Shelly B

Not enough time has elapsed...the subscriptions haven't even gone out yet!

Sighs. Fooey. Even Ail and Dolly didn't get something a leeetttttlllleee sample?

I know I know - I have no patience. I'm an Aries. Majorly. Shrugs.

Ok y'all -

Dying to hear if any of you have road tested any of the new phero's yet?

I held off ordering until Stone Cougar and Open Windows went live - so no goodies yet.

But someone must have caved, ordered and received Woozy Floozy or LAM by now?

Pretty puleeze write a review?

Wouldn't that hurt? I mean, I'm all for exfoliation, but...

Well thank God I didn't have coffee in my mouth when I read that. That would have had unfortunate consequences for the monitor.

giggling - a lot.

Visualizes my sugar scrub in the shower. Ouchie!

giggles again.

Run kitty! Run!

We're filling the new orders now still, email and we can change things, it's ok.

 

The choice of base (to ME) has a lot to do with HOW you wear it.

 

Personally, I prefer the OIL base. The way I personally wear scents, the oil is the longest lasting, even with the pheros. (And the scientists/gurus have relaxed my initial fears about absorption into my skin, so...) And I know I have said this a bazillion times, so bear with me, but with oil based perfumes, and pheros, the best way to wear them is at the hottest parts of your body.

 

I roll my perfumes, and pheros, from my navel to my cleavage several times. Then I smush them around my torso with my wrists, then rub my wrists on the back of my neck. I put my shirt and bra on BEFORE the oil is completely absorbed/dry, so a little bit ends up on my clothes.

 

This way, I get a fabulous CLOUD of scent around me every time my body heats up a little during the day, and the scent lasts on my clothes forever, without any staining.

 

If you wear scents on your wrists and hands - there's not much heat there. The diffusion is better with alcohol based products. But if you wear scents where your core temp rises and falls with your emotions - that's a key thing - you diffuse when it's NATURAL to diffuse. You diffuse when it MEANS something.

 

Personally, I would rather the guy who gets me all hot and bothered get the benefit of my chemical messages, rather than just EVERYONE.

So - first of all - good to know about the core body body temp/going up and down stuff. Going to have to use a little more phero's in those spots. When I'm legal to do so. :-) For those times I'm really trying to make CERTAIN I'm going to have that kind of a good time. And generally - for that I whip out the BI - although I do boost the SS4W with a big ol' roll of cops as well.

But- I am a big user of pheros on wrists/hands - where there isn't much heat - because I am a hand talker. And - must admit - do love spreading a phero cloud around. Remember - I'm rockin' Cougar a good share of the time. The whole point for me is to project a whole - dare I say - MILF hotness. So - If I don't have have some hotness floating around in a phero bomb around me - I'm not getting the fun benefits of flirtation.

Giggles madly - rubbing hands - waiting for the Woozy Floozy! <g>

im not sure if your implying its worse with cougar, or worse since surgery...

my SO is jealous for NO reason, and blames me, not whomever.

im not a flirt.

like i said, no reason.

 

this behaviour DOES get old, and we have even separated (in the past) because of it (he gets suspicious of me and he will never know someone more faithful than i).

this is something i hope for you is a passing phase.

sounds like it,

because he wasnt this way before,right?

Hard to say - because I have lost 140 lbs starting 4 yes ago and kept it off for last 3 years.

So - for a long time - I was invisible for lack of a better word. Super morbidly obese means your socially acceptable role is typically limited to the funny fat girl. At better than 300 pounds - he didn't have competition.

I slept on it and remembered the divorce statistics they give you before you choose weight loss surgery. I'd forgotten that many marriages are unable to survive the changes in dynamic.

It's good the subconcious dug up that nugget of info. I'll get on the bariatric support web sites tonight and do some research.

Sorry for being so needy about it yesterday - it's really been bothering me and it was just overwhelming for some reason. Probably because with plastics done and going back to the real world next week- I am anxious for it to not get worse - although all signs point to it getting worse.

