FlowerPower

Hello all, I have a question. I wear a blend that has LFM in it almost every day for work because I'm in a senior position and I find that it gives me the respect feel & reaction that I like. I also wear it sometimes on weekend when going around women who try to look their noses down at me. Here's the thing. I am finding that the more I wear it, the more bitchy I become and kinda irritable. I can become upset quicker, but I do like the reaction that people have to me while I'm wearing it. I don't feel this way (bitchy) wearing Cougar, Cuddle Bunny (blend), Open Windows, nor Gotcha. Should I take a break from LFM? Maybe wear the Open Windows to work?

Thank you Bella & StacyK. Both the LP Pink and the Sugared Grapefruit sound enticing...hmmm. I will make up my mind by tomorrow when I order.

Another awesome date with Gotcha! I am wearing the Honeyed LP with Gotcha. How he is connected to me and how he says he cant stop thinking about me and cant wait to see me each time...LOVE LOVE LOVE Gotcha!! He is already planning so much for our future. We shall see how far we make it...but we get on so dang well i can't imagine us not making it for at least a while LOL. Since he is a EST responder, I'm thinking of wearing maybe a Lace blend by date number 6...(that should be next week)...or maybe not LOL. I will stick with Gotcha for this week though.

On another note, I'm thinking of buying the UN Gotcha with a Pink scent or another perfume I like. I'm not too keen on the Honeyed scent and my date whom I'll call HL (for Honey Love...lol) has not mentioned anything about liking the scent on me, and he seems like the type who would. I've definitely gotten complements on the scent of Cougar (which I love myself)...hmmmm

Is there a non-pheroed scent that smells like Cougar or the OCCO Pink?

Well...well...well. All I have to say is that I LOOOOVED our date with Gotcha! We get along very well anyway, but we just connected on a more deeper level, more coupley, more future focused. I'm having such a great time...but with this I did notice that it seemed like I said more (personal stuff) than I wanted to say (oops ) him too but all in all. I can see why they call "Gotcha!", gotcha...you do reel em in, and you seem to move closer to the other person too!

Ok, I'm going to try Gotcha with him and I will report back in a few days. This should be fun!

Ok, need some advice. I have been on a couple dates with this guy where I have worn Velvet Kisses with Cuddle Bunny. My date has responded EXTREMELY well to this. I am having so much fun with him and it's like he loves the EST. The energy between us just flows so well and naturally and he has been extremely gentlemanly and has already started to do me favors etc.

Here's the thing, I want us to get closer, but I don't want to spoil the good thing we have. Should I wear the Cuddle Bunny blend on a few more dates then switch to a scent with Gotcha maybe by the 5th date to get him used to associating me with all the things the EST/Cuddle Bunny brings out? I do want us to transition to a deeper connection and him to really see me as a long term possibility (if I want us to go that route). Advice? I do like him catering to me and wanting to spoil me and do me favors.

thanks, FP. And did you use the scented or UN LFM, please?

Scented.

Hi Blanche, 2 swipes in the cleavage area. A swipe under each breast (good for heat activation), a dot behind both ears.

Oh warm kissed choco-latte Cuddle Bunny how do I love thee...:-) What a joy it was wearing this. I wore this to work and on a first date. I am not sure where I liked the results best!! Let me just say that the scent is "cholatey-delicous" (yes, I was a child in the 80's if you guys remember that commercial LOL). Good for the foodies, vanilla came out muuuuuuuuch later.

On to the Cuddle Bunny...my female coworkers were oh so sweet and cool. Reminded me of the Golden Girls theme song "Thank you for being a friend"...my boss was totally accommodating (I'm going to wear this when I ask for a raise!!), I felt so good and mellow and comfortable. Now I did not feel sexy like with Cougar or glamorous like with LFM, but I felt warm and cozy and just like life was good to me...I like that feeling.

