FlowerPower

Hi friends! I am wondering what to wear to lunch with my boyfriend’s daughter who is very possessive of him and has since been trying to drive a wedge between he and I. I want us to be friends but I also want her to respect me. She seems to be very bratty and she’s an adult. 

Im thinking either LFM w/DHEAS or Open Windows (but still want the respect factor there). Will Leather w/ DHEAS be too aggressive? 

This blend is just THE BEST!! For reactions and selfies. Is this still available? I don’t see it for sale on the website. 

Did you all notice how I reported the LFM/DHEAS combo results above? No one was surprised??? Feedback? Is this normal? 

Another question. Do you notice that your blends with pheros work less when you’re on your period?

9 hours ago, Dolly said:

BAM is beta-adrostenol and cops.  In contrast to LAM which is Alpha-adrostenol and cops.  Alpha-nol is more of a happy vibe while Beta-nol is more of the bonding, tell-me-all-your-secrets vibe.  BAM backfired on me ONCE when I was with a man who didn't feel comfortable sharing his feelings, but that was the only negative reaction I had from it.  I like the uplifting effect from LAM better, as a personal preference.

 

Thank you ladies I’m going to have to add this to my arsenal. 

UPDATE: the LFM and DHEAS worked wonderfully well. We had a great day of bonding and my dear boyfriend bought me a beautiful $700 bracelet “just because”. It’s gorgeous and I feel great!! 

SWS and Open Windows for sure!! I’m in a profession where people have to trust to give me their large sums of money. If I’m going for an in person appointment, I NEVER am without OPEN WINDOWS. All hail to the Queen of making others feel good! 

Now in retail settings Cuddle Bunny makes people want to give me stuff without even opening my mouth as long as I smile and look sweet. 

LFM hasn’t shown me anything special either way. 

Ladies, I’ve never tried BAM. Can you remind me what’s in it?

I haven’t tried the Dom on him yet. Yesterday I wore it to work and had PERFECT results. So many people moving out of my way, showing respect, giving me space. I always have a good result with DOM. I changed to the new Cougar scent later for an outing with my friends which was a SUPER WINNER. I don’t want to try Dom on him during the holiday weekend as we have a couple of parties to go to and I don’t want him to have a negative reaction and ruin things.

Im going with LFM today, topped with DHEAS for a little lightness for us both. He usually behaves with LFM around. I would rather wear Cougar as we’re going to parties today, but I need to get him back in line 😂. Ironically he was a little teddy bear on the phone last night but back to gruff again this am. He may miss me too.

Oh StacyK he is the boss in real life. He owns his own business and is always bossing his employees around. Sometimes with humor but he definitely has the last word.

Last thing, he is very generous with me in terms of spending money on our dates. I’ve only paid for 1 date in 6 months and we see each other 2-3 times per week. It would be an affront to his manliness to have it any other way LOL 😝. I just want him to be inspired to buy me gifts etc. which he’s not good at thinking about EXCEPT when I wear CB. He’s been saying that he’s going to get me this necklace from Jared. Who knows if it’s coming 🤷🏽‍♀️. He also is supposed to be taking me overseas for my birthday but I kept having to remind him about the down payment for the trip to reserve our spot (he wanted me to shout it from the mountain tops when he finally made the payment 😂- we were both excited), all the while he just spent thousands on office equipment. 

6 hours ago, anchoredinopulence said:

This sounds a lot like my Alpha hubby in terms of phero-reactions. Gotcha and Perfect Match were hard no-go's for us both, and I will third that BI sentiment too. Crank City all around! CB can be nice but only if he's relaxed, otherwise I find he gets irritated. Oddly what I've found elicits the most loving and generally awe-struck responses are Leather and Dom - almost like a namaste to the alpha in me. Have you tried? With a bit of cops (or Dom softened with CB) it turns very respectfully sexual - more loving and cuddly than voracious. But Leather especially; that's the one that has him calling me Queen and literally getting teary eyed with reverence. 😉I do think it has something to do with having him feel a little bit of friendly energetic competition and seeing me as more of an equal (I'm pretty Alpha anyway) that causes him to remember that I'm the boss so he steps up his spoiling game. 🤣I've found that when he's cranky and I put on Leather or Dom it actually soothes him. I know there are plenty of people this will REALLY NOT work for so proceed with caution, but for him I think it makes him feel the relief of having someone else being in charge for a change, which then makes him want to lavish grateful attention. Never fails for me!

