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Okay, i know I know firstly that you cannot create emotions with pheros, and that it is very important to play upon congruent feelings that already exist, which is why I ask for help in this ever-delicate situation! My ex (love of my life as it were) and I have been apart for 5 months because we felt we needed to grow independently and also had had some baggage (he cheated while struggling with personal issues a few years ago and that created a rocky aftermath, but he grew as a person and evolved far from that). We have both dated, and i know that he only has wanted casual dating with girls, but he is the type of guy who has a hard time doing that because he starts to care for someone that he's spending time with just by virtue of emotional familiarity. He has been seeing one girl casually consistently, and we still see each other because we are both free agents, but he has said he refuses to engage in intimacy with me because he knows it is "too dangerous" and he cannot just be casual with me. And yet I see him gradually growing more attached to his casual fling/s, and I just feel that his discrimination to me (because of our rich history and his fear that he would become emotionally roped in to seriousness with me again) is risking throwing away an amazingly special connection we have (that he's admitted is far beyond anything he has with other girls). I know i know I know I cannot make him want to try a go with me again if he's not feeling it at this point, but i feel that he blocks his feelings of affection for me because of his prejudice against falling for me, and I want to take down those walls. I want to bring out the affection we have for each other and that is just being pushed away by him, and I want us to be able to be emotionally vulnerable and loving towards each other. He openly says he deeply cares about me and that I don't have to worry about other women, but I am just heartbroken that we are unable to express our affection for each other and embrace it. I have Perfect Match, but the reviews on the forum that talk about this repelling "commitment phobic" men makes me scared to use it....do you think I should give it a shot with occo or will this repel him?? My full arsenal: -Perfect Match (I actually got a great hit from him months ago on this but his detachment from his feelings has grown since then) -Cuddle Bunny (never got anything out of the ordinary around him with this) - Red Lace & Lace - La Femme Mystere - Treasured Hearts - Open Windows - BAM - Gotcha -Blatant Invitation -OCCO white If PM is too risky then I'm thinking some promising options might be: TH + occo (but is TH too social/friendly to elicit loving/sexual affection?); some combo with Lace; some combo with Gotcha? I considered Blatant invitation to just force down his puritan barrier, but I'm nervous that it might backfire and the sexuality not be tempered enough with affection? Thank you for reading this far if you have loves :) and I can't wait to hear your thoughts!

Alright so I have un-LFM and finally can post some notes after wearing it out for the 3rd time this week! I like this one a lot, not so much because it has given me any holy grail DHILs or achieved any specific end I was setting it up for, but it's just the first 'mone which I've noticed SOME sort of evidence of from others every time I wear it...so yay!!! I wasn't sure it'd be my fave because the description of sophisticated, respectful, etc, while they sound great...they're not as exciting as some other blend descriptions that wax sexual goddess and temptress of the Nile and all of that.. i have to say though, I'm loving the admiration that it provokes! Every time I've worn it I've had men around me use descriptors like "darling" "dear" " ma'am"...hehehe, a little respect is always nice . I wear this around my running buddy, originally because i could tell he has a thing for me and wanted to wear my least sexual phero so as to avoid encouraging him....but he's quite persistent! Hard to know if it's him or the phero, but I'm sure projecting that LFM allure doesn't hurt Today I was at a coffee shop and kept getting plenty of friendly attention from one of the gorgeous men working there while I clicked away at my lap top, and at the end before I left he introduced himself to me and kept insisting that I should come back. *scheming* Now just to pick what phero to zap him with next....hehehehe. That has been my most obvious hit thus far with pheros, actually. Oh! And I read about the LFM/gotcha combo on another thread, and was actually wearing that specifically at the coffee shop, so I am a full supporter of layering those two! It's hard to know if the hit was induced more by admiration or a cozy comfort from gotcha, but everyone who worked there was being very friendly and courteous to me, so either way they did their job...

Got this in an un-test spray and did 2 sprays last night before going out to experiment...besides a few drunken sloppy guys in the group who were all over every girl they saw, I didn't notice any hits or behavior out of the ordinary. For this in alcohol spray, how many sprays work best for you? (I'm in early-mid 20s as far as cops production)

I have been giving Cougar more of a shot lately! Had a few hits the first night I wore just that, but then the next time I wore it I was really just not in the appropriate mood and my sourness negated any possible effects I'm sure... I have so many new ones to test out but i will be cycling cougar in the rotation more as well for sure

You know, i just ordered this as a test Un-spray and it should arrive by the end of the week! Excited to test her out!! And greenergal, that's funny how differently self and hit effects work isn't it?? I love SS4W but sometimes I feel like it can make me too hyper and cheeky, if I wear too much. I wonder if combining SS4W with some balm bomb would counter that...or if that would just be a disaster salad of canceling out effects, hm. Will have to try!

