Sunnycowgirl

Thanks for the reviews on PM, for newbie to the phero world, it means allot, esp when were trying to accomplish something and don't want it to backfire in our faces.

Thanks Cycle Kitten and StacyK...I think I'll just stick to using one phero at a time and check out that newbie thread.

I'm sure everyone knows about my first date with my ex college boyfriend after 25 yrs. Anyways, we met up last Tuesday. I wore lp tropique with gotcha. We met in my motel room, I was there for a Dr appt. The moment he walked in the room, it's like we picked up where we left off some 25 yrs ago. We talked and remeienced about old times, he said I smelled really good, and one thing led to another, and not to go into much detail but we ended up in bed having sex. I'll back up, back to 1995 when we were young, in college, dating and partying. His best friend from high school was my college roommate and girlfriend, she was a vet tech major and I was a equine management and hog confinement major. I started out as a equine management major, but worked at a hog confinement and went into hog confinement management. Anyways, I was on my hog confinement internship, in another town, and my college roommate and boyfriend lived in diffetent towns a hr away, she was doing her vet tech internship, and he was working for a farmer and lived at home, so we'd meet at her house. So every other weekend I'd go to my gf house and we'd party. On the off weekends when I had to work I'd party with my co workers or he would come and visit me. I met his mother once, and that was when they were camping with my gf and her family. She hates me, not sure what I did but to this day she hates me. He doesn't know why she hates me either. I think I know why. He ended up marrying his first college girlfriend. His mom was pushing him to get married, and I wasn't ready to, I still had a yr left of college and she was more than willing. They divorced 15 yrs later. Not sure if she thought we should of gotten married, or that we partied to much. So my question is on the second date, which is march 5th, what scents should I wear? Perfect match to ease all those feeling, open up communication, and bring back all those old feeling when we first met. I know the pheros aren't magical. So should I stick with gotcha or use perfect match? With gotcha we were communicating but sometimes he was hesitant, or would change the subject. It brought up more of the sexual feelings. He asked for the second date. So I'm leaning towards the lp tropique and pm. Put him at ease and open up. Or would the change throw him for a loop? The other problem is that I'm tight down there. Tmi...I had a horse accident 2 yrs ago where I hit the saddle horn in the crotch area, ended up with having to have stitches and a drain tube. So I'm thinking that's why I'm so tight. It wasn't painful but he brought up the subject of using a vibrator to loosen it up for next time. Okay I'll quite rambling and let you gals help me out with this.

I am so glad that I found this site, to ask all those girly sex questions, and everyone is so nice and informative on the subject. Compromising Position makes me feel so sexy when I was wearing it. I liked wearing LP Tropique with Gotcha, wasn't as much as a turn on as CP though. So with my little trials, I'm thinking it's the food smells that get me revved up. Saying I'm nervous is a understatement....I'm so out of practice in that area, thinking that the vibrator and I need a little date sometime real soon. Hoping that will relax me, other than a few beers or glasses of wine. So would you add cops to the super sexy?

It's my sex drive. lol. Nothing wrong with his drive. I forgot how much that man turned me on. I've never really had a drive, but since hitting the 40's it's decreased quite a bit. I'd like that little bit I did have back. I plan on lighting a few candles, sipping on some wine, putting on compromising positions, and playing with the girls best friend, aka vibrator. I placed a order already, but I do have gotcha, compromising postitons, and dom noire is on order. I haven't gotten up the nerve to ask him to wear anything yet.

Oh thanks...

Okay newbie here but what does YMMV stand for?

Thanks quiet guy...I'm out of the groove. It doesn't help that he's 3 hrs away, works as a farm manager, coaches, refs, and drives a race car, meanwhile I bake, live on a ranch, and ride and show horses. But he's willing to take time to pencil me in, so there is hope, right.

I have a sample of compromising positions, might have to try that, and maybe get ahold of a sample of Sexpionage? I like the smell of compromising positions, sort of a sweet creamy smell. Our next date were going out to eat, so I don't know if I'd feel comfortable wearing those to s steakhouse or not? Also looking for a scent to wear in the evenings/everyday/work at the bakery, when I'm not trying to be a sex goddess. lol.

Oh the first date went very well last night, both of our schedules are really busy, his more than mine, he coaches and reffes basketball games for the young kids, and we live 4 hrs apart from one another. That and I work in a bakery, live on a ranch, which is getting busy with calving, branding, synchronizing AIing the heifer's, etc. But the sex was great, and he loved LP Tropique and Gotcha seemed to have him, but at 45 yrs old, the sex drive is low, and I was wonder after reading another post what to take. I ordered the maca gold, hopefully that will help, but I was wondering about some of the other products mentioned like the edge, or turn up the heat by androtics, and pherogirl or cougar potion? I'm new to this and my head is spinning. I have no idea where to start, or if I can still use the LP Tropique and Gotcha with like say the pherogirl or cougar potion? I just need something to get the sex drive ramped up. He's more than great in bed, but it's been awhile since I did it, and I've never had kids so he said I was tight and needed lubricant. That and he said a vibrator might get me loosened up. We pretty much picked right back up where we left off 25 yrs ago and wonder why we ever quit seeing one another. You gals are so awesome to talk to about these issues....that and I do have two weeks before the next date to figure out how to ramp up the sex drive. Thanks in advance.

Thanks gals, we didn't meet up this weekend. I went to a concert friday night, and saturday we were suppose to meet but I got the flu bug saturday morning so we decided to wait another weekend. I was a long 5 hr drive home today, still felt nauseated and yucky. So we decided to wait another weekend. I ordered tropique, gotcha, and summertime blues so I'll have something to play with when we do meet up.

So when is Mara going to be opening the Private editions again?

Hello, I'm new here, and for the last few days I spent reading the mb, and reading til my head is spinning, and I'm so glad that I did scribble down a few notes. But here's the scoop, I'm back to dating, after a horrible abusive marriage, and then following a horrible two yr divorce, and then dating off and on, but nothing real serious. But my ex college boyfriend is back in the picture, after being apart for 20 yrs, he found me on facebook, and decided after marrying the girl his mother adored, and not me, he wants to see if there is anything after all these years. So here's my dilemma, I want to wear something that will wow him. I asked him what his favorite perfume was and he said it was sweet tropical, coconut, vanilla, victoria secret scents. Anyone have any ideas what I should wear? Gotcha or Perfect Match. My girl friend is letting me borrow a few of her VS scents for our first meeting this weekend, but for the second meeting what should I wear? Any ideas? I'm not a girly girl, I work in a bakery, and live on a cattle ranch, so I'm more of a leather scent, a little sass, mixed in with wildflowers. We were quite sexually active back then, and we partied quite a bit, thinking that's why his mother dislikes me so much as she think I was a bad influence to him but we were 25 yrs old. I just want something that will help put all those feeling behind him, and open up the communication, and of course make him want me regardless to what his mother says or thinks. Expecting a miracle aren't I.