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Shelly- I meant crazy in a good way darlin! : )

And THAT post just made me a disgruntled house elf too!

Seriously, I think your a cool lady, and the perfumes you design sound divine as well.

I read your ham post and I laughed my ass off.

As for me? I'm crazy. I have no nueral excuse!

Your good stuff my lady!

Ladies,Ladies,Ladies,

I just wanted to drop in real quick to A-THANK EACH OF YOU and B-let you know today is a better day. It goes that way. Some days are better than others.

First off Knjsavy, your a doll. Your warm and friendly and make me feel very welcome here. Thanks for that. I really appreciate it. You rock!

Sultry, I work in a primarily woman run feild as well, so thanks for the tips on that AND my current situation as well as your help with navigating the boards as a newbie. Take a bow, sista, your a damn good moderator.

CC, You are a GEM! One of my best friends on the forum. Please dont worry about me miscontruing your advice. I picked up what your puttin down. Your right. Hopefully, things do work out! Like you said, ten years IS a long time and today has been a good one. But theres only so much personal energy you can put into 'fixing someone else'. Sometimes thats just where theyre going to be, and your ready to move ahead, and theyre not...so I'm hearin ya my friend. I am. What came after our initial chat last night was basically some much needed venting. Hopefully he and I can come to a good comprimise, I'm gonna have that patience for awhile and see. But thanks again for just bein there and hearing me out.There is no such thing as bad advice and I think your wonderful.

Hello, Dolly! (Oh, no, shes never heard that one before)- Thank you too. Its nice to hear from you. Your not on a soapbox. I appreciate a gentle kick in the tush once in awhile. Yes, addiction is a bitch and this is a drug/alchohol combo, though he did kick the main drug in rehab, which is a big part of why I'm still here.

Still theres a point where I become the "comfort zone enabler". He got pancreatitis last summer from drinking, and the death thing scares the bejeezus out of me. The doctor said he could "drink in moderation'--real stupid thing to say to an alcoholic--so I'm thinkin after another "horror show" or two, its gonna be 'you go to therapy or you gotta go elsewhere till you do'. Then take it from there. And thanks for the phero advice too.

Finally, Shelly B. Your not rude, your hilarious, so dont worry about. I just thought ya were kinda crazy. Keep it comin girl.

In conclusion, its really cool to have insight and advice and yes, silly banter from a diverse group of women like you girls. All ages, all backgrounds, from all over the country (and beyond!) So thanks again, my ladies. I look forward to getting to know you all better. Hopefully on somethin lighter next time? Talk to you soon. Hugs & Kisses, Lori

Good gravy! All that sob story and I'm not even drunk! Computers should maybe have little 'too much information' buzzers..aw shucks. Thanks again! Sheesh.

CC, I'm slowly coming to grips with that fact myself...but if theres any saving it, I wanna try, ya know? I DO realize that whatever comes of this that I have to be ok. Its just, well. I'm not there yet. Ten years is a long time. I'm 29. We pretty much grew up together, he's more family to me than my family is. But your right, its gotta change.

I dont doubt he loves me, its just a rut he's stuck in. He's a 'band' guy. And when we were younger, all that partying and stuff just seemed like the thing to do. But then last year, his health got threatend by it and he landed in the hospital, and now, if he doesnt shape up it could literally kill him.

I dont wanna watch that happen, but if I leave him now I dont think I'd be helping his road to recovery either. And I dont wanna leave anyway,cause even though 80 percent of the time he's either mourning his old lifestyle or slipping back into it, there ARE these rays of light and laughter where things are as they should be. And that just reminds me of how good things CAN be.

So, I'm trying to see this thing through. And dont think I'm a saint either, cause I'm not, everyone has thier pitfalls. But I have come a long way. I'm in treatment, my counselor is great, and I'm honest with her about it all. It helps! Thats why its so mind boggling to me why he wont just go DO IT! Why does he think he can handle this stuff himself? No one can.

Ugh...Anywayssssss...enough of me crying all over my keyboard to a sweet poor gal who barely knows me but who is kind enough to listen. Thanks for that. Seriously.

Your Good stuff,CC. All of ya are. Goodnight,Lori.

Dang it I thought about Treasured Hearts, but I went with drop your guard. Im gonna wear forever after (which contains soulmates) over drop your guard and see how it goes. Thanks for your input, seriously. Its not been a smooth few months. Just wish me luck and send me your good vibes!

Thanks, Kjnsavy. Your the only one who said anything so far and I really appreciate it. Your sweet. Its cool though, everyone is distracted by Cuddle bunny. I went with drop your guard...and I DID place my second order already. ACK!!! YOU WERE SO RIGHT! IM an ADDICT!! At least its of a healthy addiction this time though!!!!