Thank you!! This gives me something to think about. I do like the new Dom blend. Maybe I will try it with Cuddle Bunny. Hmmm

6 hours ago, StacyK said:

I have never known a true Alfa not to be a sucker for EST. 

That's weird about "Gotcha". Have you tried it more than once? Did you adjust the dosage and how did it affect you?

But, mileage will very, as they say. 

 

I'm curious, and I hope this does not come across the wrong way.

I'm just curious what traits he displays. What tells you he's alpha? This also might help you choose.  

 

What are you looking for? What reaction from him are you trying to nudge? 

 

I noticed you did not mention "Sexpionage". Great for twisting the sheets. "Sexology" is sexy, cuddly and bonding.

 

Are you trying to connect? PM. To add a dash of sex you could put a swipe of BAM in your clevage. 

 

 

He’s definitely a very Alpha person. Even my guy friends have said this. He reacts well to the EST in CB, but if worn too long it ramps up his testosterone and he starts bossing everyone around. I’m not the type to be bossed 😉

i dont own Sexpionage, never had an interest in it. I do own sexology, I think I tried this with him before but don’t recall the reaction. 

Hi Eggers!! No I haven't. I can try. I have a PM sample at home, but I don't really care for the fragrance. But I can try it and boost it with cops. This will inspire him to feel all loving towards me, and want to be my night in shining armour without the bossiness? 😍

So, I have been dating my lovely Alpha BF for going on 6 months now. We are still very much in love, but sometimes he can get a little cheeky and tries to be a little bossy. Here how he has reacted to the different mones:

CB - generally makes him feel like doing something sweet and nice for me or treating me to something BUT if I wear this around him too much he can become a little bossy. He does like to cuddle when I wear this.

LFM - He is very respectful, and generally gives me my way, but does not try to spoil me. Good for when he is getting too bossy

LFN - He is very respectful and we generally have a good time. Doesn't elicit gifts/favors LOL

Cougar - He thinks I'm the hottest thing smokin'!! But not the most romantic

Gotcha - He had a bad reaction to this, I think we had an argument the ONE time I wore it around him

Pop potion - Neutral

Open Windows - He LOVES THIS STUFF, this makes him feel good, but not enough romance for me

CB/OW - Usually a winner, but need to tame that bossiness! 

I would like his respect, but I still want him to want to spoil me some and feel like cuddling with me. Suggestions? I'm open.

My boyfriend responds ever so pleasantly to this. This is truly the ‘feel-good’ pheromone for everyone. If I ever want us to have a fun time together, I just wear this. On one of our dates recently I combined it with LFM and he just thought I was his prized queen who he loved being around. Win! 

The guy I have been seeing for the last four months and who I’m in a committed relationship with reacts the best when I’m wearing CP. Now I love CP, I just have found that odd. I would have thought Gotcha but nope, he almost reacts negatively to Gotcha. Anyone know why? He reacts positively where I wear a combo of Open Windows and Cuddle Bunny. I call it my Cuddle Windows LOL. 

This smells soooooo good. My favorite LP scent so far and I think I own or have full bottles or samples of at least 30 blends. I haven’t even checked for self effects. Will be doing full bottle with this one 💕

On 3/15/2019 at 1:52 AM, Lainey said:

Did anyone recommend Candytuft Tea to @FlowerPower? I just kind of skimmed. I find that a tad bit similar.

