QueenofLimbo

That could make sense.
Damn! I was looking forward to someday trying out Leather if things went well...

I agree with Invi.....try Open Windows......it is a great blend. Mood-elevating and upbeat. Treasured Hearts is another gem.....

 

I would lay off the Gotcha.....in general MOST men react well to Est, but some absolutely DO NOT. It starts fights in my household, unless tempered with something more dominant. If he is having a bad response to the Est, and then coupling it with the B-Nol, which turns some people into blabbermouths.....probably not right for your situation.

Do you really think it's the Est? He's always been emotional and some nights he cries without me wearing any pheros at all. Sadly I think it has to do with the fact that he drinks a lot and has some form of depression (I've tried to get him to go to a therapist but he's resistant to that idea). He doesn't seem like the type that wouldn't react well to Est as he's always talking about how he likes to be the chivalric "knight in shining armor" type, but then again, when he fell in love with me back in the day, I was kind of the one who rescued HIM...

Hmm I should have made this post before I made an order... I would have thrown in something with Open Windows and Treasured Hearts!

Thanks for the suggestion, I might have to make another order before December. (eep)

Yeah, I didn't notice the correlation at first but when I did, it was eye-opening. Other people react pretty well when I wear it but he turns into a blubbering mess. Which is of course not the reaction I want, despite his feeling that he can trust me and tell me anything.

Ordered a sample of this. Can't wait to try it!

So I know it's been a few months, but things have been crazy busy for me. Figured I'd update. On the LP side, I have noticed that I absolutely cannot wear Gotcha around him. 98% of the time I do, he has a terrible night. I'm guessing that's the "letting go of his inhibitions and opening up" part, but the last thing I want to do is make him more miserable.

Yep Cheese, it is the same guy.

I hope I'm not anosmic- I'd like to know if I smell bad.

Extra report- wore OCCO Red tonight and when I sat down on the couch next to the roommate, I heard his sniff in what sounded to be a curious/appreciative manner, and he asked me what scent I was wearing. I asked him if it bothered him and he was quick to say it didn't, but it smelled like candy. I think he meant in a good way. Then I got a drama-filled phone call that lasted for two hours and he went to bed. Great timing!

One thing I noticed is when I wear ss4w, my roommate will give me longer hugs and huff my neck subconsciously. XD

Sadly it's the only phero reaction I've seen from him.

Yeah. I have some Super Sexy and the first day I wore it I got a random hit from a guy on the street who asked me if I wanted a drink. I was hoping for more of that.

And yeah, I know they're scented but reading the forums I got the impression I'd still smell them until they dried.

So- I got an order the other day. It's my first order with things with cops in it. I ordered:

Phero Girl

OCCO: Red, White, Gold

OCCO SLF

Gotcha!

BAM

So I'd been doing lots of research in the forums, here and I was prepared for the Copulins to smell like ass/pee/funk- but honestly, sniffing them out of the bottle, on my skin, I don't smell anything bad. This makes me nervous that I can't smell myself smelling bad! Also, I tried it out on a guy I know is attracted to me and I got zero results. I was with him all day and I started small and added more throughout the day and I got no results at all! This was the OCCO white shield. I tried Gotcha out on my roommate and he didn't act differently at all. I know it's trial and error but I'm kinda bummed! I'd honestly feel better if I had smelled something like what I had heard described on the forums. Am I doing something wrong? I followed the instructions sent along with them to the T...

Welcome to LP and a great NEW obsession!

 

I 3rd Cheeseburger79 and missdarlyncherie on getting your own space, dating, Gotcha AND Perfect Match...and make sure, in a human pathological way, he isn't paying you back for past hurts...sometimes people do stupid things like that....Sometimes miserable people have a thing for making other people miserable...and THAT'S something I was told by a self proclaimed miserable person....

 

The thing with bonding type blends too is that sometimes you lay a lot out on the table...make sure you're ready to hear it all...and work through it if need be

Hey all, thanks for your input. There are actually multiple reasons- it's a super complicated situation. And believe me. We've talked about a lotttt of rough stuff. One thing I want to assure all of you folks- I really do trust him. He's had opportunities to hide things from me but he hasn't. He's had the opportunity to lie to me but he's always told the truth, even if it hurts. I respect the hell out of him, and he respects me. Anyhow, I appreciate your comments. I have been thinking seriously about Gotcha! I wish I could still get my hands on Honeyed Love Potion, it sounds yummy!

My first order was SS4W. I didn't want something with cops, but I wanted something sexy. The first day I wore it out was a really hot date, and I went to the beach. I knew I was looking cute but a guy walking in the other direction randomly did a double take and said "Hey, you're gorgeous! Want to come have a drink with me?" I'm used to a little flirtation but not that! Thumbs up!

Kind of winging it. I know it's not gonna be magic, but like I said... It's time for me to pull out all the stops.

Thanks everyone! Bluebear, love your avatar! I'm having a blast with New Leaf right now.

So as for my story, should I tell it here? Make a new thread? I'm not sure of the thread rhythm here.

I'm new here. Just thought I'd say hi. I'm pretty new to LP, but I have dabbled with Pheromones in the past. I have my story to tell, but don't have time just now. I look forward to meeting and talking with all of you