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Oh fuck that. I don't even want to talk to anyone on the phone at all after 5. Not even family or friends. It's too much work. I taught my mom how to text because I don't want to listen to everything she just saw on las noticias.

Word. I have "Do Not Disturb" set on my phone from 9 pm- 9 am. Everyone knows to text me if there's an emergency. My down time is as much for everyone else's well being as it is for mine

At the verrrrrry top of your screen, on the right hand side under the black bar that should have your user name and the sign out button on it, there's the search box. As a fellow forum newbie, I had a hard time finding it too, I thought I must be nuts because I'd never seen a forum that didn't have a search feature and I saw posts referring to it but could not find the thing for love or money. It's sneaky like a ninja but it's up there, and if you click the little gray box you can choose to search different places (like just in the same topic you're viewing, or the overall forums). If you remember any of the words in the title of the thread you're looking for, that should point you in the right direction. Hope that helps!

Edited to add: This isn't a thread, but an article in the Reading Room that I found very helpful on the same subject!

I'm always stressed about this sale….LOL

This is my first time and I'm biting my nails...it doesn't help that the "elf" looks like my dad's cat. And that cat is the only cat I've ever met who didn't like me. I made a perhaps uncharitable remark about petting her feeling like petting a leather handbag the first time we met and she's NEVER forgiven me. It's all dirty looks and snubbing.

Oh my goodness, you ladies are gorgeous! And those are some freakin' adorable kids too (both furry and non-furry)! Amazing work Mara!

Aw thank you, I love the picture too! Not my kitty, alas, it's a public domain picture I received in a pack of them but it just makes me melt to look at it. And the furbaby is also way cuter than I am, so it's all win for everybody! LOL!

Oh lordy, I need someone to sit on me to stop me from ordering. I'm trying so hard to be good and wait. I'm absolutely certain I want trial vials of Compromising Positions, Beth's Blushing Milkmaid, OCCO White, LAM (not sure which scent yet). I also want Sugared Honeycomb in the worst way, but not sure whether to be smart and trial vial first or just take the plunge for the full size. I'm tellin' you, that one has all the vowels of my name in it, IT'S A SIGN

Thanks so much for the tips!

Having done more reading, I'm a little scared of trying BAM, I think because I've never had trouble getting people to open up to me and I'm scared what I'd unleash if I added beta-androstenol to whatever vibes I'm already putting out. For that reason I think I'm leaning more towards sampling LAM. Maybe I will be able to muster some courage in the future. I just have this horrible mental image of my man developing a bad case of "diarrhea of the mouth" and making me want to stab him with a fork instead of fork him.

Thank you all for the welcome!

Lovestruck I have been doing a LOT of reading on here, and it's definitely complicated, believe me I do think so! I'm starting to recognize what phero does what by name, but I'm still absolutely clueless as to how they play together. I'm so grateful that there are all these scented blends already made, because if I had to piece it all together myself, it would never happen.

Welcome!

Make yourself at home - as fellow enablers, you will find no judgment here, only encouragement

So this is not the place to look for snide comments about how I surely have enough smellies, huh? I don't have anyone offline who understands my scent promiscuity so I very much appreciate the encouragement!

Thanks for all the advice! I'm taking notes!

It's actually because of reading Dolly's great explanation about what cops do that I thought adding pheros too might be overkill in our situation. I'm trying to keep this rated PG and not go too deep into TMI territory, but I'd like to see him be more aggressive and initiate a little more often, rather than only being that way when I'm fertile, ya know? And of course we've talked about it, but when he pushes himself to be that way more often just to please me but he's not really "feeling it," I can tell (it's like he's trying too hard, if that makes sense?), and that sucks the fun out of it for me. I'm hoping that something here can help him "feel it" more so when the effort is made, it's NOT such an effort, if that makes any sense? Do y'all think that is a reasonable expectation or am I expecting too much from this stuff? I just want to make sure I'm being realistic.

I am going to avoid buying anything unscented until I've tried some of the blends out so I can figure out what works for us, but based on your posts I am thinking a trial vial of Compromising Positions is definitely making the cut, and OCCO White has been at the top of the list since I started making one (triple vanilla?? SQUEE!)

I need to go read the LAM/BAM thread, that is one I've been puzzling over. I don't think I'm really understanding what the difference is (but I'm having trouble keeping straight what does what, to who!) Sooo much information! My brain hasn't worked this hard since college!

Thanks again for all the input and I'm still open to any suggestions y'all may have, I'm not going to pull the trigger on an order until I see what's going on sale.

Thanks for the warm welcome!

Yessss I did see posts referring to a sale...a spectacular sale...a sale to end all sales...my budget cried when it heard the news

Beach Goddess, thanks for the recs!

That is great advice Amalthea, I've already inadvertently gotten my interest piqued about some scents that are no longer available (I'm lookin' at you, Heart's Ease!) It's amazing how many scents ARE available and how often they're released. It's both exciting and intimidating (ahh no don't tell me stuff goes away?? lol)

What would you wise women (and men) recommend for getting mismatched libidos synched up a little better? I'm the one who'd prefer more intimacy (and I'm female). The only time my man gets pounce-y of his own volition in this department is when I'm ovulating, and that's a verrrry short chunk out of the month Will cops alone encourage more pouncing at the other times of my cycle? Thanks for any advice!

I have been devouring posts on this forum for the past couple of days and thought I should finally register, introduce myself, and hopefully not ask too many stupid questions! I am brand new both to Love Potion scents and to the world of pheromones, period, so as you can imagine I have a lot of questions but I will do my best not to ask things you've already answered a million times. I love b&b and home fragrance and have pretty much been an addict of "all things that smell good" for as long as I can remember. I've been big time into etailers over the past 5 years or so, just getting tired of what's out there on the shelf (a lot of which never seemed to work for me).

Fortunately I have a lot of hobbies, so being forced to spread my income around helps me keep my stash (mostly) manageable But I'm basically a total scent ho, the only note I dislike is licorice and only then if it really stands out. I am currently plotting my very first order here and trying my level best to keep it reasonable in size for a first order, but it's a huge ordeal for me. See, usually when I try a new etailer, I go for their "custom blends" instead of the stock fragrances that I could buy myself and add to anything. That's usually a safe tactic because most seem to only have a handful of "house blends" mixed in with stock frags (nothing wrong with those, but choosing this way pares down my selection process!) So looking at THIS catalog of goodies...well. My trick doesn't work. And I want it all! LOL I can see this is going to be a long term project!

Well thanks for reading, I look forward to getting to know y'all and I appreciate all the great posts I've been reading. I hope to contribute my own reviews once I take the plunge. Any tips for narrowing things down would be appreciated! I am a sucker for anything vanilla, and I've already got my heart set on Sugared Honeycomb because it sounds AWESOME.