Guest cutie.pie Posted September 19, 2014 Share Posted September 19, 2014 I've been thinking for a while now should I or should I not post this, but I've been a LPMP family member for a year now and maybe you could help me, give me an advice or support. I gave birth to my twin girls in November 2007. 10 months later I used my ex's credit card to buy some groceries and he thought of that as a perfect excuse to leave me and the kids (throw us out of his, I mean his mother's house), so I moved back to my parents with my 10 month old daughters. The real reason why he had left me was that I gain weight while being pregnant with twins and didn't hurry to lose that weight. His mother was glad and even called his friends to make sure we don't get back together. Three months after we had split he found himself a new girlfriend and impregnated her with another pair of twins (ironic, isn't it?). It took 3 (maybe 4) years for me to get back on my feet and get over the whole thing. I do not complain, it made me who I am today, stronger. My daughters go to their dad's on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays (and sleep over every other weekend.) Even though they are twins, they couldn't be more different. One is blond and has blue eyes, the other one has brown hair, brown eyes, she is taller and has 8 kg more. And here is where my problem is. Their dad (and his mother) think she is fat. When ever she goes there (my ex lives with my ex MIL), they weigh her, tell her she is fat and has to lose weight. And that is killing me. She is only 6! They will ruin her self-confidence. She wets in bed at nights, but only if she spent that day at her dad's. I've been putting on her some Glamour Puss so she feels pretty, but my ex MIL told her she smells like a pig. I hate that snake! I really, really need your advice. I had told their dad not to do this, but rather he should change her diet in a way she doesn't become aware of it. He just told me she is fat because of me and that I was fat too when I was pregnant. Please help me... - which phero should I use to make him hear me and make me in control? Dom, SWS? - which scent should I get for my daughter? Should I get her the one she really likes (Halo's Cocoa lily, I bought it for my sister, but my girl loves it) or do you have a suggestion which scent would make her feel pretty again? She's only 6 - I talk to my kids and I know I shouldn't be wearing pheros near them, but I need something so they would open themselves up more to me... What do you do in situations like this, when you want them to open up? I'm working on reducing the visits to their dad's. I have a great Pediatrician and am looking for a child psychologist. I don't want them to stop seeing their dad, but my daughters, and their health, are my priority and he is acting like a jerk! I'm also gonna do the spell and put him and his mother in the freezer. YOUR ADVICE IS VERY MUCH NEEDED AND APPRECIATED! Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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