Anyway - thanks for listening/letting me vent. :-)

Ok ladies g I hear I'd . Zz

Bumping due despertion. Pls promise I canhelp DH'S head out of his proverbial butt.

 

As right now - I coudn't care less.

 

Wondering?!!!!

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The new Cougar- world changes.

Ok ladies.

Bumping due despertion. Pls promise I canhelp DH'S head out of his proverbial butt.

As right now - I coudn't care less.

Wondering?!!!!

Hehe, I love it! A man stating his territory and all that he sees that needs to be done! Hope you had some fun and can bask in those memories, while you heal. Take care my dear.

Seriously - I wasn't have sure he wasn't going to Neanderthal and drag me out by my hair. :-) Which it would be funny if it was just once. But it wasn't, it's happening a lot now, and he's been acting off the chain jealous. It's become profoundly irritating. Since the arrival of the newly renovated bosoms - I get stared at - a lot. With him there. With him not. It just happens. And now he's getting all p*ssy about it - wanting to know when I'm out on my own if it happened again, how many times, what comments my buddies sent me when the saw the pictures of me post-surgery - (YES - IN MY CLOTHES) - and then gets mad because some of them had quite pithy/funny commentary that he turned out not to like.

And yet - talking to me - mid sentence he goes DIHL - sneaking a peak at them himself. (Again - dressed - incisions not healed and I am not coming out to play with unhealed incisions. GROSS.) I don't mean a little DIHL - I mean - loses complete train of thought and gets the most goofy teenage expression on his face. And can't be brought around to focus on my face even with saying - "Oh for the love of pete. They are called breasts. You've even seen them before. Can you quit acting like such a bobo head already?!"

Honestly - he's majorly on my last nerve at the moment. I don't do possessive that well. I'd much prefer it if he just decided to be charming and sexy and keep my attention in a positive way. This jealous tantrum stuff? That is mega not going to work for me. I'm getting really irritated and I behave badly when I'm this irritated.

Oy vey - this is train wreck just waiting to happen. Cross your fingers it gets better - or the Shelly Family is going to have issues. :-)

I really like CPS and how it helps pheros last longer. With spring coming -heck it's allready warm in NYC!- I'll be happy to use pheroblends with a longer lasting diffusion. It's definitely a big plus for me!

Ok - I ordered in CP this round. I would prefer to do one non-shake application - which I suspect I could do with the DPG BUT I am roadtesting new blends. I didn't want to complicate my observations by switching to a different base at the same time.

And also because of the diffusion is supposedly better with the CP.

But - because I prefer to boost scents I love- when I figure out how the pheros work on me - I'll switch back to doing that - which is pretty much switching vehicles to the DPG.

I travel a lot so it is easier to carry boosted bottles rather than a big bag of them. I had on bottle of SS4W - 3/4 that leaked out into my makeup bag during a 12 hour flight. Which was so wasteful of a phero. Seriously - who needs the baggage handlers having some sort of attraction to a piece of luggage. Eeeuuuuuwwww.

I added almost 1 full ml to mine (after I had used part of one of my bottles)......NSD covers the smell completely......be sure to let it sit overnight before you start slathering, though.....OH, wait.....you have the bottle boosted with BI already, so you already have some cops in it.....I would add maybe half a ml......

 

 

 

SHELLY.....I love the HAM, but I prefer the NSD (of which I have 4 bottles....that should do me for a long time).....I wouldn't let my HAM go on the trading post, but I would let YOU have it, if you want it...it is slightly used.....down about 1/16th of an inch from full......$22 if you so desire......

Ooh. I am in. When I get to a regular connection I request an email trade. I'm on the iPhone now which while so much better wireless web than the bberry - it is still hard to do some tasks with it.

Now remember Shelly, you are our Cougar guru (now that could totally be taken wrong ) SO we expect a full report and comparison on the two products.

 

Handwritten, double spaced with a spritz of pheromones for extra love

Oh - y'all know I am planning on that!!!

Right before the plastic sugery btw - out shopping with DH and the kids. Nothing special on - just sweat shirt and yoga pants. But I had drowned myself in Cougar and HAM. Was feeling anxious about the surgery so wanted to perk myself up.

