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Still Loving LOVING my 2020 Cimaruta collection- However this.....
One day I thought the Cosmos took it away from me, I had gone out to meet a girlfriend for dinner - my idea since I had not seen her in over a year - wore some Mercury and some TMI - we had a serious heart to heart - then the next my little pouch was MIA - I was horrifiied !!! - I went on an search & rescue expedition - no luck- i was just so sad.
Days went by and i tried to understand what the cosmos wanted me to know, was i not giving of myself enough??? well NO not that !!! Did i act carelessly?? maybe, was i a bad girl - NO COMMENT! -
Resolving to be a better self for 2020, my little pouch reappeared .......in a LPMP box next to my bed.
Plus right now I need extra help on the evil eye thing - wow got daggers at my back!!
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Wax Melts???
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18 hours ago, Eastwood22 said:
Um, not sure what you mean. I do have a tendency to buy "extra" of everything, though.
well when it wasn't there i called the store - something i normally wouldn't do and when he mentioned the new release had been posted well........... i got some extra stuff and ...... well...... it's LPMP
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On 12/29/2019 at 3:14 PM, Eastwood22 said:
I've done his many times, patiently waiting for an invoice to appear in my email, when there's been one in my PayPal all along.
did you buy extra???
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Loving, Loving,Loving 2020 Spell Collection!!!!!! I was waiting for a Chrstmas present invoice - I didn't it in my inbox - so I called the Store to ask and he just happened to mention the spell collection just came out a few hours before i called so I needed a new invoice - But- Funny thing was the invoice WAS in my inbox the whole time -
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I wore Treasured Hearts today along with Quarrel Mender Spell 2015. I needed a little extra help with my college aged son, we have had communication problems - Yeah I just get on his nerves like all moms do!!!! I didn't want to irrate him and I didn't want him saying things to me......fair enough??
It was very sucessful lunch. No harsh words, no eye rolling, no sighing .... Thank you Mystic mara!! I did work on my intention before i put this on
I am going to keep this combo handy -
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oh my .... is there a date set for the release? - thinking i really want a set - i missed summer french - feeling regret over that i have to somehow rethink how to purchase and bugets
love the visual aspects
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I feel for you. Do the two of you do anything special - not sex- together? like a hobby ? play cards, cook? music ?
knew about a similar situation - the dad was jealous of the kids but at the same time didn't want to interfer with the nursing and mom time. he just kept doing and saying stuff that wound up ruining the relationship
how about some La Femme Mystere or Levatation - for everyday , I gave my sister Open windows and cougar they worked pretty well
sexpionage or La femme Noire for sex
maybe some TMI to find out what is on his mind
There is a saying - Fear makes you dumb - Love makes you smart I have found this to be very true
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I am still using the "brown background' site.. because I'm still looking at the GGG and sale stuff..... I want to make sure I get what I can while it's still on the site.
I do know that when you click shop blog it comes to the new and very pretty site here.
I do like the colors
adding...Haven't tried the new features here yet
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15 hours ago, Magnanimity said:
what i did wrong?
NOTHING !!!! - You have done nothing wrong. Do you understand how you now believe that, you committed some offense for which you need to be punished/banished ? He has placed this idea in your mind. He criticizes you without really knowing you. He finds objections before there is any evidence.
He admires you then pushes you aside. He speaks sweetly then explodes.
He acts like a gentleman then he assumes the role of a cad.
Do you pick men or attract men who all follow these actions? If so, then I would say maybe you need to find a different path.
But in this case this man - this is all on him. Yes, this is mind games. He wants a certain response and so he tries method A, then Method B - no result = explosion. He goes back to Method A and still no result = he disappears. He tries method C = cut you off. Where are his divorce papers?????
Why can't you meet his family??? Why can't he meet your friends and family?
Can't Even Text?? No 10 minute call ????
It's really hard on our psyches when we like someone like this kind of man.
What about your investment?? So far I don't see any investment or true concernment on his part
my best friend is dealing with something very similar - they did have a relationship but is was the same thing, finding fault, criticizing, exploding temper - she was often wonders what she did wrong too- but it's the same answer NOTHING - you didn't do anything wrong!!
