Help!!! Need right combo to wear around my boyfriend

[FlowerPower]

So I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and I cannot get a consistent read on what he responds best to...HELLLLP!

 

A little about him: He loves helping the less fortunate, but is a little lazy. He's very competitive, but will take a short-cut to "win" or to get to a goal. He is very ambitious and also very clingy. He won't admit it, but likes to feel a little pampered.

 

My results;

Cuddle Bunny - Chivalrous at first, then a little bit aggressive if worn too long

Cuddle Bunny w/ Leather - Makes him chivalrous but attracted to me (Good self-effects); he will cater to me

Leather - Makes him attracted to me but a little edgy from time to time (Good self-effects)

LFM - Makes him compliant, gives me what I want, but neither of us feel the joy

LFM w/DHEAs - Makes him gift me things at the same time we are happy (but it's not my favorite combo to wear as I can lean into feeling depressed or bitchy)

Cuddle Bunny w/Open Windows - Brings him joy and I like this combo but he is more apt to try to get away with things LOL (brings out his mischievous side)

Gotcha - Most times it annoys him unless I'm sad/going through a challenge, then he's very sentimental

Cougar - We both have fun with this one, but he seems very possessive and cognizant of others noticing me. He doesn't cater to me with this one; brings out his jealous side

Red Lace - Caters to me at first, but if worn around him too long he becomes a little overbearing

Dominance - He's obedient LOL

 

My conclusions: If too much EST is worn around him for an extended period, it ramps up his testosterone and bossiness. However, I like wearing EST, and I also like wearing things that make me feel bubbly. My favorite things to wear solo (Cuddle Bunny, Red Lace, Leather with DHEAs, Leather solo, Cougar)

 

I want to wear something around him that will 1) keep him in line (not getting too cheeky) 2) that I feel good in 3) will make him always cater to me/give me things lol

What would you recommend?

Edited January 16, 2020 by FlowerPower

[hedgehog]

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Cuddle Bunny w/ Leather - Makes him chivalrous but attracted to me (Good self-effects); he will cater to me

Leather - Makes him attracted to me but a little edgy from time to time (Good self-effects)

 

It seems like Leather/Cuddle Bunny with Leather is working for you.  It seems like it has the EST you like, good self effects, and you're getting the results you want? Maybe add a spray of DHEAS in there? 

[FlowerPower]

4 hours ago, hedgehog said:

It seems like Leather/Cuddle Bunny with Leather is working for you.  It seems like it has the EST you like, good self effects, and you're getting the results you want? Maybe add a spray of DHEAS in there? 

Thank you. Yes. I remember wearing Leather with DHEAS before and that was a winner.

 

On another note. I wore Perfect Match with my guy tonight and the results were OUTSTANDING. So much love and warm sentiments and caring between one another. It has made me believe in love again. I can’t remember a time recently when my boyfriend was this soft and loving. 💕💕

[FlowerPower]

Ok. I figured something out from reading this forum as well as Pherotruth. My boyfriend is a positive responder to A1. That molecule is in LFM, LFN and PM. He has responded consistently well to all three. I think it makes him feel at peace. The PM seems to have an imprinting effect on him too. The only other blend that has had this effects on targets has been Gotcha (although Gotcha doesn't have A1 in it).