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Frida's Lotus

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  1. Thanks all! I haven't tried anything yet, but I'm still searching!
  2. Hi everyone, I'm just curious if anyone knows of any good pheros for men (either to wear or smell on their woman) that might calm down intense anxiety and panic attacks. I know pheros aren't miracle workers (and I'm just about to order Balm Bomb) but wondered if there was anything else I might be looking at-- any experiences and advice much appreciated! Many thanks!
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    Weird question about womaniser best friends to boyfriends!

    Hi all, sorry its taken me so long to reply-- I'm just coming up for air now. It actually went really well. I took the majority-rules advice on here and wore Cougar. The friend was awesome to me all night, and told me he thought I looked great and he told me that he told my BF not to "screw it up" (although my BF swears that he never said that to him?!) At the end of the night he gave me a huge hug-- so I think I have his approval. My BF reacted really well to Cougar as well (he reacts beautifully to Gotcha, but not so much to LACE or PM). Weirdly though, my band (all men) were all irritable and touchy all night (with the exception of my bassist who was weirdly flirty) -- the guitarist was actually a bit agro and rude with me-- so strange. Ah men, lovely but downright confusing at the best of times!
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    Weird question about womaniser best friends to boyfriends!

    Thanks all-- I don't care what he thinks at the end of the day, (and hopefully my BF doesn't either) but I've learned a lot lately about what men think about managing impressions and status and all that bullshit. If he doesn't like me, screw him, but yes, it would make things easier if he did!
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    To a concert? Which phero?

    I wore BANG! and it was awesome-- so many eyes on us that night, we had a blast! Thanks for all the advice beautiful people!
  6. Hi all- first off, I just want to say how amazing all of your advice has been up to this point with my foray into pheros-- I've truly appreciated all the help and insight into the magic of these beautiful tools! Well the saga continues-- I am meeting my now-boyfriend's best friend this weekend. This best friend to my boyfriend is a bit of a piece of work-- he only dates models-- has been trying to hook my boyfriend (before we were "exclusive") up with typically "hot" chicks (especially because I am not my BF's usual "type"). In a way this is a good thing as it made my BF realise he doesn't want to be with anyone else but me... BUT.... The best friend, let's call him Plonk, is highly judgmental of women on their looks. I'd like to cast a bit of a glamour over him when I meet him (he's potentially even coming to a performance I'm in) and have him intrigued, find me having a certain something, and not just straight away judging the fact that I'm not a model (and therefore not thinking I'm good enough for his best friend). Now, I know the usual phero advice is that they can't make anyone feel anything, and I totally get that, so I'm not asking for miracles, but what would you ladies suggest in this situation, what pheros can sway this sort of response? What would you wear to help your lovely boyfriend's best friend give you a chance, help to find you attractive (cause you bloody well are), and not continue to try to hook up your BF with "hot chicks" he meets online?! Thanks ladies and gents, any advice is HUGELY appreciated.
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    To a concert? Which phero?

    Argh now I can't decide between LAM and Bang!-- anyone have an idea which would be better? I rarely wear either around him, I'm usually in Gotcha, but given the concert is a bit special (seeing his fave band), I feel like mixing it up.
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    To a concert? Which phero?

    Thanks all! I'm now thinking Bang! might be the goer since I don't have SS4W sadly! Ah well, next order awaits!
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    To a concert? Which phero?

    Hi all, heading to a concert soon with my romantic interest, and wanted to wear something a bit sexy, exciting and naughty. If you were going to a rock concert with your man, what phero would you wear? I figured the suggestions not to wear copulins out might be different if you were with your man all night-- thoughts? thank you! FL
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    Transitioning from Gotcha to Perfect Match? Any issues?

    Absolutely concur! Really appreciate the responses. I did a bit of an experiment and used gotcha on day one, bang that night (hot!) and day two used perfect match. He responds to gotcha, but not PM or CB. So interesting! I wonder why.....
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    Transitioning from Gotcha to Perfect Match? Any issues?

    I have a 60/40 alcohol dpg gotcha, is normal dosage 3-4 sprays? I usually opt for 3, anyone else have their own dose?
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    Transitioning from Gotcha to Perfect Match? Any issues?

    Sounds yummy, great idea! As always thanks for the fantastic help!
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    Transitioning from Gotcha to Perfect Match? Any issues?

    The other day as I was leaving for work I was wearing totem beaver (with SWS) and he commented on how much he loves the smell "cinnamony" he said, so I'm guessing he responds to spicy scents. Sadly all I have with cops is Tropique which I loooove but he hasn't commented on it, so I'm hoping to change the scent a bit. Are there other cops heavy UN that are similar to gotcha? I guess what is the most similar to gotcha that has cops? I do have topper, love it!
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    Transitioning from Gotcha to Perfect Match? Any issues?

    He seems to respond better to Gotcha than CB... Hmm I wonder what I should use next when he comes over to mine for a few days... Any thoughts on a good phero to wear for a weekend together? Would you mix it up?
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    Transitioning from Gotcha to Perfect Match? Any issues?

    Hahaha we're not quite there yet it's a hot Australian summer and leather somehow doesn't fit!
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