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raydee8_love

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  1. @greenappletart it's not too late  

    15 hours ago, greenappletart said:

    With Dom, you can take control and lay the metaphorical smackdown on them,

    yes this need to be metaphorical - there is a pattern of 'stuff'  my part in the pattern is being afraid of their reaction, being emotionally weak, and a lack of core self esteem. and self image.  All of these elements I have been working on in therapy, which has made it possible for me to even consider getting on top of this. Before, I would just turn off and let old recorded tapes play in my head - well if you were just thinner, smarter, better, organized,  had made a better decision when you were junior high, IF, IF, IF........

    Now I can say, being something other than  a perceived lack  really isn't the issue. The real issue is do I let people take advantage and then blame me?  Do I take blame for things I never did? 

    There has been a change in my reaction in the pattern, which has caused a RUCKUS !!!! They have noticed I dont run off and cry, they noticed that I didn't sit quietly, they noticed that I have some facts and figures.

    They dont like any of this - 

     Leather - have some of that and I just happen to have a TV of something with DOM 

    This will be a change because I normally wear a lot of Heart&Soul, and Levitation 

  2. On 10/9/2020 at 9:38 PM, Potion Master said:

    All orders have shipped. If you didn't get a ship notice, it's because Shopify is glitching.

    Here's a workaround: 

    On your order confirmation email, there is a blue box that says something like VIEW YOUR ORDER

    oh well I didn't see this before - I was hoping to just add to my box, if it was still in the shop.

    Now I will have to use self control and wait for the next billing cycle 

  3. On 10/10/2020 at 1:45 PM, Potion Master said:

     

    I do! And I enjoy them myself, but they sell slowly compared to the sugar so I haven't made any in awhile. But sure, I can make some. What kind of scents do you like?

     

    On 10/10/2020 at 12:20 PM, Midnight Requiem said:

    Mara do you ever make salt-based scrubs? Whenever I use any brand of sugar scrub, a bunch of ants always show up to try to get in on the party. 😂

     

    On 10/10/2020 at 3:16 PM, luna65 said:

    Not to horn it (but sure, okay, I'm totally horning in) but can I just say that the Lime Margarita salt scrub you made a couple years back (I think?) was totally awesome. :001_302:

     I will try a couple of  salt scrubs - lime is good, also coconut, pomegranate & blueberry or  &raspberry or & strawberry maybe some kind of wake up mint with flowers 

     

    I had a "Famous Department Store Brand of Skin Care" representative  explain to me that older people need to scrub their skin b/c they do not sluff off their old dead skin cells and that is why old people have old people smell, and that is why I needed to buy a jar of the famous department store brand of skin scrub - so of course I did - the result?? meh scrubshemub......

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