shehoss99

Hi there, Wondering.....if the "target" (umm....it's hard to call my boyfriend my target) cannot pick up the phero perfume's scent unless your wrist is in his nose, does that mean the pheros are not diffusing enough as well? as in: do you have to smell the scent to be picking up the phero in such a blend? do they break down 1:1 in that way? thank you!

Thanks, Katz. I'll take 'em!

Thanks for all of the suggestions! I would elaborate, but truly, the reality is nowhere near as interesting as the fantasy! You'll have far more fun guessing than knowing.

Hmmm... Well, I am only just getting going. I still have to do my intro post, so much of htis won't make a lot of sense, but on the day my first (and as yet only) order showed up, my life DID change! And it had started to whisper of change when I found the LPMP site, which in and of itself, with its artwork and delicious descriptives is a lift in any down moment. And then....the scents! I told Mara that I was so grateful--when I opened those bottles--so many including the sniffees, and each one was like a gem in a splendorous box wrapped and placed for me beneath the Christmas tree. I was truly overwhelmed with their craft, and with what I believe is the feeling of love and well-wishings that go into their creation. Talking with Mara gave me hope in a very dire situation, and in general, I feel as if I was in a dark room, and now there is a Christmas tree with all manner of lights and decorations on it in there with me. Somedays the room is less dark than others, but in general, my room in this life has been a curious prison that has challenged me to the core with imperatives of evolution and endurance. I have worked and worked and worked my ass off at my life and healing, under extreme physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, and social duress for the last 25 years, and the discovery of LPMP to me feels like a harbor in a tempest. A really great-smelling harbor. Prior to LPMP, this year I had been working with essential oils with great love and enjoyment, feeling much more connected to the natural world through them and enjoying the creativity of amateur perfuming. But the heights of concocted essences achieved here, the love behind them, and the community that has grown in their splendid wake have enlarged my sense of relief and inspiration rising up from the sensual world of scent. Oh yes, and my boyfriend has now hugged me twice before leaving for work for the first time in over a year, and last night he jumped on my bed, said "i like your room" and had me cuddle and spoon with him to watch mountain biking instructional videos (romantic, right? ). It's not exactly raging hot sex, but it is such a huge step forward out of many years of pain that it is almost a jaw-dropping bodice ripper for me. More on me and my romantic tale when I finally get around to that intro.... So, yes, in short order, my life is already changed. For the better. Gratitude to LPMP and you all! ps. I don't really know you forum members yet, but in having begun to read your posts, I feel as if I almost do know some of you. I loved Dolly's conclusion above: "life, friendship, companionship, and LOVE" Yes, yes, yes, and yes.

Hi ladies (and gentlemen), What would be your phero pick(s) for something like this: Imagine........You are in a small harem where keeping things fun, girlie, and sensual is the delightful-est way to roll. You want to bond deeply with the girls, establish a leadership role amongst them, and ensure that you are the juiciest apple of the harem master's discerning eye when he drops in on occasion to sample the wares. No, I am not part of a harem! It's just the most colored and fanciful way to describe a social setting I will be in. Sex is not actually involved, but the desired elements of 1. flirty-friendly bonding with girls while maintaining low-key social dominance,and also 2. appearing mildly (not wildly) sexually attractive to men at the same time are the social grease for these particular wheels. Perhaps the situation needs two different formulas? Curious to hear your expert thinking.... thank you!

Why thank you, Mz DC! No, I have not yet written my introduction post. It will be a bit bookish. My stakes are quite high, I must say. At their most dramatic and extreme, it could be life or death. and I am only half-winking there. At the same time, on a very relaxed note, I am so so so ecstatic to have discovered the world of pheremones, Mara, and the microcosm of LP in particular. If only I had the funds to match that ecstasy, I would be thigh-high in a phero treasures chest already.

Hi. I am very new to pheros too. I just tried Lumina yesterday, and I was amazed--it made ME happy! I spontaneously said, "great" when asked how I am, despite being decidedly not great. I said it repeatedly throughout the day when asked how I am. I actually do work very focusedly with my mood (also have depression/anxiety from neuropsychiatric Lyme Disease), and this was......utterly effortless. I usually get incredibly stressed talking to my family, and I had a call with my parents that I felt exactly as I always want to: caring and loving with no sense of agitation and recoil. I got ice cream and the clerk actually beamed at me and said, "is that enough hot fudge and walnuts for you? just want to make sure!". ummm.....the dish was overflowing and she could not have crammed anything else in there had I asked her to. That part may have been a coincidence as I am just using an oil sample perfume w/Lumina, and it is not hot enough in Seattle, i don't think, for the pheros to have wafted over to her. but.....perhaps? I tried OCCO Ambrosia for the first time today and noticed nothing on myself (of course, I was still a bit sugar-high from yesterday's cheat or anyone in close proximity to me, which REALLY disappointed! (I am on a mission to save my relationship). I was so surprised to not have reactions given the reputation of the cops. I felt like I was congruent too. Same thing happened when I tried La Femme Mystere--nothing. argh-I so love the concept of that concoction!

that is so incredibly kind! i feel very grateful to have found this perfumerie, and to have been counselled by Mara on the phone. Sweetness all around. happy sigh....

I tried this one as well, and it seemed to at least not have a negative effect on my boyfriend. Again, i like the scent. In fact, i love ALL the scents. I am so so so in love with these fragrances! Hoping I can find a phero that decidedly works for me. Results have been wishy washy to negative so far.

I just tried it with decidedly no effect, although I like the scent. I used it in the Blue Moon fragrance, was postiively sandwhiched between two men for a while in a small car, was at a dance event dancing in proximity to men, and I felt like i must be a sexless being. I am attractive and used to be a "man magnet" , alas, at 42 (now 44), something happened, and I became invisible to men. so weird! I don't think I particularly look that much older than when I was 40, and people are always shocked when they hear how old I am. and so....pheramones! I am so surprised it didn't work! My boyfriend actually had a nasty remark about the Blue moon fragrance. Next!