Now on to the BANG...my first date. My date was soooo comfortable, we laughed, we got on very well. Everything just felt so dang on comfortable, and he was definitely chivalrous and is already talking about all the things he wants to do for me, gifts, how he wants to dote on me, a taking care of people in general, even offered to carry my purse (lest I not strain my wrists LOL). I really enjoyed wearing this. The selfies are second only to Cougar.

Welp...today is the day when I become a solid LFM fan and believer. I have tried my scented sample many times before and received good respect hits but no attraction noticable hits or instances of women looking up to me (now that happened first time out with Cougar- the women wanting to be like me thingy)...until today WHEN I FINALLY FOUND MY SWEET SPOT...on me LFM has a sneak up on ya (and others) effect. Most of my life, when receiving compliments from other women there was usually a mix of envy or jealousy. Wearing LFM the compliments are more like the other women want to wear what I'm wearing/look how I'm looking, without any negativity on their part. Its very nice. I also get that people seem to want to please me or what to give me what I want...but not in a dominant way...more in a softer way...but not in a way that they are babying me...if you get my drift. I doubt that I will be without a bottle (or a blend) of this or the Cougar potion.

Me no likey this fragrance. My 1st one that didn't smell utterly scrumptious on me from LPMP. On me it's very 70's cultural festival, incensey on me. I do better with elegant florals and sugars (and some chocolates). Its too bad because I LOVE Open Windows.

Ok. Thank you StacyK. That's my next order. I cannot get enough of this scent. Just beautiful!! Hats off to you Mara. This scent should be permanent. ???

Received the sample of this that I ordered. I think the scent on me is just meh. 6 hours later and all I smell is APRICOT APRICOT APRICOT lol. Never really smelled the Patch on me. This is my first time using a scent with Gotcha. Have yet to test around male species LOL. Will report back.

I received a sample of this and all I can say is WOW!! This is some of the best smelling stuff I ever!! Love!! I am still pretty new. I need to ask the forum experts if it is possible to get a non PE scent like this enhanced with a UN Phero of your choice? Mara?

Hi Witty Kitty! Yes, that was the vibe respectful ;-) I think I'm going to start using 1 word kind of descriptions to describe each phero. That will help me to learn them well

Ok, this is now my favorite PE scent HANDS DOWN. I am new to the phero world but this Cougar Potion rocks!! I went to an event and I was not only the center of attention, like a rock star, but the women weren't jealous, they were all friendly too!! I usually get some envy off of women, but NOPE. This also seemed to draw the handsome men like a moth to a flame...wooo!! I can also say that certain people who weren't friendly to me in the past, were friendly to my surprise today. I absolutely adore this. It was very warm outside so I have finally witnessed PE scent in cooler temps vs. warmer. HUGE DIFFERENCE. This will be my first full bottle purchase!!

 

Self effects, I felt happy, upbeat, bubbly and sexy. It lasted about 8 hours even through the heat. I love this!!

I love the scent by the way!! The citrus scent is just the best! I can see this becoming my signature perfume :-)

Ok, this is now my favorite PE scent HANDS DOWN. I am new to the phero world but this Cougar Potion rocks!! I went to an event and I was not only the center of attention, like a rock star, but the women weren't jealous, they were all friendly too!! I usually get some envy off of women, but NOPE. This also seemed to draw the handsome men like a moth to a flame...wooo!! I can also say that certain people who weren't friendly to me in the past, were friendly to my surprise today. I absolutely adore this. It was very warm outside so I have finally witnessed PE scent in cooler temps vs. warmer. HUGE DIFFERENCE. This will be my first full bottle purchase!!

Self effects, I felt happy, upbeat, bubbly and sexy. It lasted about 8 hours even through the heat. I love this!!

StacyK you are the best! Thank you for sharing your story and good advice. I think after almost 1 week, I'm finally starting to understand LFM. The selfies are phenomenal and lasting! I think too since I've been wearing the scent around the same people for the past week, it's having a cumulative effect on them. They have been seeing me as someone to look up to...my accomplishments- what they want to aspire to do, and be like, and have been coming to me for advice these past couple of days. I didn't think about it until it happened with the 3rd person today...then I was like...wait a minute. I also ran into someone today who previously was always kind of condescending to me, and today it was like she was intimidated by me (in a respectful manner, not fear), that was fun!! I guess each person's experience with each phero is different. All in all, I enjoyed this LFM week. I will take a 18 hour break (I do have an important function so I can't quit entirely ) but next up is Cougar!! I tried that the other night after a shower for just a little bit and the scent was AMAZING and it made me feel all giddy & sparkly...I think I'm going to have fun with that one.