Do you guys recommend this in oil or alcohol spray form? (as far as Balm bomb phero is concerned)

QUESTION: SS4W vs. COUGAR? -They're both referenced here as sexy sparkly socials, so which one do you guys prefer, for the purpose of getting a more sexy gaga response from a specific target male? My guy is interested in me/thinks I'm hot, but is very hands off in actually taking initiative with making plans...seems like he enjoys me when i'm around but is not starved for the juice when I'm gone :/ hehehhe. I need to imprint some unforgettable sexy into this man's skull!

I have SS4W in alcohol and have had great success with getting that cheeky, confident glow you ladies are talking about, although it did make me feel lightheaded in a drunk kind of way the last time I wore it! did about 4 sprays, I was in the clouds! Maybe too cheeky, hehe . QUESTION: SS4W vs. COUGAR? -They're both referenced here as sexy sparkly socials, so which one do you guys prefer, for the purpose of getting a more sexy gaga response from a specific target male? My guy is interested in me/thinks I'm hot, but is very hands off in actually taking initiative with making plans...seems like he enjoys me when i'm around but is not starved for the juice when I'm gone :/ hehehhe. I need to imprint some unforgettable sexy into this man's skull!

Lucky lady! You have him well-trained I wasn't a huge fan of the "perfumey" smell of Enduring Appeal/cougar either, and must say I prefer the edible foodie scents...but I never get compliments on those! Hmph. Still have never had DIHL from my Velvet kisses version of CB, depite wearing it around multiple men who I know have various levels of interest in me. I do want to buy and try the amped up un-CB. Confused though: people talk about Pharmacon CB being a lot more sexual, but when I search for unscented the only one that comes up is "Ali's Cuddle Bunny." Is this the same as the pharmacon version, or is the more sexual pharmacon version no longer for sale on site?

Love the scent of this and this was my first experience with CB, so i've been very excited to see what all the DIHL hype is about! i've been experimenting with this in different amounts of application for the past 2 weeks though, and somehow I just feel like it's dead on me :/ or everyone around me is just immune. Been around multiple different prospects with it - who I know have some degree of interest, and nothing out of the ordinary . Half the time I've layered the roll-on VK CB with a spritz of unscented Lace, nothing there either. I will keep trying to mess with amounts, but even so I love the dessert chocolatey smell! Though to my olfactory senses it seems to fade shortly after application..Agreed with the perfection of the orangey notes wafting to the top over the warm milky choco foundation. What application amounts/locations have given you guys the best DIHL reactions?

Thanks for the heads up, will lay off for a day or two. Am i correct though in thinking that because Velvet Kisses is scented, it has less CB in it than un-CB? And does it have the same amount or less CB than the Ali's Cuddle Bunny perfume?

I wonder, do you tend to have a delicate, feminine air or personality about you already that is just highlighted by Cuddle bunny? I am not masculine, but I am not dainty either. I wonder if it only works for females who already have a distinctly feminine vibe about them, and falls short for anyone on the more alpha side of the scale.. Today I tried to layer it with some unscented SS4W to maybe balance out the Est, and eh, no difference from any other time.

not mine, but isn't she precious??> Man, so when I use CB alone, I just haven't noticed anything yet. I've done it with one 2 inch chest swipe, a swipe split betwee wrists that i then smear onto neck. Ive also gone a bit more liberal and run it up and down my chest + swiped it all across my collarbone and on one wrist. Nada...wondering if in Velvet kisses you really need to use a lot more than usual because it's diluted by perfume, or if somehow I'm going overboard and should only use very little...

Okay so I am gleaning from boards that Cuddle Bunny is a maintstay potion for many an LPMPer (not all of course), and that it has been known to elicit both chivalry and naughtyness from male victims of its charm... I finally got my hands on some CB via Velvet Kisses, and am ready to go to town! Trying it on its own first and foremost of course, but I am also curious of other ways to use it. Since it's so popular, I am venturing to guess that many have tried it layered with other phero blends for various effects and occasions, and I'd like to know if you have favorite CB combos that have boosted your success or tweaked the type of hits you've gotten from CB alone! Specifically, I also own: Cougar Lace Super Sexy for Women BAM Perfect Match I've heard lace amps up the CB (increased Est of course). Any success with layering CB + SS4W? To get a more of the sexy sultry side of CB beyond just the cuddly? Layering combos beyond the blends above also welcome!

