LadyRose

He is the first Leo I have ever been with and so far, Dolly & you are right. I've never had a more romantic relationship or so much sexual chemistry with anyone in my 44 years. Well, I'm off to get ready for my evening.

Thank so much for the info. I am loving your advice too. The mind blowing sex was the original reason I agreed to wait it out way back. He's amazing! I'm really trying to keep my emotions together but we both do that juvenile dance. Looking deep into the eyes and say, you know how I feel about you right? WTF?? Neither one of us wants to be the first to say it. I'm a Libra and we're spectacular together, he tells me that often. A regular compliment fest. I figure he is either going to exasperate me or I will adore him. Before last week, adoration was winning. I'll probably stick it out.

I think that’s a good idea I’m just unsure since the Lacey Ladyrose had him walking all over her and taking her for granted. I will probably give Leather another go with mega cops. He's got me confused but in all honesty, I'm just about convinced that he doesn't know what the hell he wants. The psychic, without me ever mentioning anything laid out the cards and then said, well look at this, you have a Leo. He's got a lot of work, people depend on him and he's an escape artist. She sees him going away for a couple of months and then always being there in my life. UUUGGHHH! Just what I need! I tell you what. If he leaves, I'm taking a page out of Luna's book and calling it a day. I just discovered how much I like Neaderlicious and I do have Tah. Hmmm.... I'm loving your guy's sense of humor. I always said, before the 21 year marriage crashed and burned, I've almost got this one housebroken. Why on earth would I want to start training another?! Life changes though doesn't it?

I have UN Lace and love it, tends to make me feel flirty, people want to hold doors for me and such. I also got the Alpha Androstenol at the Woozy Floozy strength, 7,500 per bottle. They both make me happy but the Alpha makes me and those around me over the top happy and giddy.

Thanks Dolly, That's my plan for tomorrow night. I usually follow the rules and try new mixes alone but I was too nervous and worried to do that and I only had Leather for a few hours before my date. Tyvey, Your support has been great! and there is NOTHING wrong with 1990's Madonna. LOVED her tude. I'm really not sure exactly where I am with this other than I want to spend more time with him and be the ONLY one he is "dating". I feel like our talk went very well and he heard me. He has always encouraged me to be honest and upfront about what I wanted and needed. Early on in our relationship he had business issues and was gone all the time and back then I lodged a complaint and he did this little well, maybe we should stop seeing each other if I can't find time for you dance. I weighed the options and told him that I would wait a month and then reevaluate. The fact that he is better in bed than anyone I have ever been with, and takes good care of my needs there probably had a lot to do with it. After he got the business back on track we did very well and met regularly until the she devil came back about 6 weeks ago. I only found out about her last week but when I think back I remember when Our times were getting spaced further and further apart. We communicate a lot everyday but his other life doesn't include me. He claimed he was being discreet for my benefit but I'm calling BS on that one. I think it's more like he was keeping it to a vague, I'm seeing someone in the town I live in so that the ex wouldn't come interfering. Lord knows as soon as she got wind she started calling, sending cards and dropping in at his work. It just happens to be in the town she lives. If I don't start meeting friends, I'm out. I'm a little worried that the two of us were more subdued last date. He was attentive, but not nearly as much as he usually is. I ended up doing a lot of the work. Don't get me wrong, I had a good time but it's the first time With Lace, BI, and the others phero mixes that I have used the sex was hot and off the charts. He's easily a 5-6 hour guy, but not last time. This is the first time that I left thrilled with my relationship victory but not feeling devoured, ravished and thoroughly satiated as is the norm. He had an amazing time and keeps telling me that. I believe him since this is the first time he wanted another date immediately after our last. I hope it was just the TH that left him more subdued. After our date, I want tomorrow night to be all about raw unadulterated hot sex. Rosegirl, If things don't go as well as I want them to tomorrow, I was thinking that would be my next plan of attack.

Thanks Dolly, (BTW, LOVE your new avatar) I guess I was too busy thinking that I didn't want to appear stronger than him since he isn't the most alpha person in the world. But as I've gotten to know him, I do see that he likes to run things, just quietly so we don't notice but then again since he ends up taking care of everyone and everything in his life, maybe he does like me because I'm strong. Not like everyone else constantly asking him for help for every little thing. I'm pretty sure if not for the advice you ladies gave me here, I would've done Lace with a shot of Est and taken the "you are hurting my feelings and making me sad" path. I'm thinking it would have been a huge mistake! As it stands now we have a date tomorrow night and it will be LEATHER and Cops all the way. I liked the DIH looks from him and they were missing last time. Do you think a shot of straight Alpha Androstenol might help with that? Momentarily, I figure if I can't have "bonding", I want him lusting after me.