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1 hour ago, Magnanimity said:
He doesn't want to give exact reason , but he wants to excuse himself.
i thought this meant apologize - does it mean break it off??
i think the up/down, in/out, hot/cold is just a operating mode it usually works
Lfm helps people like you but remain respectful
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1 hour ago, quietguy said:
he is going for the intercourse while he knows he has an erection
I agree with this - preformance is at the top of his list - and the big head needs to have the little head make it
ED is heartbreaking and can ruin a relationship if correct action is not taken - and medical checkup is needed
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26 minutes ago, Magnanimity said:
he found many other faults in me. i said i felt same way about you that you don't let me care for you and i feel am nowhere
i find this highly worrisome -
new people are usually more blind to people's faults .... He is telling you it won't work out without saying this.
10 days?? his sister?? no communication??? Very odd
Plus - leaving a lady stranded on a street ???? - what kind of a man or a friend does that ??
a lot of what he is saying probably works on other women -
yes sit back and do NOTHING do stuff with friends and family, make things, read, cook
i think he will call in 10 days LFM - mix it up
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8 hours ago, Potion Master said:
Last night I put them into the sale section of the pattern site and dropped the price.
LuvPotionPerfume.com
foiund thenm purchased several
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Where have Sugared layerables moved to?? they used to be with Fairy Cakes -
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On 10/10/2019 at 8:55 AM, Magnanimity said:
seems frugal on date thing as well.
that is very Capricorn... so thrifty .... so cheap
On 10/10/2019 at 8:55 AM, Magnanimity said:he mentioned he would not think of going for lunch as he is on diet for weight. he needs to do that for job
this!!! this is just selfish - he could have fish, soup, vegetables he doesn't need to order high calorie food - so I'll call him on that
On 10/10/2019 at 8:55 AM, Magnanimity said:i might need to travel towards him
......hhh say What??? so he is testing to see what you will do - here for work again ????
if you already established and he was asking you to come to him that would be different
why are You the squeeze in on the schedule
On 10/10/2019 at 8:55 AM, Magnanimity said:why to make plans we will see as we go and whatever time and situation permits.
avoidant behavior - he can't get close,
when is he coming just to see you??
On 10/10/2019 at 8:55 AM, Magnanimity said:( id not like the idea)
neither do I - what the hell??
On 10/10/2019 at 8:55 AM, Magnanimity said:There is no fixed day and time to meet and no location decided.
hey be a gentleman and make a plan to see the lady ... another avoidant behavior
capricorns are big on respect and reputation - his behavior towards you seems, at times, to be disrespectful
also why doesn't he have his own copy of his divorce papers?? just another nagging tidbit
in the usa divorce papers are public records and can be searched by county
12 hours ago, Magnanimity said:We all are packages and we bring along so much in each relationship. We want to be accepted as we are, so we should have the courage to accept someone else as is.
yes I agree 100% and when you're older we also have kids, stepkids, grandkids, elderly parents, other dependents and our work, our houses and stuff, debt, faults, baggage, unfinished business so it's acceptance ++++
I wonder if you could ask for some references ? you do for work professional and personal references
I am still hoping he'll get over himself
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yes to TMI and Dom and leather
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21 hours ago, Magnanimity said:
He seems less in me for last 2 days. he wishes to discuss what he can give me practically in next one and half year as much going on in his life and total uncertainty. when he is in another town how we will manage is his thought, plus he doesn't like to hurt or spoil my time in any way. And he also doesn't like me to regret later that i didn't go for someone else. (i just fail to understand all these thoughts)
.......... hhhhmmmmm.......
this makes me question what he really means..... seems kinda odd to me - why is he making all these plans?? when you don't know who he is yet- and he doesn't know who you are yet.
I just don't like that he seems to rush in/back off..... rush in/back off -
also finding fault in you- blaming you about phone call thing - that is highly worrisome to me - i do not like that at all
enjoy what he offers - BUT don't invest in him , sit back and see how it goes - don't let him rush you into anything
hoping for the best for you
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22 hours ago, Potion Master said:
the next week, to check the GGG section too, and see what's almost sold out.
