Darbla Posted July 21, 2012 Share Posted July 21, 2012 What phero gives an aura of authority and repect, not overtly feminine but not masculine either, commanding authority but not intimidating? Is 'Dominance' geared more toward sexy (which I absolutely don't want)? I like some of the description with 'MVP' but that being a man's phero it is probably going to give off the wrong signature for me. I really wish 'Intellectual Woman' was still around. If 'Warrior Heart' were not sold out what phero would you layer under it? What would Wonder Woman wear? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bruiseviolet Posted July 21, 2012 Share Posted July 21, 2012 Maybe Mother's Little Helper or Swimming with Sharks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luna65 Posted July 21, 2012 Share Posted July 21, 2012 I'd agree that Swimming With Sharks is likely the best one for the parameters you describe, although I think Leather would work too, if you presented a sort of androgynous exterior to support your agenda of not reading overtly feminine, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowflake Posted July 21, 2012 Share Posted July 21, 2012 I'd choose Swimming With Sharks, too. It provides respect without being intimidating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calii Posted July 21, 2012 Share Posted July 21, 2012 Swimming With Sharks would be my first choice...Intellectual Woman <EST,A-nol,B-nol,DHEAS & Cops> would not be what you are looking for IMO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
halo0073 Posted July 21, 2012 Share Posted July 21, 2012 For me it would be Dom. Even though you don't want feminine La femme can garner some respect hits for sure, you might want to consider it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KrazyKat Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 (edited) LFM can garner respect in a natural way along with adoration in a non-intimidating way, but its femme. Believe it or not I also get a similiar respectful and adoring response with Heart and Soul (must be the rone) which is slightly less femme. I am a BITCH on wheels with Dom or Leather and have poor and extremely negative response from others. For the most part I hate enone, I just cannot wear it without having being extremely angry and loud about it. But these blends may work for you, they do for many women here on the boards, I wish I was one of them! Audacious which looks kinda like fun alpha may be an option for you as well. Good Luck! Edited July 22, 2012 by KrazyKat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElizabethOSP Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 I'd say Swimming With Sharks if you want a more businesslike feel, and Audacious if you want some fun alpha like KrazyKat said. And I agree with Luna on the Leather--I've gotten some good respect with that. I've never tried Dominance. Swimming with Sharks has been my most neutral respect/I-am-the-authority kind of phero. Are you going to use this at work, or would you rather not discuss it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyvey Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 I don't know sws well but I'll say audacious seems to work/be geared more for self fx than to affect others. If your targets include women, I find Cougar incredibly helpful and effective with powerful and/or snobby women - makes them deferential, admiring, respectful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goddesslynne Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 I'm not sure if the ingredients would meld well, but sounds like SWS with Dom or Leather might be the combo of business-y vibe with deferential respect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darbla Posted July 22, 2012 Author Share Posted July 22, 2012 (edited) goddesslynne, you actually hit on something I was thinking: mixing SWS and Dominance. I don't want the est in 'Leather'. I'm batting this around in my head mostly about work but I'm probably handling that as well as it could be even with phero influence. ETA: I just realized my current avatar (Flying bitchslap - when a normal one just won't cut it) gives a strong indication of my mood at work lately! LOL! Edited July 22, 2012 by Darbla Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishpie Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 what about Ali's open window? I have been wearing it at work, people seemed to be quite calm and respectful around me, altho I am the most junior in the team... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darbla Posted July 25, 2012 Author Share Posted July 25, 2012 I've used Leather the last couple of days, but the bottom feeder in my sites is avoiding me. I've probably chewed her out so many times here lately her ass is too sore to come around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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