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Okay, good. That's what I wanted to know. Intimacy I'm happy with. It's the unnecessary verbal diarrhea that I would like to avoid - those things that should never have been said seem to stick in my mind like stubborn mental burrs. I keep looking at BAm! 'cause I like the tag-line, haha! But I keep shying away from it for fear of that icky 'I can't believe you just said that to me!' possibility. Gives me the emotional willies! Maybe I'll give it a try next time... thanks Luna.

That's so awesome. Thank you for the go-ahead. I enjoyed myself so much last night. I sat there on the couch tee-hee-ing while my boyfriend was playing a video game and wondering what the hell was making me snort and giggle. I just love being here. Great fun!

Excellent. Thank you. I felt so good reading that journal, it had me itching to read more. Good stuff! Thanks Luna!

Okay, one other thing that's been nagging me is this 'truth serum' effect of beta-androstenol. Now I understand that in higher dosages is can have this effect, hence, I have absolutely *no* interest in trying True Confessions or TMI - people tell me too much secret crap already for some reason, and most of the time it's stuff I didn't need or want to know. No need to prompt any more secret-telling. But is it likely to have this same effect in other blends, like say, BAM, or Perfect Match? 'Cause during sex or a lovely afternoon out is not the time/place that I would want to hear unsolicited 'secrets'. No thanks. Can anyone elaborate futher the effects of beta-androstenol in the more sexual/lovey-dovey blends? I mean, does it just make for a more open atmosphere? Or will I have to contend with hearing a running commentary of things better left unsaid? I'm very curious.

Am I allowed to read people's journals? I think I recall (maybe Dolly) saying that I could read them, but I can't recall clearly, and I don't want to cross any privacy barriers. Having said that, my curiosity did get the better of me, and I read one entry from Mara's musings - my thinking being that the journals of LP's 'fearless leader' might be more public than most. It was the one back in May of 2011, and the conversation revolved around flat-breasted & chesty women & media messages... I've got to say, I was hooked! I couldn't bring myself to stop reading! I really hope that that's okay. If not, if the journals are meant to be read by invitation only, I apologize Mara. But I was so intrigued and entertained and cheered by what everyone wrote that about an eighth of the way in, I was glued. I didn't *want* to stop reading. That conversation demonstrated so clearly what a unique forum this is, and what a wonderful, unique, interesting, caring bunch of women I've stumbled upon. Opposing opinions were presented with respect, then countered and recountered the same thoughtful way. I really want to say that I was impressed with the kindness everyone showed, (and consistently shows, from what I can see), for it makes LP a relaxed and welcoming kind of place where each individual is welcome to be herself. Or his self, as the case may be. Not only that, but I laughed myself stupid, too. And laughing one's self stupid is never a bad thing. It made me feel great, and very lucky to have happened upon this little community, and I would like to read more - if that's okay.

I'm so glad I've made some good choices. The next few weeks are going to suck while I wait for them! I'm way too excited - I have to find some things to distract myself, but I don't know what can possibly distract me now. Crookedteeth, I like your picture! S'cute!

I hope so! I had trouble narrowing it down to a 'reasonable', affordable order. I so wanted to order a sampler of LAM & a few others - especially some of the perfume scents, but that stuff will have to wait until next time. But for the moment, I just can't wait until I can test-drive some of these! Unfortunately, they'll probably be arriving somewhere around the time that my schedule picks up at work.

Hi everybody! Skye, I wanted to get Lumina, too but maybe I missed the sample? After reading the reviews for that one I'm itching to try it... Halo, I wound up getting: Garland & Lace Portmanteau Darling Clementine Passion in PInk Rocket Fuel Extra-Curricular Proclivities Far, Far Away Cuddle Bunny 2009 Cougar Potion Phero Girl Sexology Detective and the Dame and Cops and Robbers There are so many I want to try! It was tough to narrow it down. I decided in the end to go for all the phero perfumes. For the most part I tried to stick to the recommendations everyone gave.. I picked a few for me, like Passion in Pink, (because I love that little dog!), but for the most part, I just wanted a nice, rounded sampler, so I can at least get an idea of what will work. The only one I missed was Dangerous Games, but that's okay, because I think the 'dominance ' facotor might not be good in my situation. But I might try it next time... just for curiosity's sake. I hope I made some good choices. I tried to read as many reviews as I could before I made any hard and fast decisions, but it made it even more difficult to choose because everything souonds really awesome! But I think that reading what everyone has had to say about all the different phero blends has given me a better idea of what I might expect. I really can't wait to try everything out. It'll be tough to decide which to try first when I get my package. I honestly expected to feel guilty for being such a shady lady, ordering everything in secret, but I don't. I feel like I might have just done something really good for myself, and for my relationship with my boyfriend. I'm not exactly the most patient person, so I'll try to refrain from driving everyone batty while I wait the excruciating wait! Lol!