I can't make up my mind!!!
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15 hours ago, Magnanimity said:
i sent very caring and soft three texts & the magic happened. He responded texts right away and called
oh my gosh that is so awesome
yes patience & compassion and he misses you and he's cute wet!!!
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19 hours ago, Magnanimity said:
I dont know what you trying to say here?
sometimes I feel frustrated
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8 hours ago, Magnanimity said:
After ages i liked one man,
I know exactly what you mean - no they are not perfect - I have been very frustrated...... I realize that being angry just makes them retreat into their shells even more - so I try to remember to have compassion -then i remind myself I am a good woman and deserve good love
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2 hours ago, Magnanimity said:
he called right away and insisted again. When i repeated my thoughts he hung up me. I felt bad
- I feel bad too !!! - hanging up on someone is unCapricorn , they are usually very contained
2 hours ago, Magnanimity said:and then later sent me text that we can forget it, and we shall meet whenever we have ample and leisure time and when we happen to be same city. Though this okay as thought but rude to say at such a time. Suddenly all interest lost and reality hit hard.
Lots of anger in this, lots of frustration too. Just happen to be in same city?? does that mean he won't be making any effort, or you come to him or by chance you meet in neutral territory?? - lost of interest - PANIC and retreat
Yes this was rude
2 hours ago, Magnanimity said:I am going silent on this. I know he might be feeling bad as he was very excited to meet, so was i.
I was looking forward to you seeing him again! yes he will be feeling bad and disappointment.... the come on fast part then completely change course most likely is a pattern on his part ....
I thought he was an introverted INJQRDUL??? what ever that personality thing is.... I don't think he does this at work -
But again this is classic avoidant behavior - HE is Let down so HE needs to retreat
2 hours ago, Magnanimity said:He told me he has temperament had major issues in life and with it with ex and other people.
leo moon ... this is very typical most men do anger as the surface issue - usually it's something else, like fear, shame, pride,panic, but anger is the only emotion they can do and it usually gets some kind of result even if it's negative.
this again makes other people want to avoid him - avoidant behavior again
2 hours ago, Magnanimity said:wish i could but i cant sit and sob, no time. Much to attend.
make sure you give yourself sometime to work through the sadness and disappointment you are feeling don't bottle it up and dont try to stuff it down and yes attend to yourself, your business, your life, your friends,
11 hours ago, Magnanimity said:can i pm you , since i have more developments in the meantime and would like to have your insights?
i am so sorry i wasn't there .... my heart is with you {{{hugs}}}
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1 hour ago, Magnanimity said:
He reveled yesterday on phone, he doesn't want his family to know, at least not in near future as they wont understand his idea of relationship. he doesn't like to get married at all as it binds people, but know what a commitment is. Togetherness and companionship should always be a choice and not a compulsion to go back to same person.
classic avoidant behavior ... and "his idea"' what does that mean??
bind you? - compulsion ?
okay it's still early for any family involvement but don't want them to know is hhhmmm.....
he is a grown man not a high school kid
just like another Cap with Leo moon i know ...
keeping you at a distance
do not project your own fears on to him
1 hour ago, Magnanimity said:I just got a text for another plan change, so i can see more during the day. I wont be going at all , if he wont make quality time and effort.
you can always blame the equinox but don't let him cause you to panic
no fear, no blame, no recriminations, no hysteria
you can always say since this wasn't planned maybe it just isn't the right time
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yes - has been happening for decades !!! the spookiest of all was when we were cleaning out my mom's house for sale. One night a never before seen picture showed up outside on the back porch, on top of a plie - I of other papers I thought my sister found it ... but she had no idea of where it came from. The picture was of My father's Mother, her 2 sisters and their mother - they were all young college /high school age my great grandmother did look old but it was more likely the style
my mother often said things moved - none of us believed her - I thought she was just unorganized .......
Now I know better .... way way way better
I think there is more than one person I think I have about 5