:angelstar-kaos058: NICCCCCCCCEEEEEEEEEE. I hear verrrrry good things. Knjsavy had my number. I'm so doomed!!!

Hi Phero experts! I have a slump in both my love life and communication with my fiance right now. Its a long story girls, seriously. The short version would be he's coming out of a fight with addiction, and so am I, but where I'm going to school and counseling, he won't. I dont know if this is some dumb macho s*it or what, and there have been some slip ups along the way on both of our parts, but we ARE both trying. He did at least kick one thing for good, so I'm just hoping for more progress. If you want more on this you can read what I wrote in the ashes to dust review. But I digress.

I have coming in the mail the phero enhanced version of LP(with Blatant Invitation), Phero Girl Wildflower(for use at school-Im a beauty school student and work on real clients),Phero Girl 3rd Brew (WITH EOW? I Dont remember,I also dont know why the computer started typing in bold font..), Forever After(with soul mate), Nakai Nectar(dont remember whats in here), and unscented cuddle bunny.

This order I wanna get Sorceress(again I'm thinking school, but maybe with him too?), and either drop your guard or super sexy unscented.

I feel like my sexual bases are covered and I really want to get him to open up more at this point. He just seems to have zero lust for life these days and its dragging me down too.

He's my best friend. I've known him ten years. I'm not naive enough to think perfumes can change a person THAT much, but maybe enough, with prayers, and good thoughts, to push him a little in the right direction?

So. After all that my actual question is, do you think drop your guard is a good choice? And if you think a dominance potion is appropriate, how would it be used in this situation? Ashes to dust has been ordered and I'll be working out the negative energy with that too.

All advice is appreciated. I mean ALL. Thanks as always, Lori

ps- I should mention, our sex life isnt non existent, its just slowed down. And no, no cheating. Hes always here, just...full of malaise..sorry so personal. This forum has made me comfortable.

Therapygirl, my friend. How can this be? I keep lookin at the dang homepage and they aren't even up there for sale yet. I wants the creamy flowers!! Do you live round the block from the scent studio?

Hi Danna! I wanna try Santa Carla. Any chance in hell you'd bring it back? I already asked you this elsewhere. But the scent sounds divine, bonus if there's a picture of the Lost Boyson the label....

Hi. When can I buy these?

Mannnnn.... I wanna try this! I love the powdery, creamy strawberry vanilla thought..Looooove the packaging. Want some astro-ice cream. But I's SCARED of chocolate!! It usually turns into something very abnormal on me(something from another planet even, which would work for 'rocket chick' haha).

How much and what kind of chocolate is in here? Maybe I'll take a risk...

I am now cranky I ordered 976 Girl as a present. It sounds right up my alley... Ugh. Svanjay was right. There's no way in hell I'm olny gonna be placing orders 4 times a year.

Haha! Thanks Dolly! I think I'll let this one slide for now and just get a few extra potions I have my eye on. I have a little candy store of pheros to start with, and in a beauty school, a 'blabber mouth' phero may back fire. I AM pretty brutally honest as it is!

Thanks again Liz! You rock at speedy answers. ROCK!! ; )

Anyone tried this or what? Of all the other unscenteds, is it supposed to be most like drop your guard? Let me know...been thinkin bout tryin it.

I'm ordering this one tommorow. Yay! First order!!! I've never smelled original LP, annnnd I'm also excited about this Blatant Invitation bussiness . Does this one come in a roll on or a facet bottle? I'm a sucker for packaging...a total sucka!

Thanks gals. SB, I might take you up on that. Gotta think about it. I'm not really familiar with how decant circles work though I hear about em all the time.

Dolly, for now, I think I will go for Treasured Hearts and Cuddle Bunny. I'm in beauty school, so treasured hearts could be helpful in bonding with my primarily female classmates and clients, and cuddle bunny for days off with the honey. Sounds like a plan! Thanks again ladies! I think I'm gonna like it here! I need to get my profile set up. I'm jealous of your avatars!

So this is on my extensive first order list. Annnnd it sound TASTY! One concern- maple. I like maple, but sometimes on my skin there's a maple revolution. It takes over all else and I wind up smelling like a walking IHOP. Need I fear this? I hope not...all else about kittenish sounds so dang lovely, including the label-aww!

Hi everyone. I'm order plotting( it's getting outta hand! - oh well, you only live once?), but I'm trying to decide, in the unscented phero route; should I get cuddle bunny and treasured hearts? OR go whole hog and spring for that 110 dollar bottle of whichever andresol it is( name of it is eluding me now).

It seems that the big bottle sortof has the same properties of the other two? Plus for 20 dollars you get more product? Or am I crazy? Please, someone who has tried these let me know your thoughts!

Thanks! Lori