Yay! I finally made my order, you'll be happy to know! I know: FINALLY! And I did pretty much get everything I wanted to get. Almost. A few things just weren't feasible at the moment... But they will be next month! LOL! I figure that if I find something that I really like, in a scent that I like, that I can probably order a full sized one next time. Being practical, I went through my list and eliminated stuff that isn't available in full-sizes anymore. I hope I caught them all! Anyway, I feel good now that I've just done it. I've got some stuff on the way, and my little computer/tablet thingy to keep track of my results, you people to blab to and ask crazy questions of... I'm all set. Now there are only to things to worry about: who gets to the door first when the postie arrives with my package, and the long, long wait. Oh! And whether or not it all works for me. And him. I am a list person too, Missdarlycherie. Lists for everything. And Luna, I'm such a nerd I even keep a little diary for my skin care stuff! I seriously need help! Lol! Anyway, thanks to everyone for being so patient and helpful. You have no idea how much I appreciate the help and kind words. And the humour, too. ;-)

God I hate my computer's browser sometimes... it shuts down at random. And constantly... Grr... Miss Darlyncherie, please wish me luck. I'm a big muller, I know. I'm giving myself a headache! Raq On, hi there! Yours was teh very first post I read here when I came as a visitor! I decded to make my list a little smaller, but not by much. My boyfriend and I work in restaurants, so our hours are kind of wonky, and he's also in three different bands, so we don't always know when we'll both be home at the same time. Hence the monster order. I won't necessarily be able to test anything days in a row, (unfortunately), but it'll be kind of nice knowing that I have a few things in the arsenal to choose from when the time is right. I'm very *linear* though, so chances are that with him at least, I will only be trying one or possibly two a week. Mostly because I want to know more accurately what reactions of his are attributable to which blend. I will probably take notes. Lol! And no, I'm not kidding. I am a huge nerd.

Thanks Luna. It's tough to make such big decisions with limited funds! (Come on Jackpot!) The reason I'd thought about the TR spray (Rainbow Mountain Happy Place, or whatevre it's called!), is because I was reading so many reviews of these other blends and started thinking that maybe it might not be as one-dimensional as it is in my messy, messy head, and maybe it wouldn't be a bad idea to pay some attention to these other areas as well. *sigh* decisions, decisions. I don't know why I'm so worried about it. I go back to work on WEdnesday!

Hehe... Luna, you are so naughty! Would it be better to go for the roll-on? Or would the a-nol just help him think I'm perty? Lol! This is the last thing I'm deciding on. I think. I hope! As soon as it's decided, I'm taking the plunge, signing my paycheck away!

Cool. Gotcha. Take care! :-)

Funny you should suggest a full bottle of TH, Dolly. I was actually thinking about it. I might just wind up tacking onto my order. What's it called in spray form again,? Rainbow Falls? I was sort of on the fence about it. I keep worrying that it would have the opposite effect on him! That would be my luck....

Okay. Thanks Mara. I never really noticed, nor do I remember if there's a spot for my real name on my Profile page. I've been too excited looking around here and compiling my shopping list to really take a good look at it! I'm gonna go look now. Thanks for responding so quickly. I didn't expect to hear from anyone until Monday, and was kicking myself for not having asked sooner! Cheers! Have a great weekend! Gah! Sorry to bug you again. I've edited to ask how I contact you by email if I need to? Do I need to contact you when I place my order, to let you know who I am, (aside from being a mildly-obssessed crazy person)? Or is that just if you contact me by email? Sorry. So many questions. I'll catch on soon...

Okay, I just found where my email address is listed. My gmail account is the one here. But I stlll have the problem of my PayPal account being associated with my hotmal account. Do I have to change my PayPal to gmail then? I'd really rather not, because there are so many places I use my PayPal for that are hooked up to hotmail. I'd rather keep it the way it is. Is it still possible to order? Again, I wouldn't mind at all if I had to forward my hotmail address to someone. Or if I could post it somewhere on my Profile page, I would do that as well. I'm editng to add that if it is only being able to contact me that is the issue, BOTH gmail and hotmail accounts are active and checked daily.