Yes I keep track how much I apply. I am noting the various levels. This will be my 6th and last day of testing. I will try one last level, but I feel if i go down i may not even smell the fragrance on myself. I have tried more, now I am trying less. Another thing, this fragrance doesn't last as long as some of the others. This is a tester vial by the way StacyK.

Been testing this since last Sat, only took one day off, so that is 4 days of testing. Different scenarios, social, networking, work. I have to say that I haven't really noticed anything significant besides the self-effects. So let me describe those:

La Femme Mystere seems to make me feel very sophisticated, and very empowered at the same time, but not in a "I am women hear me roar" type way, more of a self-assured Jackie O kind of way, a quiet graceful assured confidence. I also wanted to clean more wearing it not sure why LOL. Another thing, I seem to look out for, speak up for myself more wearing this, but again, in a quiet graceful way.

I really haven't seen any noticeable affects wearing it...Maybe I haven't reached my sweet spot yet? Please help this newbie

I've had that reaction a couple of times with Open Windows. Lots of the socials work like that for me, actually. Maybe we just don't expect them to because in contrast to "sexy social", just plain old "social" phero sounds so boring!

 

But honestly, I suspect a lot of dudes are more attracted to whatever kind of aura or charisma we're giving off/projecting than we think they are. We tend to assume that we have to be giving off a more sexual vibe to be really, truly attractive to a dude, when really, sometimes all it takes is a genuine smile or laugh to spark someone's interest. That's my theory anyway, and I'm sticking to it.

Yes! Who knew! Socials can pack a powerful punch.

I think sometimes socials work just as good as the the really sexual pheros. I would get soooo much attention from guys wearing Heart and Soul... More than than the ones loaded with cops.

I think OW is loaded with A-nol, which is a great social, but can make the wearer seem more attractive.

From the website it describes OW: "An all-round social blend which is a winner in giving you the general 'feel-good, look good' magnetic factor that attractive people exude naturally, making people want to talk to and get close to you at every opportunity."

Yes, I was pleasantly surprised hearts. I think it may be a mix of my own pheros, and the OW and the fact that the OW makes other people feel good too, so if he is attracted to me AND feels good in my presence...winner winner chicken dinner I will see him again in a couple of weeks (he has invited me to another networking event), we'll see how that goes. I haven't decided what I will be wearing that day.

So as a pheromone newbie I have a question, do different sexes (the opposite sex) react differently to the PE scents you wear? For example, I wore an Open Windows blend to a seminar, and although the ladies were open and friendly as I expected, there was a young man who could not stop looking at me even though his focus should have been on the person giving the presentation. Now this young man is gorgeous and about 15 years younger than me (although I do look young), and although he is very accomplished, he was extremely nervous speaking with me one on one at the end of the day. It got to be so obvious that I had to remember that I put the Open Windows blend on and was thinking to myself, "is this a hit"...it started happening after we were introduced early in the day.

I am still relatively new to pheromones etc. Is there something in Open Windows that can make someone act this way? Or maybe it's just my personal pheromones

I tried the OCCO Pink for the first time and it felt like I was being ghosted for the first time in my life! I am still relatively young (43) and I have a regular period. I am pretty and I am friendly. I just wore it as an experiment. Hmmmm

Thank you everybody! I think I may dip my little toe into the world of LFM...Thank you StacyK for the LFM suggestions. I will look into them. In the mean time I have another date with a different handsome life-of-the-party type guy, I will be going out with him before my samples arrive. I like your advice Beccah of using the Popularity Potion...oh and you don't have to apologize for how you expressed. That cracked me up!!