. I think "context" falls under the scope of Luna's quote as well. Doesn't matter. Someone was hurt by it. That is what is important here. We learn and move on from it.

I understand. Like I said - we need to be careful about what we say so as not to offend people. And I hope Maeia or JOC were not offended by her words or mine. Nor you by my comments about popular music.

And not trying to offend - but you would be at the upper edge of the "younger generation" I am thinking of lol. a lot of the younger people I am around are 17 - 22/23. The younger end of the exact population you tend to. In fact, if you remember, I worked with them before they unfortunately had to come to you, so it is more first hand experience. There is a shift happening. I just do not think our "reality" on this issue is theirs.
Edited August 15, 2013 by quietguy