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  1. I will speak to the non dominant personality thing if you like! I am training to be a therapist, so picture a good communicator, fairly self confident, funny, very open, gentle, yet fairly intellectual introvert. With my SO I am very much a partner but I have stronger than most boundaries because of my divorce and things that have happened in our past. I am almost twice as old as he is too. Leather on me is us ACHING for a fight!!! EVERY time I wear it around him it turns out badly! He perceives me as prideful and arrogant when I wear it. He always feels like I am putting him down when I have it on, even when I totally not feeling that way nor trying to make him think I am. I don't think that it is that I am non congruent with the leather, because I can be alpha when needed and definitely have that side to my personality, I just think it his on his insecurities and pushes me a bit beyond what I feel like working for if that makes any sense.

    I have alot of it which I am reserving for work situations and family events, but not with him anymore. I don't really get great self effects with it either, I feel kind of tense, which is great to keep you on your toes in a situation where you are performing, just not the feeling that I reserve for my alone time with my snuggle bunny. Now with LACE, I am a total LOVEMUFFIN!!! He could eat me up!

  2. Ladies, you will not believe the miracle that has happened today. You just will not believe it. We went in and had the assessment and they contacted our insurance. Insurance said they would not pay for inpatient rehab. Said it would be 20,000 dollars up front. Remember I am a student doing an unpaid internship working a very small part time job. I thought I would die. I started tearing up right then.The lady stepped out of her office and came back five minutes later and said this is your lucky day. She said that because of whom my family member is (I have never met this woman, she is a distant cousin, an angel) that the rehab center would pay 80 percent and that we would only have to pay a small amount over several years!!!!!!!!!! Have you ever had someone you do not know drop 18,000.00 in your lap and saved your child's life???? That's what I feel like. I am reeling. I will be forever indebted to this relative, I am due to meet her this week when I go home. I just can't believe it, I am crying as I type. This center is world famous, one of the best in the country. A very famous person spent time there recently, apparently that is common.

    I put on Road Opener this morning. I never dreamed......

  3. Ladies,

     

    I am out of town, having to bring my beloved firstborn to rehab. he has developed an addiction to huffing inhalants. This can be deadly even the first time, and I am scared to death. he is 20 and I just found out he has been doing it since eighth grade!! His dad has caught him doing it several times, but I have never been given the opportunity to intervene. He is living with me since his dad became fed up with him, and has been doing quite well. He was at his dad's yesterday and was found huffing again. I have a family member who is a well known interventionist who has gotten him into a good rehab center in Nashville. We drove here tonight and will go to the center in the AM. I ned a rec for pheros for tomorrow. I need respect, cooperation, affection and I need them to cater to my son. I am going to wear Road Opener and Feral for scent. Please help with Phero rec. I do not have Swimming with Sharks with me but I have most everything else including Diane's Rock Star Red Carpet, Treasured Hearts, Leather, Lace, Dominance and many others. I grabbed a huge bagful as I was frantically packing my suitcase. Any recs plus your good wishes for my baby are appreciated. Much Love to all my girls!

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