LadyRose

I've seen this on the Discovery Channel, the male often becomes enraged & lashes out when the mating ritual is interrupted.........

LMAO! You are toooooo funny!

Sometimes they can, sometimes not.....in a crowded room, signals can become mixed and muddled.....pheros don't always act like flashing beacons (although sometimes I have wished they would).....they will not drag someone to you if they are not interested in you or if you are not acting congruently......if they see you or meet you and are somewhat attracted to you, the pheros can "tip the scales" in your favor.....unless someone gets close to you and starts being affected by the pheros and you"reel them in", it may appear that someone else has "stolen your hits" because the target can lose interest.... for instance, if you are being aloof, shy, or quiet, then that is not congruent with Cougar .....that is why pheros are only a small part of the equation.....you must WORK IT, in order for it to work.......just like Beccah said, when you didn't bite, they went for the sure thing.....think about the guy who passed by 8 times waving before you acknowledged him.....if you had acknowledged him on the first time, he may have approached you sooner.....

 

 

Alcohol-based blends can have wide diffusion patterns, and the more you apply, the farther they get "out there".....I like wearing social blends in alcohol, because it can lift moods and make for happy gatherings, but I am not trying to target any specific individual. I SOMETIMES wear the sexual ones in alcohol, but always when I am with my man, and he KNOWS who is wearing pheros, what signal I am giving him, and WHY.....I also like Leather in alcohol, but there again, I am not targeting any one person, but just enhancing my aura and enjoying the self-effects......I prefer wearing the sexual ones close to my body....either by boosting a LP or by using an unscented in CPS or oil......

I went to meet a group of women from our meetup group. My first time meeting them. I was somewhat reserved as I'm in that LTR and my guy wasn't there but it was just interesting. They always approached me first and when it became apparent that I wasn't going to put out they went for the sure thing. It ended up with me giving her a ride home and after my car was brought out, I was programing my gps at the stop sign, one of her guys opened the car door and started calling us horrible names. It was insane. She is trash.

It can happen, especially with alcohol-based blends.....they diffuse in a crazy way.....so sometimes it is difficult for the target to tell who is emitting unless you are in a non-crowded place. Oil blends are more "personal space" type pheros, so they will notice that they are "feeling the feeling" when they are up close and personal to YOU.

That BITES! I only use sprays because I just never got the hang of what dose to use in the rollons. It was always my understanding that they would be able to distinguish who wearing the pheros.

Wow, that must have been pretty irritating :/

I think she was either head-to-toe in cops, or was flashing upstairs and downstairs at them when you weren't looking, or somehow otherwise was giving off a "I am big slore" neon signal.

 

BTW though, that's a hell of a hit (for both pheros) from her toward YOU

Yes, she was wearing something that sported both the camel toe and the ugly cousin moose knuckle. LOL! I find that I do get a lot of attention from other women when I use TH.

Well it's not meant to; it's more social than social-sexual.

I wore the TH because I was going to be around a group of women. (I thought) My honey wasn't there so I didn't do any additional cops. I

Hmm well it might not have been as much she was stealing your hits. You see this in nonphero situations also. Guys will come talk to a group of ladies even if they only find one attractive. When the one they were intially attracted to isn't interested, they don't stop feeling 'amorous'. So they go for the fish that's biting their lines. So basically they were first interested in you, but when you didn't bite. They went for the 'sure thing'.

Well she certainly was a sure thing. Funny thing is, there was a guy who walked by 8 different times and smiled at me and waved each time. Her back was turned so she didn't see this but the minute I finally waved back, he came right on over and introduced himself. He wasn't interested in her but when he went in to get me a drink, she said, "oh, he was waiting until the other guys left so he could come talk to me." WTF?!! Vain much?

I'm wondering about this.... I was at a party Wednesday night with my Stone Cougar 3x, and a little TH and feeling great. Met a lady fir the first time who would not get away from me. Kept telling me how we were going to be best friends, my face just glowed, etc and basically just fascinated with me. I actually went to meet a group of people but somehow got stuck at a table with her. She was not my normal type of person, she was dressed head to toe in tight, fake designer wear and had the Grace Jones hair bleached blonde.

Anyway, men started coming by, to introduce themselves to me. I was facing the room and her back was to the crowd so I'm assuming I was the draw. LOL! Anyway, they would come over, introduce themselves to me, I would introduce them to her and they would immediately sit with us and promptly start making out with her. I mean very graphic stuff and quite publicly. Yes, she turned out to be a slore. This happened all night. Was she stealing my hits? Has anyone ever heard of this happening?

