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Luna, I was about to say that I wasn't sure about the LFM/LFN around him, but then I remembered the LP Rouge has LFM and that was quite the hit. He's on a mini tour right now so I can't judge the effects of any pheros, but I have noticed I get better results with the more social mixes. And by social, I mean more like Open Windows or even TMI, not SS4W social. I've had good result with Comp Pos., but only putting it on when it was obvious we were headed in that direction. I've also seen him putting on something like either Heart Throb or Hunter Trapper right before sexy time, maybe it does make him more pouncey. He's coming home for one day this weekend, very much looking forward to it.

Smart. But do bottle counts on people's home screens, like say someone's daughter keeps bugging her about Sugared Cherries but she keeps forgetting, if that person had it in a "cart" at home but not actually placed the order, does that mess up actual bottle count? I'm not even sure if my question makes sense.

Yeah! I'm not crazy!

Oooh, you said a bad word. You know, I kind of always expect it. The crazy thing about my man, he prefers to initiate. He's a passive guy everywhere except in bed. (Or car or kitchen or wherever.) So my initiation has to be somewhat passive or just suggestive, he likes to seduce me. His favorite is if I'm slightly resistant and then he completely overcomes all resistance and I'm 100% his. This is the pattern of our relationship, he pursued me for almost 2 years before I gave in, I'm sure that's part of why he fell so hard. (Maybe too much Tupac growing up? "Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me, I don't want it if it's that easy...") In his case, saying "I expect sex now," might be the one thing I could say to guarantee me no sex. So I have to wait for him to pounce, I've ruined the mood by being too aggressive. But I have found myself very pouty about not being pounced upon. I will try to notice phero's at that time. I have also noticed that tons of sexy pheros (excluding cops) can cause a surprising no-sex situation. Again, could be that signals that I'm down are so strong that he doesn't have opportunity to coax me into it.

Is it weird that I check here to see if I myself posted about getting a shipping notice?

I wore this today, and I was in a hurry and so excited to fog myself that I missed my neck and the first spray hit my face. Like I literally sprayed this at my face, the only way it could've gotten to my brain's scent center faster would have been to spray it directly up my nose. Somehow this didn't faze me, only slowed me down for a second, and I went right on with my fogging shenanigans. I know I've only had this for a few months, but it seems to have settled down and smoothed out a little more. It's really lovely.

I'm kind of kicking myself for not ordering this. When I was making my last order, I was rushing a bit, and decided on FB sprays of Juicy Lucy, Luxurious, and Liebchen for me, and Shark Dressed Human for my man. But Gossamer Threads has been so good! I keep reaching for my sample. I think possibly I might also be drawn to the sprays this time around because I love the labels. And I remember wanting Bad Girl too.... I can't believe it's March already.

And, I messed up. I shower so often, sometimes 3X a day. But went to work tonight without 2nd shower and without a thought about the LAM Peach I had slathered on. Which is silly because I can still smell it if I put my nose directly on my wrist 6 hours later. And I remembered when I caught some guy giving me DIHL. This happened once before with the same guy when I had wrong pheros on for teaching. I know there's nothing wrong with his filters so I felt bad and tried not to walk near him at all in the room. I even found myself holding my breath the few times I did have to go nearby, as if me holding my breath would keep him from smelling me. Lame. I will be more responsible with the cops in the future! Bumming out/ confusing my students is NOT my objective.

Happy wife = happy life. So, Halo and Snoop, I do resemble these remarks. Probably the only time I get genuinely pouty. And my man is anything but stingy in this department, so if he falls asleep or is having feelings that inhibit the sexy time, I could safely conclude that his body needs sleep or he needs alone time and it's not personal, but I don't draw that conclusion. I'm wondering if I'm doing it to myself? He does have multiple favorites with Perfect Match, but I'm pretty liberal with the Balm Bomb, LFM, and LFN. Maybe I just need to wear them with a disclaimer? Or do I warn him? Like, "I'm wearing some LFM, so don't even think of putting on Mark's Girl Nip unless you're planning on putting out?" There's got to be a more romantic way to say that, my man is sensitive, but there's a good chance that I will say it exactly like that. I'm reminding myself of the episode on The Office where Clark is complaining about his sexual relationship with Jan. He was mid to late 20's, she was mid to late 40's. CLARK: Women reach their sexual peak at whatever age Jan was last week. And if that wasn't funny enough, he went on. CLARK: I mean it was… like making love with a wild animal. But not like a cougar like you might think. It was uh… like a swarm of bees. Bees that just find something wrong with every hotel room. Edit- He just texted me to tell me he made it back to his hotel room, he's on tour right now. My response? "Women reach their sexual peak at whatever age I'll be next week." An ounce of prevention, right?