Thank you BlueBear! It's nice to be here!

I just read the post about updating my email address, but when I went to do it, there isn't really a spot for the one I used to join this site, (which was my gmail account), and I don't know if this will complicate things, but the email address tied to my PayPal account is a hotmail address. I know nobody's keen on hotmail these days, but it's an old, old, old address that's associated with many accounts. I would have used it here, too, except that the LP site wouldn't let me use it, (with good reason, I'm sure). So when I make an order, how do I make sure that you have my contact info, and that my payment goes through properly? I'd be happy to PM my addresses if I knew where to send them. Or could I use one of the slots on my profile page for an address that doesn't necessarily go with the slot title?

Yeah, I kind of thought that, too. At least, I hope that's what it is!

Hiya Calii, I think I"m going to place my order tonight. My boyfriend has a jam session with one of his bands tonight, so he'll be out of the house. Just a few more hours of fretting, and then I'm ordering.

Okay. Thank you Luna. No matter what I wind up buying, I intend to start out just as you said: try the cops first. Don't wear 'em outta the house. Start slowly so I can figure out which pheromone is doing what. I'm so excited,/nervous/anxious that I'm almost tempted to increase my shipping so it might get here faster, and I can just get the first couple of experiments out of the way! I'm way too nervous about trying this stuff. Things have been a little 'off' between us lately. Not bad, just 'off', 'cause I think he's going through some kind of transition, (ie., last night he dyed his hair blue), and I'm a bit afraid that experimenting like this might exacerbate things. But I'm also so excited at the prospect that this could help that I just want to TRY it already! Lol! I'm not very patient, can you tell???

Hello Skye, I have a serious perfume addiction, too. Although for once it'll be nice to have someone else make the perfume, (those raw materials are expensive - especially a lot of the sexier smelling once), and I'm waging that no matter what I decide to get here, it will smell infinitely more rounded than ones I make myself. I was looking on the Trading Post yesterday. Perhaps today I"ll look around a little more... As for shipping right to my door, part of me says 'YAY!!!' and part of me is thinking 'God, I hope Ryan's at work when they arrive!' At least they're all samples, so he'll have no idea how much I actually spent. Lol!

Gah! I'm going to give myself a coronary. It's so tough to decide which route to take. I'm torn about which would be better: buying a whole bunch of samples, or buying a few less samples and some wax melt things with Treasured Hearts, Pefrect Match and NOX+b2, to encourage the things they encourage in our home. I'm really heartbroken that Treasured Hearts is not available in a trial size, that's why I thought maybe the melty things would be a good idea. I like that it encourages a 'nesting vibe'. The boyfriend is still young, still wanting to stay out and party until 5 am, and I am so not in that space right now, (I'm *so* done with that 5am 'walk of shame'), it would be nice to have something helping him get more settled, maybe help us meet in the middle a bit more. Any thoughts? I suppose I could sell any scents that I wasn't keen on, or which didn't work - but I"m like you Missdarlyncherie: too lazy to make it to the post office! Luna, your thoughts were my thoughts: if I were to order the whole slew at once, I could figure out PDQ which ones would be worth ordering full-sized. Do you think four uses will be enough to make that determination?

...but Dolly, did you get them all at once? Is 20 not a little excessive for a first timer? I'm just so eager to try some pheremone blends that I can hardly sit still! I might wind up shrinking my order to 10, just to make it more manageable, but having to choose between them really sucks. Haha! We'll see... I may just go the whole hog and get all 20. Anyone know if they'd be delivered straight to my door if I live in Canada? 'Cause that might be bad, in terms of the boyfriend being witness to a large package of perfumes arriving at the door... yikes! Funny too though; he won't know what hit him! And.... how long can I expect to get out of sample containers? Is there enough there to get a few uses out of them, to get a better idea about which blends will work with him, and with me?

I am in trouble! 10 new perfumes every month sounds freaking awesome to me. And l'il sniffies? I saw that all of you ladies were talking about getting l'il freebies in your bags. How cool is that? The ladies running this joint are pretty generous, huh? I am extremely torn. I am *so* wanting to order some samples... I just may wind up doing it by the end of the day... I have a big knot in my tummy about spending the money, but got up a little early this morning, to put my 'extra' money in the bank for PayPal, lol! I feel the sickness setting in... Oh no! What to do, what to do?