Hello Tezza,

You chose a great place.

So sorry about the diagnosis. Just adding my two cents. I agree with the others that you need to see what the meds are doing before you continue with your pheros. Good Luck, and my thoughts are with you.

Welcome PollyWolly!

Yes...

They arrived yesterday and I had an amazing date!

Allow me to intorduce myself...Im a woman of wealth and taste...

 

Heh...awesome song, right?

 

Anyways, I just wanted to say hi...Im 30, and I live in Temple, OK...on the border of Texas. I have 4 kids, a dog, and I am hoping to have a couple of rabbits and banty chickens soon.

 

I recieved a sample of Love Potion Black in a care package my friend sent me when I was sick a few months ago. I fell in love with it, and have been waffling over what I want to try next.

sorry LR, just saw this

Thanks Liz,

Really don't know if I should thank you actually. After visiting, I've got another HUGE order. LOL! It NEVER ends!

Hey Jaycee,

Everything they all said. I'm thrilled that I found this place. Everyone has been so helpful that now I'm addicted and can't stay away!

from the SALE all I found that I HAD TO HAVE was Sugared Forest !

Pardon me for being an idiot, but where is the sale link?!

At 4:00 am, there is no good angel to fight me. I had a 700.00 order in my cart but wouldn't you know it?!! I went to check out and my cart was empty. After screaming FML!!! I tried to remember what I had chosen. Didn't work but I just ordered the following.

LP Red Perfume Spray

Love Drawing Perfume Oil

UN BETA-ANDROSTENOL SPRAY

Garland & Lace V2 2x Perfume Spray

LAM Spray 2x -Spicy Brown Sugar

BAM Spray 2x strength -Spicy Brown Sugar

samples of Pure Sugar and Liquid Magix,

A few spell candles, a few mini spray bottles, and of course, I had to round it all off with my usual "OMG I can't wait! PLEASE send it by EXPRESS MAIL!

Now the stalking of my postal worker begins. LOL!

Hello coco custard!!!!

Here's the update!

I remembered how great the last date was and remembered that the only thing missing was the happy giddy fun so I did as Dolly suggested in the other bring out the big guns post. So, I went with the Leather 2x plus cops, BAM 3x, OCCO Red, then, as Dolly suggested, I used Alpha Androstenal, Woozy Floozy strength. That was the only difference from last time

Anyway, I met him at the lounge, we were seated, and 3 different male waiters came by to help us refill our drinks. There were a lot of DIH looks, and my guy was very into PDAs and very talkative. I have NEVER seen him want to share so much of his life with me. We left for his house and I was dragged into the bedroom.

Let's just say that three hours later, I said, "OMG! I've gotta get dressed before you get hard again". I tried to crawl out of the bed but it took another 3 hours before I was able to crawl away and into my clothes. And EVEN then, my old guy was ready for action again. Gotta love those Cops!

Ohhh...I finally got the "I love you and I would never do anything to hurt you" too! Pretty good night!

But, he'll go with a smile on his face!!

 

 

I'd wear that and a blast of unscented Leather straight to your chest.....it will waft up to you and keep your confidence going....

Shelly and Dolly,

Thanks! I will certainly let you know how it goes.

So break out the Cougar if you have it. Cougar plus OCCO equals fun self effects for me - sparkly, sexy, confident and very very much WANTED. Oddly enough - I haven't broken mega cougar out on the HSF - because he responds so well to the Leather I haven't felt like it. Maybe next trip - I have him to myself for three days...

If it's an in stock phero mix, I've got it. Except straight Beta Nol. I've got Stone Cougar 3x, and secnted Cougar regular strength but I'm wondering because he's almost 55. Is that gonna do it?

WOW! A lot has changed since everyone helped me handle this, handle kinda seeing, ex, bringing out the big guns etc. Thanks to great advice from you all, I think I'm sticking up for myself like a champ. Even to the point of saying, "Why don't we take a little break from seeing one another while you catch up on work?" He told me in no uncertain terms, that is NOT going to happen.

This was after he told me how special I am and how much I have changed in subtle little ways and I was soon going to be a confident independent modern woman of the world. Did the switch from Lace to Leather really make him see me that differently?! Other than calling him out on the ex, and offering to walk away if he was too busy with work, I'm the same person

So......

We have a date tonight! Basically some drinks, music and his place for fun. How about a mix that will aid in the DIH, oh, I'm so Super sexy, fun and spectacular in public and a hotter then hell mind blowing sex? :angelstar-kaos058: Leather is indeed my new best friend. I'm still working on the wanting him to desire more contact and permanence. Once again, I turn to you, oh wise Phero-Gurus. Thanks in advance for your ideas!