BAM pink amber has been my first cops experience... can't say I'm crazy about the scent, because I do get hit with the fruit Cops smell when I put it on and that is what I most remember about it...the dried down scent I feel is a light background perfume that I forget I'm wearing.. No crazy DIHL hits seared in my memory yet, but I have had variable responses and am still tweaking amounts. Soooo, I wear it the first night after I recieve my order to meet up with my best female friend I hadn't seen in forever and some guy friends. My bff was actually super gushy over me, pointing out to all the guys how "Wasnt i just so beautiful and like a model"etc etc....awkward hah. But she's always super sweet, si I don't know if that could have just been seeing me for the first time in a long time. That evening I had rolled a strip on my chest and all down my torso, plus one dot split between wrists. I'm 23 for reference as to probable natural cops production. Not sure if that was too much, or not quite enough, or if it's supposed to be that subtle with this blend? Another few times I wore it I did notice a few double takes while at bars just walking through the crowd, but none of those felt compelled enough to stop or talk to me. So I'm guessing this is about what to expect if you don't actively solicit the attention with a huge smile and eye contact ... this time just chest and torso. Last night though, i think I must have been toeing the line with some ghosting effects...because I put a generous strip on my chest, plus on both sides of my neck and one drop between wrists.... and then 3 hours later right before heading out door to friend's party and bars, I couldn't resist the urge to roll another light strip on my chest...:x bad bad i KNOW! i didnt get anything near DIHL, nor any special attention, and i was looking pretty sexy that night! I did end up getting horrifically obviously hit on by my one guy friend whose friend hinted a bunch how beautiful he thought i was.. then eventuall my guy friend talked about how he had been upset and left the night before from our friend's place when I said I was over there and he came to find me there with another one of the guys in the group making me Old Fashioneds...basically confessed that he hoped I had wanted to hang out with just him and was upset to see another guy wooing (according to him, not me) me or trying to or whatever. Ugh, that was awkward though because I just want to be friends with him, And i have a feeling his hitting on me/confessing was encouraged by the B-nol and despite the Cops overload...I think the beta-nol illicited that feelings-sharing on his part eeek. Annoying situation though now cause it will be awkward to try to keep him in friend zone ahh. Ohhhh, Beta-nol, you cruel wench. Anyway...sorry to ramble but basically, I'm pretty sure I ODed by refreshing my chest twice and i shouldn't have done the neck...next I will dry just one dab on chest and one strip EITHER down torso OR behind neck. Any advice for which body parts are most effective for putting the Cops or whether diff. parts elicit different potency of cops emission?

hehe that's my friend's pup, can't get over his cuteness I'm going to try Pherogirl then if it's slightly less potent, because I don't want to risk the ghosting OD effect with cops before I get a better feel for how much to use. I'm still not sure if I'm using enough or too much Perfect Match (spending time with my on/off)...I've been doing 3 (unscented) sprays, and then refreshing two or so hours later with 1 or 2 more sprays...so have ranged between dose of 3-5 sprays and haven't noticed a distinct difference to point me in either direction. I feel like soon after I refresh with a 4th or 5th, the mister take some lusty action but it could also be just with the progression of time and his discipline running out lol. Does anyone think there's a case for PM being most effective with only 1-2 sprays or more than 4 sprays? also - so excited about my cuddle bunny in Velvet Kisses arriving in the mail!! ^-^

Wow thank you everyone for the welcome and recommendations! PM and Bam each on their own then ...I've had my eye on the Occos! I'm liking the sound of Gold...I also really like the sound of Pouncing Potion phero girl!! Does anyone know if there is a difference in the amount of Cops in OCCOs vs in pherogirl, or if it is just a scent difference?

Hello all, I'm a newbie, first post! I just joined a week ago and have already placed my second order + spent way too much devouring the message board ... I think I'm among friends though when I say this stuff is addicting. Sooo, in my first order I got Perfect Match and BAM, and of course only the BAM has copulins in it. I used PM the other day when catching up with an on/off ex, who I know is sexually attracted to me but is usually able to hold back expression of it these days...definitely got a hit with the PM! He was making comments about my lady magic throughout the evening and couldn't resist getting feely with the hug. He had to hold himself back from kissing me (he's 24, doesnt want a relationship lifestyle now, so I'm starting to get the picture that it's not going to happen.. sigh.). I was also wearing it when I saw him today, but we had the serious "what are we talk" so I expectedly didn't get any hit from the PM since the situation wasn't exactly congruent with that haha :/ My question is: I want to try Perfect Match with cops (on other guys, i'm done with that dead end road^) with copulins, so could I get this effect by layering it with BAM? Or would these two result in some sort of canceling out effect? They both have the beta-and., but I don't know if messing up the Beta-and ratio that's in PM would cause a negative effect or if more would just amplify both potions? Any experiences, or chemical knowledge? Thank you in advance, and I hope to get to know everyone and learn much more as I dive into these boards!