 

This is a very pleasant and pretty scent, but it doesn’t really stand out for me. And it’s soooo light! It also doesn’t last very long on my skin. Maybe I’m just not in a “tea” mood today, I don’t know.

 

 

Thank you. I will look into this. I just ordered some items, but maybe I'll try this in a month or so.

You were right. There was no changing him. I moved on. 

Hey lovelies! I'm going on a date with someone whom I used to see years ago. This guy is a really sweetie. Always carried a serious torch for me. He is definitely more Beta than Alpha. I want him to be a bit more protective around me, to see a little more testosterone like behavior, just a tad... I do like his sweetness. I want him to continue to think of me as "a queen". Should I go with Cuddle Bunny to bring out the protector? LFM? 

This sounds interesting.

27 minutes ago, oceanjewel said:

In that situation I would wear LFM. Cougar might work too

I like the suggestion of Cougar. I was wearing that when I ran into him ??

The artwork is GORGEOUS!! Can't wait to read the notes of the scents..

I am going to hang out with an ex-boyfriend who I haven't hung around in years. Not sure what effect I want to have. I think I am leaning towards "look at all of this fabulousness that you LOST!". He already saw me recently and I was looking really sexy and feeling very pretty. 

I have most of the blends (except for SSFW, BANG and BI)

What do you think? 

I have to update my Open Windows experience. Although it can't be my go-to for work because I work with women are constantly trying to be Alpha, covered by fake smiles  (LFM and LFN tames them)

Open Windows makes me feel sooooo good. I feel happy, smart, together, confident, attractive and people seem to perceive me this way as well. I also felt like "I deserve" while wearing this. 

Always a hit - Open Windows  

7 hours ago, StacyK said:

As someone who gets great selfies from EST I can relate. 

EST always has a great effect on my mood. I have it in single molecule, CB LFM/N etc. I feel bubbly when I wear it and i think I've said this before but I call it the EST bounce I get in my walk (and mood). Cops definitely elevate my mood and I feel attractive. The two complement each other very well. That lift can give you confidence.

When I'm feeling good that's usually a big boost to my confidence. 

StacyK, yesss! That's a great way to describe it. It gives me an extra "bounce" and combined with the cops gives me an extra wiggle LOL 

Now I love anything with a touch on enone because it puts me in that "bad b$#!h" mode when and if needed, but it's definitely a more aggressive type of confidence and energy.  

So the last two times I wore my Snugaliscous (beautiful scent by the way), I have felt more outgoing? More confident and definitely more sexy. More flirty (mixed in with a little slutty ??). But very pleased with myself. I'm used to feeling confident with the nones but this is a different type of confidence. It's more social. If that makes sense? 

See...I know what Mara is trying to make me do...she's trying to make me spend ALL my money....HONEY when I tell you I'm in love with this scent...Baaaaby...by my forum name you can tell I love flowers...and Honeysuckle..oh Honeysuckle and I used to have a love thang when I was in my twenties. Yes ma'am, this one right here will do ?.

I will wear this out and report back, but even before I know how the phero works, this scent is Fan-FREAKIN-tastic.

OooooWeeee, this scent is DIVINE, it's sweet and soft and classic and elegant. Starts off all sugary goodness and blossoms to a scent perfect for an elegant lady. This scent is BEAUTIFUL..Bravo

Can't wait to wear it out. Probably will go full bottle with this one. 

On 4/4/2018 at 6:33 PM, Potion Master said:

Amethyst Haze

Delectable

Fluffy

Lumine d'Terra

Mystic Dewdrop w/ La Femme Mystere

Ohana w/ Heart & Soul

Paradisi w/ Open Windows

Petite Baie

Soliel d'Or w/ Aja

Spring Blossom w/ Hedione

Zakura w/ Perfect Match

Laloo - w/ Popularity Potion

Excited about seeing the notes in the Laloo....will you just look at that fur baby too?? Oooh super cute!! I'm a Popularity Potion fan so excited to see this. I'm hoping the notes a soft, and sugary and yummy ?