170 pounds?? Wow, that's quite the achievement! Very impressive

Yes, I didn't do it in the best way possible but it took almost 2 years to lose it. I did high protein low carbs but I went from a size 28 to a 2 or 4. I'm knocking on wood as I say I've kept it off 5 years now.

Hi to everyone!

 

I am newbie to this forum and will be doing a group order with Elliebellikins, Azaezl & LuSive (thanks to the lovely Sarah.)

 

Now the difficult part is to decide what I am going to order for the next Group order! That will be a tough one coz everything I have tried so far is gorgeous!

I will let you know when I manage to decide what I am going to order!

Welcome Tabby

Ok, Occo Blue is a no-go. I get too much of the Tide smell with this one. It makes me gag. PURPLE, on the other hand, is very pretty....I didn't think I'd like Violets, who knew? I still so want to try RED though...

Red is DEVINE! Hands down my favorite.

Thanks everyone for all of your help. I'm pretty happy and couldn't have done it without you!

Hi everyone,

The pheromones I have don't contain estratetraenol so I haven't had time to experience the social results of this pheromone. When I wear pheromones the responses I get from men are lustful. My natural pheromone signature is more similar to the results I would get with estratetraenol. I often get love type looks from men and very few strong lust looks when I don't wear any pheromones. I would like to strengthen or to increase the feelings in those around me that result in the love type of reactions. I'm thinking about getting some estratetraenol from the love potion store and I'm not sure which strength to get. I'm also not familiar with this pheromone so I would love to hear some of the experiences you've had with estratetraenol.

 

Hi, here's a link to some Est info http://lovepotion.invisionzone.com/index.p...opic=836&hl=

WOW! What a night!

Until I finally left the house, I had absolutely no clue what I was going to do. Other than Cops that is. I went ahead and did the whole shower, 10 drops o EoW and by the time I had applied my makeup, I eventually decided on Leather , the direction I was already leaning. I did about 4 or 5 sprays of Leather 2x and was feeling pretty good as I got dressed. I actually left the house and came back to spray 2 shots of BAM. I had been thinking back and one of the best times we had enjoyed connecting was BAM induced.

So feeling sexy, confident, and pretty full of myself, but in a NICE non-bitchy way, I left the house for the second time. The plan was to meet at a restaurant/bar at a local mall. He's worked a little late so we figured drinks and whatever first. I was half an hour early so I went into Macys, he sent a text when he arrived asking what store I was shopping at. It's well known that I have a 3^rd degree black belt in shopping and use it often. I 'd been waiting for them to see if they had the cutest 5 inch red stilettos in my size so I told him Macys, and I would be right there. They didn't have them in a 6 so I left the store and distractedly strolled right by him.

Mr. He who always waited at the restaurant, or in his car til he sees me had actually come looking for me! I got a hug, and he held my hand as we went towards the restaurant. Here's where it takes a turn for the strange… I, she who complained that we didn't do anything publicly, asked if we could skip the whole drinks thing. Yeah, I know… Playing hard to get was never my thing if it involved being turned on, and I was. We had a half hour ride to his place during which he kept reaching for my hand, rubbing my thigh, etc. After about 15 minutes in the vehicle, he got more and more affectionate at lights and such. LOL!

We got to his place, he opened my door, grabbed my hand and we raced for the bedroom. I had an amazing time, it was once again all about making me very happy and naturally I rewarded that behavior. We spent all of our "downtime" (not that there was very much of it) cuddling and he talked a lot. I'd previously told him that, having worked in the psychiatric field for many years before I decided to do the homemaker thing, I read people very well and he has 2 "tells" when he is less than honest. He doesn't know what they are but I do. He's never flat out lied but they show up if he's evasive.

I asked a ton of questions and he willingly, gladly it seemed answered. Turns out he hasn't physically been with anyone since we met(glad I didn't dump him), has gone to lunch with ex GF, she's sending lots of texts, and stopping by the business. After 6 hours of very hot sex (I swear Mr. almost 55 lasts longer than any 20yr old I ever met)and some bonding/talking, I went home and crawled into bed. I'm counting it as a WIN!!! I do think I want to get Bnol, since that's really why I used the BAM.

I'm not 100% sure yet, but I think I like the happier more fun mood, equally hot sex we have with Lace and cops more. I will probably alternate until I figure it out.