FlowerPower Posted January 16, 2020 Share Posted January 16, 2020 (edited) So I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and I cannot get a consistent read on what he responds best to...HELLLLP! A little about him: He loves helping the less fortunate, but is a little lazy. He's very competitive, but will take a short-cut to "win" or to get to a goal. He is very ambitious and also very clingy. He won't admit it, but likes to feel a little pampered. My results; Cuddle Bunny - Chivalrous at first, then a little bit aggressive if worn too long Cuddle Bunny w/ Leather - Makes him chivalrous but attracted to me (Good self-effects); he will cater to me Leather - Makes him attracted to me but a little edgy from time to time (Good self-effects) LFM - Makes him compliant, gives me what I want, but neither of us feel the joy LFM w/DHEAs - Makes him gift me things at the same time we are happy (but it's not my favorite combo to wear as I can lean into feeling depressed or bitchy) Cuddle Bunny w/Open Windows - Brings him joy and I like this combo but he is more apt to try to get away with things LOL (brings out his mischievous side) Gotcha - Most times it annoys him unless I'm sad/going through a challenge, then he's very sentimental Cougar - We both have fun with this one, but he seems very possessive and cognizant of others noticing me. He doesn't cater to me with this one; brings out his jealous side Red Lace - Caters to me at first, but if worn around him too long he becomes a little overbearing Dominance - He's obedient LOL My conclusions: If too much EST is worn around him for an extended period, it ramps up his testosterone and bossiness. However, I like wearing EST, and I also like wearing things that make me feel bubbly. My favorite things to wear solo (Cuddle Bunny, Red Lace, Leather with DHEAs, Leather solo, Cougar) I want to wear something around him that will 1) keep him in line (not getting too cheeky) 2) that I feel good in 3) will make him always cater to me/give me things lol What would you recommend? Edited January 16, 2020 by FlowerPower Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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