Anyway- TWO different 20 something year old puppies stopped to check me out and try to flirt with me in front of the DH. Who got pissed off in a major way at them. And while he was pissed, pulled me aside to tell me whatever I was wearing was making him crazy and if we were home he'd be.... Well -hmmm. I'll settle with telling you it was a very animalistic and uncharacterictic statement from poor afflicted Mr. Shelly.

Stuff like that? So totally why I love love love Cougar.

No worries. I trust y'all. I do. :-)

No sticky wicket for me at least, I tend to be dominant in my every day life, but I really want to find an alpha male that can make me submissive occasionally, if ya know what I mean (luna I'm sure you know what I mean, I've read your stories. ).

Don't look at me - I am listening to raunchiest Kid Rock song ever on the I-pods wishing the TIC would drag me off by my hair. Fans self. Hard.

Oh crap... Was that my outside voice? Fans self again? Repeatedly.

Did I say repeatedly? Going now....

Shelly, try adding some extra EoW to the bottle of BI boosted NSD....trust me on this one....it takes it to the next level....

I can do that - bottle and a third of EOW left. How much per bottle dear one?

Well - I will say I prefer original HAM to this. And I'm down to the nubbin's on the four bottles of HAM that I scored. But that said - I get tons of compliments on this one. And an hour after application - I am SMOKIN' hot.

Course - I had two bottles made with a BI Load so that has something to do with it. <wicked grin>

But - with an extra dash of sugared honeycomb - this is is AMAZING. I really like more honey than in the base bottle. But once again - My Name is Shelly B. And I - I am a Honey Ho.

Mara, Danna, Dolly or Ail -

Could one of you tell us if there are a lot of differences in the two blends?

Have a Stone one on order and will be happy to road against the older version - but I didn't see a blend listing so am not sure how different to expect them to be.

But I have an event coming up where I want to be truly mind boggling intoxicating so I'm curious for any guidance you can give me? I loved the old Cougar so I'm sure I'll love the new one as well.

Best,

Dolly, awesome report. In fact it's so good I'm goin to have to read through it again.

Hey Countess - what gives with the hot CFO? Nosy people - ummmm - I mean Inquiring Minds - want to know. Yeah - like me.

Come on - I haven't been unleashed back on the world fully yet - so I need a little vicarious fun.

I will say - I sent out the post-surgery pics (YES - with clothes on - I'm not that NAUGHTY.) to my good friends. And everyone has been YOWZA on the Breast Lift results. Seriously - I can't go anywhere without men sneaking peeks - with kids and the DH or NOT.

One of my dearest old friends - a man - but who I have the most open/honest/funny friendship with - sent back a note which I can paraphrase by saying -" Ummm- what do you think the first TWO things I noticed were in your pics? Holy Crap Girl. You are every teenaged boy's MILF Fantasy with those things. And you may never get a speeding ticket again."

Stuff like that? Yeah - why I love him. I've told ya'll before - I'm just a guy with hooters. So I can totally appreciate the honest appreciation. Even if nothing - and good God I mean nothing - will ever happen with him. He says all the things my gay friends would say to me - but he is straight. Does that make any sense?

Now - to turn the newly fab bosoms lose on the world in a cloud of pheros and a push up bra. BBBBBWWWWWAAAAHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAA! Can't stinkin' WAIT!

Let the games begin, ya'll!

Rowdy Raunchy & Rude sounds like it was made for ME! I fit the description!

Me too Chiquita! But I put a HUGE order in yesterday of pheros so I can't sneak this one into the pile.

When you get some - report back if you are still feeling the love. :-) If you like it - I almost always do. Honeyed Seductions being a notable exception as violet goes HEINOUS on me.

P-yuck.

It encourages affection in general between females, but that doesn't mean that OMG A GIRL IS GOING TO THROW HERSELF AT YOU just like if you put on a mix to attract a guy he's going to jump you (unless he already wants to, at least somewhat). Really, I think it's got some nice self-effects and that's why I'd recommend if to anyone. Personally, if another female did come on to me then I might consider it very effective, heh, but I'm not giving off that vibe (unless you're Gina Torres, mmmm).