Yeah, I've got the UN Leather 2x plus cops. Mara talked me out of the whole double the cops the cops too idea. I haven't had a chance to sample enough of the perfumes to know that I want a full bottle of any phero mix. I did it with PG/TH and found out PG can't stand my body, ends up like anti freeze. So full bottle sitting here. After that I got everything UN. I do have both Cougars though and use them both.

I went with UN Leather. Most of my pheros are UN I like to change covers.

Well, I just tried Leather 2x yesterday for the first time and guess what? I'm wearing it today and LOVING myself. I'm counting yesterday as a success. I felt good/ confident and was able to get my point across without being seen as superbitch AND able to get my way just being myself. To tell the truth, Leather had me thinking my way or the highway but with the nicest of smiles. NICE! My norm is, if I'm thinking that way, there is no smile and it will indeed get done, by brute force in necessary. That's why I've always used Lace. Today, I'm getting respect but not the fearful kind. Also noticing a different type of guy watching me. It's almost a wow, she's sexy and I really want to do what she wants to make her happy. If I don't, who knows what could happen. I'm liking this. .

THANKS soooo much everyone for all of your wonderful advice. I do believe you are right! I was rethinking my use of Leather with him until he contacted me 4 times already today. He never contacts me first. I think it's a keeper. Yeah, I'm reevaluating the whole situation. When I think back, I've always been super sweet with him and had never gotten or rather SHOWN my anger with him. I really think the thought of me leaving woke him up a bit. If not, I will handle that too. I didn't survive 21 years of marriage to a total ass (although in that relationship I rule with an iron fist) without learning a thing or 10. I'm trying to decide but a little confused now. I have spent most of my life running everything and that's really my public side. I'm a closet girly girl and figured that since this guy likes to play hero, I could really let that side of my personality show. I did so enjoy how he doted on me IN PERSON and seemed so infatuated with Lace but he seemed to forget me once I was gone. With Lace, it was all about making me happy. In our entire relationship I've never been angry or correction, never SHOWN him that I was angry before. So freaking out on him when he tried to move our date had him back peddling before we ever met. With Leather, it seemed like he let me be in control and once our talking was done, (well me laying down the law and him agreeing) it was more me in control of the sex side too. More of a his being taken care of evening. I like "ME" evenings but maybe stronger me makes him confused. He always said in the beginning that he admired how strong I was because he knew what my home life was like. I'm confused! Leather and/or me sticking up for myself made some kind of impression on him because he has contacted me 4 times and it isn't even noon yet to tell me what a good time he had and how we need to go out again ASAP! He actually had days picked out. UNHEARD of, I always have to ask or make contact first. Me thinks Leather shows promise. Maybe go easier on TH? But I was hoping for the whole permanence vibe. Any ideas? Thank you so much. Time will tell I guess.

I plan on continuing with the Leather. However.... I do like the glazed over DIH want to jump my bones immediately look on him. Can you suggest anything to bring that back?

Welcome somethingsweet, I've place quite a few orders and I ended up ordering the Do it yourself kits to convert my oils from the first couple of orders to sprays. So if you are used to sprays, I would probably just order sprays from the jump.

Either that or do what I do, EXPRESS Shipping. Even then, as fast as they are, my ADHD having little self still gets impatient though.

Thank you so much for the great advice and good wishes. I am back from our outing! First let me say he tried to move it up so he could go out after our time and I freaked out on him early this morning and he spent the rest of the morning telling me how sorry he was and all he wanted to do was make me happy. Good start... I used what I had which was the UN Leather x2, and OCCO Red. I couldn't help myself so I threw in a couple of sprays of UN TH x2. He listened, and we have moved our relationship to a different level. He agreed with everything I said and it looks like a choice was made. Time will tell. And Shelly, the husband did come up. Tricky situation there, he is ill, refusing treatment in another country and I am beneficiary on the multi-mil policy. We all agree that if we divorce his mother will fight her grandkids and me. Yes, ugly, but that is my life right now. Now, about Leather..... I have used TH and OCCO Red with him before so Leather was the only difference. I didn't get the usual glazed looks of adoration that I normally get from him when I use Lace. Do you think Mr. Metro might actually lean alpha? I know he likes to run things as a rule although he's soft. He was very attentive but uncomfortable or maybe not so uncomfortable but more like off step and not nearly as touchy as is his norm. Maybe a little intimidated? As for me, Leather seemed to allow me to say what needed to be said without it being bitchy or whiney. Does that make sense? I'm going to have to check this out some more.