I layered scented BB with Gossamer Threads the other day, it was really really nice. I can't wait for my spray of Gos. Threads to get here. And agreed, BBM goes with anything. Especially boobs.

Luna, I slathered for my own entertainment while watching Everything Sucks, and later went to therapy. Fortunately she's a woman and we don't sit terribly close.

You are a smart man. Better to be safe than sorry.

Maybe you yourself smelled yummy to her.

I still don't know that I "like" this perfume, but I'm drawn to it. It's raining outside but I'm toasty warm, but the outside air has that good decaying wet leaves smell that I rarely smell in California. On the East Coast, the wet fall days had a very particular scent that I miss. And I love the sound of the rain. So the sounds and smells once again compelled me to slather on Totem: Bat before bed. Edit - wearing it again three days later, for my personal entertainment. I went to lunch with just my daughter, and then we went to play mini golf and did a bit of her kind of shopping. I later put a bit of Buttercream Peach over it, which is a very odd combo I know, but it settled into something mysterious and deep.

Anytime I don't get sex when I want it I get angry. Is there a such thing as "irrationally" angry under those circumstances? Kidding aside, I'll keep an eye out for that response. Or maybe I'll just explain, "since you smell so good in your whatever with whatever, if you don't put out, there will be hell to pay. I will stare at you with daggers in my eyes for countless hours while you carelessly sleep the night away."

Well, I do love the LAM Buttercream Peach, but I can't just slather and go roam the earth. I did pull off my trade with my daughter with exactly zero resistance. She now has like 10 LP's so isn't remembering them individually. "Honey, you liked the Kittenish perfume I put on this morning with the little baby kitten on the label?" "yes..." she said, somewhat hesitantly. "Well, If you'd rather have that then your 'Scent of Oatmeal,' we could trade." "Mama, I don't want to smell like oatmeal!" she yelled, stamping one foot in exasperation.

I am jealous, Luna, that many of you can get that "everything in my life will be perfect if I could just have this again, kinda love." feeling about this one. But I have it with Wicked and Spontaneous Combustion and at least 10 other LP's, so it's okay. I just need one with peach!

I think this is an example of how one note can really stand out, perception wise, if it doesn't agree. I think for me here the benzoin and maple together somehow make a third note that overpowers the peach for me. It smells good, but I was expecting more peach. I want peach. Where are my peaches? I used to know a girl named Peaches, and she sometimes said, "Times are hard." She would use it as an excuse for bad behavior, and say that instead of "oops, I'm sorry," or having any kind of personal accountability. My best friend and I turned it into a joke, and we would say "Times are hard, Peaches." But times should never be hard for the peaches themselves. I tried to fix it with A Treasure of Copper on Top and times got harder. I haven't messed anything up so bad that I had to wash it off for a long time, but I was doing so much sniffing and thinking I started to give myself a headache. Maybe I'll go eat some cookies to speed along my recovery. My daughter already asked for this one because of the cute kitten on the label. She did run off with my Oatmeal Fairycake the other day, looks like I'm about to do my first official "trade" with a new trading partner! How hard could it be? "Well, it's up to you babe, but what do you like more, oatmeal or kittens? Mommy just wants you to be happy."

I'm going to have to wear this again soon! I wore it tonight, and I smelled amazing, but I could smell the lavender from the Balm Bomb I had misted on earlier in the afternoon. I'm very much into oak moss this week, and musks, so it fits right in. I think the phero combo was good, though, mood wise, because I was able to tackle a conversation I've been avoiding for a few weeks.

I really wanted this to work for me. I want my whole life, my house, my bed, my kids, my cats, to smell all pretty and soft like this, but it's just not a "me" scent. I think I'm just more of a turn of the century prostitute, I like the richer resins and musks that the women of questionable virtue wore. But, it's my understanding that proper ladies who worked in department stores made $5 or $6 a week, whereas the whores made up to ten times as much money and had many more social freedoms than their wholesome counterparts. If I were living in the HBO show Deadwood, I'd rather be Joanie Stubbs (a feisty, well-dressed lesbian madame) than Alma Garret (wealthy wife/widow who married to get her father out of debt and who dealt with her boredom with laudanum). It's really really pretty. I hope I find a good violet scent for me soon.

I'm fairy certain I'm not in a position to be judgmental! Do you have Aurora or Lady V's Midnight Snack? Maybe you could use one of those to not miss out on one of your pherotines?

Not crazy. I have 5 drops DHEAS over Time Travel 1890 and there's a faint hint of chocolate. Edit: Chocolate hint dispersed with 20 minutes.

I can't help you at all, all I can say is that I feel your pherotine order pain. Hearts has a Lavender Fairycake on her trade list, maybe that's something you could work with?

I know, right?! Maybe I'll wear it on the subway, late at night, after all the bars close.

Me too!