Shelly needs to google image Gina Torres. :-)How did I miss this thread?! Too funny.

Anyway - echoing the warm spicy woody goodness. One of my favorite recent releases - great scent for the office as the team is mostly women. Probably going to get full bottle.

Oh Shelly I know what you mean. I wish my crush found me mouth-wateringly, knee shakingly, mind-bogglingly sexy. Oh yes I do. <sigh>

 

Although I can always dream that he already does think that way about me......

CM - if either of them don't think that already - they are SORRY excuses 4 men.

Just sayin'

For the love of God and all that's Holy, I need my April descriptions and pheros!!! Okay, that's over, I'll go back to ...

I'll third that!!!

Seriously - I have a flirt target. :-). Need to know ingredients in Stone Cougar so I know whether I have to hoard my Pharmacom Cougar.

Because I need to be Hotness Personified when I see him again. ;-). It's going to be no fun if I'm not floating in a mouth-watering, knee shaking, mind- boggling cloud of S-E-X-Y.

I know who my hot CFO is. And to paraphrase an awesome rock song - I want him to want me. It can't exist outside of the mind - but imagination is a wonderful thing.

Fans self. Repeatedly.

M & D - please put us out of our misery. Pretty please with sugar on top.

Thanks soooooo much for the input! I love that you all have the mone experience/knowlege that I don't and are glad to share... Please, keep it up!

Esp with all the new blends coming... I'm dying to get my hands on Tranq and Focus (no, really) and Ail's brews sound truly amazing... will prob get one of each NR, I'll admit... and already have a slew of questions about them all! I just hope enough of my curiosities are brought up so I dont feel like a persistent phero-pesterer (say THAT 10X fast:))

 

Speaking of dying, that'll prob be my mnemonic for the 'PMS-killers', having 'die' in the name. I loves my -nols , be they happy, hyper, chillers or PMS-killers...hehe

ETA: a HUGE from me too on a PMS protection potion!!!!!

Allright now

Pheropester away! How are we ever going to learn if we don't ask questions? Dolly and Ail have been at this for 7 plus years. We are just phero newborns in comparison.

It's nice they are this patient with us. :-)

I am dying to get my mitts on Woozy Floozy. I am really hoping for fun self effects.

Ail - if you could come up with a P.M.S. Reduction phero - Mr. Shelly would be grateful.

He laughed rather too hard at the "N.A.S.A. Research" bit in Ron White's Behavioral Problems special on comedy central. It is rude to women but hysterical nonetheless. It's on iTunes if anyone is interested. I am certainly not going to repeat it here as some of you might not speak to me again.

So for heaven's sake don't listen if you are easily offended. :-)

I'm not but then most all my friends growing up were boys. So yes, I was raised with wolves. (g)

Very true. Though I am beginning to feel like Pavlov's dog.

Me too!!! I keep wondering what d*mn lever I have to press to get some kibble to fall from heaven. Which sux (don't tell my dogs) because really I identify more with cats and they would have told Pavlov where he could stick his kibble.

Just sayin'.

Dolly dearest-

Planning is a *good* thing. And you are using your pheropowers for the right reasons.

To paraphrase- you are trying to create a weekend of phenomenal sex, bonding, closeness and communication.

And in need to distill to an admittedly big simplification - done right - you both end the weekend with great memories and hopefully in a stronger relationship.

I know some people see Pheros as manipulative but I don't see much difference between the types of things most people do to up their odds. In example- I have a pair of fiercely dominent looking black shoes. I don't wear them to work unless I have to unleash General Shelly on someone. They reinforce the message I am sending the same way nicer makeup and a push up bra do on a nice evening with the DH.

Personally - I just try to make sure the pherocloud is congruent with intent so it's not much different than choosing the right earrings and handbag.

Maybe I am a phero apologist - but I really don't understand why some people get tweaked about using them.