Although rules were made to be broken, I gave up on the whole limiting my purchases. And if I do the one purchase per month rule, then EVERY order is at LEAST 600.00. Somehow I am able to rationalize 3 or 4 orders of 300.00 in a month. Don't ask... it just makes sense to me. The next order will be Sprays of BAM & LAM x2 in both Spicy brown sugar and Pink Amber (I love them in the vanilla honey). I think I will also get OCCO Pink too.

The Garland & Lace seemed to hit me faster and harder than the UN Lace. That's vey strange since the UN has cops. Hmmm, I don't know why that would be but I love them both since sometimes I want to use another scent. The UN is perfect for that.

Thanks KrazyKat. A lot of cops you say? ABSOLUTELY! It is my goal to make sure he never forgets me. Tomorrow night should be interesting if nothing else.

Mara, thank you soooooo much for going above and beyond for me today! I can't wait to get my Leather tomorrow. I'm trying to talk myself into being a little more composed. Each time I get an LP package, I hug the postal worker, tell him I love him and I want to have his babies. Shocking coming from a 44yr old who has had a hysterectomy and has no desire to have any more spawn I must contain my enthusiasm as we now have a female mail carrier. Awwkwward...

WOW Luna! That sounds exactly like this situation and it scares me. I've got to do some thinking. But meanwhile, the lovely Mara just sent me a spray bottle of Leather and it will be here tomorrow by noon! Come what may, I will have it on hand. Thank you so much for sharing your painful experience.

So, I got a sample of this with my last order. Didn't bother opening it until this morning since I have Lace UN. I was a little down and decided to try G&L and let me tell you. I am LOVING it! It is absolutely delicious and my mood has definitely changed. I think I'm in love with myself.

Wouldn't you know it? With all of the LP pheromones I've ordered, I haven't even gotten a sample of Leather. FML!!! Any Ideas on what I could do to come up with a mix close to that? I have most AD products too. I think that I'm a horrible contradiction. I've run my house like hardcore mom and wife for years and he knows this but I've been all Lace and kittenish in this relationship which in all honesty is the real me. The bold, must handle everything is a big front so I can get through everyday life. Wonder if I can get some Leather overnight?

Under normal circumstances, I would be gone but... we started our relationship with a strictly FWB package and that ended up with it being more than we originally planned. Clearly he has no idea that I am livid or that anything is wrong since he just popped off with, "the person I'm kinda seeing, used to work for this company and it's a really good company, I would go with them" Then I did the person you are kinda seeing?!! Wait... What? He didn't miss a beat and said, "yeah, old GF from 6 years ago kinda seeing". I'm thinking no one is that dumb so he really has no clue there's a problem. I believe a face to face discussion is in order and that will be tomorrow. This guy likes to be Mr. Compassion and hero and he always tells me how I am able to handle everyone's problems blah, blah, blah.

Thanks Rosegirl That's my general plan. I'm looking for something that will assist this spectacular night as well as keep me from bringing out my inner shrew when I tell him we can't have her in the middle. He's 55, been divorced 10 years and I guess six years ago they broke up when she did the immaculate conception. I'm thinking BAM and...?

IRONIC MUCH?! Hello Pot, meet kettle but at least in my case, all parties involved have agreed my marriage is OVER and has been for years. OK, I'm a tiny, OK a lot bit unhappy with my situation. TG and I have been vey happy meeting once a week and having a great time. I noticed a little bit ago after he turned into the most loving person on our last "visit" with EST added to BAM he kinda backed off and broke a date with me etc. He had never done this before. I suddenly got a weird feeling and was starting to have some hurt feelings. Two days ago I saw a psychic and saw other people in our relationship. I couldn't believe it but... FINALLY yesterday I find out that Ex from SIX years ago, has been "kinda seeing" him again. He just told me this like it was really nothing and it was in passing. She heard that he wa seeing someone, dumped her current one and she"s baaack! Thank goodness he couldn't see my face! She's the main reason he's been so hard to rope in. Drama, baby that isn't his, while they were together. We have a "date" coming up and I want to have the advantage at this point. His family and friends all know her and I get the feeling history, good or bad might trump the 8 month relationship with LadyRose and that sucks! I've got a couple of days to figure out a kickass mix to win and/or a way of quietly calmly suggesting that he see her and finish that relationship and when he is done there, if I'm around, we can try again. I still get the daily you mean so much to me and our time together is so spectacular etc.He's a soft/ Metro guy who doesn't want to hurt anyone so I could easily picture him staying confused and just seeing us both indefinitely. AAARRRGGGG!!!! Any ideas?

I got a sample of OCCO Black and am so disappointed that it does something NASTY on my skin. It is gorgeous in the bottle but get it on my skin and I smell like a stale ashtray and it sticks to me too so I can't wash it off. OCCO Red, White, and Pink, however, I am all over those.